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    Angry step sis

    I just need to rant. Ok so my step sister is engaged to my ex boyfriend. I find this morally wrong Im i wrong to think this? I dont want to go to the wedding next fall but dont want to cause family drama.

    I only dated him for like 3 months then we stopped dating but were still talking and hanging out. He was also close friends with my best friend. My friend liked my step sister (not no more cause she now knows the real her) so invited her to his house for a party.

    Ok things were cool, but i worked across the street from his apartments and saw her going to his house all the time without me or my friend. We then go to the bar after shes been hanging out with him for a couple months and she tells me she likes him and says hope its ok with me (not is it ok with me). I say yes.

    ok, done ranting lol

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    so she only told you after they got engaged?


    but you dont like him anyway...so in the best interest of everyone...get over it

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    You dated for three months and its over now , she wasnt with him when you and him were an item so I see nothing wrong here just my op.

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    I see something wrong with it. I'd be pissed off too if my sister dated a guy I was with. Don't matter if I liked him or not, or if it were short term...fucked him or not. You don't do shit like that, imo. No standards...*no offense ksalerio*

    Switch the roles and put yourselves in ksalerio's position. I'd be fuming.

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    "We then go to the bar after she's been hanging out with him for a couple months and she tells me she likes him and says hope its ok with me (not is it ok with me). I say yes."

    You needed to confront the situation right there if it were so. Now, it's a double bind. Honesty, if maybe with some diplomacy, works much better than appeasement and inner conflict.
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    How long ago did you date him. If it was recent, id be pissed.

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    You gave him up. He is free game.

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    I don't regard a step sister as being kin to me.
    To me, they are like another stranger. They may be kin to legally, like my mother in law is kin to me. Damn, I thought I got over that!
    I am sorry, honey, but I think it's better that it turned out this way.
    Feel free to blow off steam, sometimes when I need to rant or blow off steam, I drive ino the woods, and start pitching a fit at the trees and the rocks.
    At least, they don't shout back.

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    I dont really care that shes dating him, cuz im the one who didnt want to be with him. its just more the fact that she would do something like that. to me my friends exs and sis's exs are a big no-no.

    And it prob just bugged me cause there are so many other reasons i didnt like her.

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    Yea she was dead wrong. Step sis or real sister...SISTER is still apart of the equation. That is just wrong. You don't date your girl-friends ex, so why should this be any different.







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    You were the one being dishonest. She asked you point blank if you cared...and YOU said NO. Maybe she shouldn't have dated him/got engaged to him...but you being mad that she did and you never said anything...well...it is what it is.

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    Sounds like it was just fuel to the fire. I that case I would agree with you.

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    Honestly, you're making this out to be far worse than it actually is. Alot worse atrocities in relationships happen all the time. Comparing them to this makes it seem like elementry school. You were not honest, and even if you were it would not have changed the situation.

    Now just keep it in the back of your mind. Even if they do make it to marriage. 50% of all marriages fail. Why worry about it? You dont want him, unless you are feeling the "i didnt want him but now that someone has him i want him back" in which case preschool classes are enrolling.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TJAndDani
    You dont want him, unless you are feeling the "i didnt want him but now that someone has him i want him back" in which case preschool classes are enrolling.
    OMFG....


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    3 months? PHTPHPHTPHT
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