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    Sad black girls that want to strip but aren't sure how to start

    hi, my name is Destiny. I am a 24 yr old mother of 2. i am very interested in stripping and I am unsure of how to go about getting into the business. Can anyone help me. I went into a gentleman's club last week to audition and was turned down. The manager said I need to learn how to strip. I bought the book the SFactor to get some pointers, but I 'm not sure that will be enough. Was anyone else used it. I have a friend who is also interested in stripping, but we both need help. CAN ANY ONE HELP US????????????

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    Default Re: black girls that want to strip but aren't sure how to start

    CAN ANYONE HELP? i see 6 people have looked at our message but no one has responed. can someone please answer us

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    Default Re: black girls that want to strip but aren't sure how to start

    read the threads plenty of info all around the board about stripping!

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    Default Re: black girls that want to strip but aren't sure how to start

    it's also possible that you were getting the run around

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    Default Re: black girls that want to strip but aren't sure how to start

    I'm confused by the title of your post. I think dancers of all ethnicities start off in the same boat as regards learning to dance.

    OK, first off, wait longer than an hour to get some responses. Some of us were at work last night and are just getting up.

    Secondly, look through the newbie board. There are a lot of threads on auditioning. Read the article at the top of the forum.

    Also, as far as learning how to strip, the only way to learn is by doing. You will probably have to start at a smaller club to get some experience, but there's pretty much a club for every dancer out there.

    Good luck to you.

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    Fjames, welcome to SW. Below you will find a WEALTH of topics on the subject that you have questions about. Susan is right, dancers of all ethnicities start off in the same boat. But..I do know where you are coming from in the same regard Fjames.

    Read from the topics below. There are alot of dancers on SW who are women of color who pride themselves on the way they carry themself, and the way they handle business.

    Hope this helps,
    CK

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...t=black+dancer

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...t=black+dancer

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...t=black+dancer

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...t=black+dancer

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...t=black+dancer

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...t=black+dancer







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    Default Re: black girls that want to strip but aren't sure how to start

    thanks for the advice everyone. is anyone from the md and dc area that can tell me what clubs r the best to go to? and if they are nude or just top less. i mean i'm okay with it either way but, i think my friend will be alot more shy if it is nude. oh and one more thing do i really need a weave if my hair isn't to the middle of my back, cause it does come past my shoulders? or do i just need to put some highlights in it? oh and any other feedback i can get would be great.

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    Again, please use the SEARCH feature. It is your FRIEND sweety







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    As a black dancer who has danced for a long time, I will tell you to NEVER go with another black dancer when trying to get hired. If you want to apply or audition with a white dancer fine, but clubs don't like to hire black girls in packs as they will white girls. I am serious about letting your friend go by herself to a different club to get hired.

    In the bulk of clubs the majority of your clientele is white, and as far as the club is concerned and you as well, too many black dancers on the floor is a liability. The less black girls on the floor, the better money shots you have.

    Don't be afraid of white people. I dance in clubs all over where most of the time I am the only black girl and it works to my advantage. I keep up with and outsell the other white girls in many clubs. White guys like variety although you will get a few redneck customers in the mix. You also will find black guys who won't buy from black girls too. If you are used to working in the mainstream world with lots of white people, the club environment won't be any different.

    Just starting out, just get hired where you can and gain some experience. I personally like clubs with a full bar better, so nude or topless to me is all the same if they sell liquor or at least beer and wine. Some juice bars that are not BYOB attract a young crowd with no money.

    ASAP after you have danced a month or so I would take the Dancer Wealth seminar. That is key if you REALLY want to make money in this business. www dancerwealth.com.

    Post some pictures if you have some, and we can tell you if a long weave or your real hair will be better.

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    Ive noticed that at my club the black girls tend to be some of the high earners because theyre a commodity (we had 2 for a long time but now have 4-6 on a weekend) ... they have many white businessman regulars... everyone has their nitch...

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    i understand what u mean Tina about taking my friend to a club with me, but she doesn't really want to go to a different club than me and i kind of fell the same. my mom knows that i want to strip, but she says she'll feel more comfortable if we go together. we are best friends and she just moved here from fl. i would also feel a little better is she went with me she is my support system. i will take ur advice to heart and if it doesn't work with both of us going to the same club than we will probably have to do what u said. are u from the dc/md area? if not is there anyone who is?

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    Once you go to a club and get turned down, it may be hard going back. Unless of course it is a black club.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fjames220
    i understand what u mean Tina about taking my friend to a club with me, but she doesn't really want to go to a different club than me and i kind of fell the same. my mom knows that i want to strip, but she says she'll feel more comfortable if we go together. we are best friends and she just moved here from fl. i would also feel a little better is she went with me she is my support system. i will take ur advice to heart and if it doesn't work with both of us going to the same club than we will probably have to do what u said. are u from the dc/md area? if not is there anyone who is?

    Then get hired at the same club just don't go to audition together...

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    Quote Originally Posted by fjames220
    i understand what u mean Tina about taking my friend to a club with me, but she doesn't really want to go to a different club than me and i kind of fell the same. my mom knows that i want to strip, but she says she'll feel more comfortable if we go together. we are best friends and she just moved here from fl. i would also feel a little better is she went with me she is my support system. i will take ur advice to heart and if it doesn't work with both of us going to the same club than we will probably have to do what u said. are u from the dc/md area? if not is there anyone who is?
    The point Tina was trying to make (not speaking for you miss lady) is that it's fine for you 2 to work together. But....DO NOT go into the club TOGETHER at the same time! Two black girls walking in a club trying to get hired together, will get you both TURNED DOWN TOGETHER!







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    I worked with a black dancer in Europe - she did very well, one of the highest earners and her customers were mainly white men. Her hair was natural, it was loose curls to the shoulder and she left it natural - no heavy oils/conditioners etc. You dont have to have long hair to make money, but I find men like shoulder length or longer.
    I agree that most customers are white, so some clubs wont want too many minorities. It may look more professional if you went in seperately. I know ur nervous - but you will get over it! If u feel u have to, then go in once together, and if ur turned down go seperately in the future. Good luck, I was so nervous the first time - but it does go.

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    I learned to dance a bit by watching other dancers - I used to be a waitress in a strip club. Im still learning and I dont do any pole tricks.
    I knew that I wasnt at the stage to get into a high end club that you needed to audition for - so Im starting in a low end club. Just keep practising in front of the mirror - or perhaps start at a lower end club and watch the other girls and then move to a better club.

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    thanks once again everyone for the advice. i have a male friend of mine that is going to take us to a club tonight just so we can see how the girls dance. he told me that the girls in that club will lie to me about how things work there. is that because the majority of them are black of is he wrong. i'm going to bring the advice about going to the club to audition at seperarte times to her attention. i know i am nervous, but i figure if i can audtion was i can do it again. it really wasn't that bad. i read that i'm supposed to keep eye contact with the men does that really help. i didn;t do that the last time. oh and one more question should i dance to the beat of fast music like i would in the club or not?

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    Just go to several clubs as a customer, and watch how the other girls dance. Just go with the flow. Some clubs don't require an audition.

    Don't worry about what girls say. Just get hired. An all black club is different than a mixed club. Generally there is a lot of bs to deal with in all black clubs with a few exceptions. The important thing now is to just get hired SOMEWHERE! Then you can move around once you learn the ropes and hear how other clubs work.

    If you go to a black club, sure you can get hired together. But in other clubs just go to different clubs separately. Don't both of you try to get hired in the same place. There is nothing to be afraid of. JUST DO IT!

    And take the Dancer Wealth seminar within 30 days or so. It really will teach you how to make money.

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    thank u tina. well, i went to the club last night and it wasn't that bad actually. eventhough the guy i went with acted like an ass. he payed this girl to give me a lap dance so i would know how, but that was a waste cause i already knew how. he got mad cause i wouldn't talk to a guy that tried to talk to me. and there were some other issues, but we won't get into those. but it's what ever. i think i could dance in that club though it seems like a good place to make money eventhough there weren't alot of people there. i thought thurs. was a busy night. was i wrong? i'm going to try and audition there to night or at least look at some more clubs. i'm trying to make some money fast and my friend is bullshiting. she was supposed to go last night, but chickened out. she said it would just make her more nervous. but, it just gave me a little more insight on what i had to do. oh i have a question do u know of any good stores to get stripper gear from cause i cann't shop on the internet i have to try things on. i'm only 95lbs., i wear a 32a bra and i am only 4'10 so i have a hard time find things that fit right. please, can someone let me know asap?

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    ^^ Hi Fjames - you are tiny!! I'm about your size (5'0, 32C, 9 and I shop at www.attractivewear.net (you can find them on ebay as well) and victoria's secret (XXS and XS sizes). Attractivewear has cute stuff, but the longer items might swallow you up. You can also get good shoes from attractivewear, although I like www.snaz75.com better.

    You may want to go to a storefront though to try some stuff out first.


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    Well thats good you went, and it is interesting to see how another girl dances. I thought about dancing for AGES before I did it - I wish I had gone sooner, but I chickened out many times. I spent so much time thinking/worrying about starting out. I would suggest you call a club (Im starting out at a quieter club - even Thursday nite is quiet, it gets busy very late on Fri and Sat - Though each club is different) and then arrange an audition. They will tell u what u need to bring. If you are nervous then look at the back of the room, but try to make a little eye contact as men like that. Practice a few sexy moves in front of the mirror. The club will know you are a beginner and that u will obviously improve.
    Just start somewhere u feel comfortable and once u have experience/confidence u can move on. I started out with a really cheap short black dress, a black thong, and some low heels - all from a small cheap discount shop here in Toronto. I didnt want to spend to much, until I saw what the other girls were wearing. You have auditioned before - so you;ve already done that hard part!

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    thank u amethyst i went to attractivewear.com and i liked what i saw. now the hard part is ordering something and hoping that it fits well. but i geuss if u order from there to and ur small like me then it couldn't hurt. i'm going to call that club i went to on thurs. annika to see what i need to bring to the audtion. i'm going to try and go tomorrow. everyone wish me luck. i really think i would like working there.

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    Two girls walking in a club together will not get hired!!! That is not true. It actually depends on WHAT KIND OF CLUB you go to. Two black girls going into a white club together may not get hired. I dont know that. But what i do know is if you feel comfortable auditioning with your friend than you should do it! If yall two walked into a black club together you WILL get hired!! without a doubt. My friend and I did the same thing together because we did not want to split. And the only way that we was going to strip is if we were together. Because that is how much of friends we are. Fjames220 if you are still on here please let me know how it went.

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