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    Although I'm not too new, I have been reading the posts for some time. I'm not a dancer yet, but I have mild confidence that in a few months, I'll be able to do this.

    My question is, How do you talk dirty to a custy? What do you say. I'm not offended by explicitness.

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    Just out of curiosity, why do you think that talking dirty to a customer will benefit your sales?

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    talking dirty is kind of a bad thing

    I used to do phone sex and it was great there because it was physically impossible to deliver on the fantasy. But talking dirty to a customer and rubbing your ass all over hiim is just going to make hum frustrated that he can't have more. When customers specifically ask me to talk dirty, I try to avoid it. What am I going to say "oooh, I'm sucking your dick so deep, uhhhhh huh....want another dance?"

    Stick with dazzling them with your charming personality.

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    I love it when dancers talk dirty. Its like they're playing the part to the fullest. Plus there is something so erotic about a dancer talking about how good her pussy tastes even if I know I'll never get to find out...just adds to the illusion.IMO

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    I've never been able to talk dirty to the custies, but a girl I used to work with said that she would go up to them after she got off stage and would say "Having you watch me made me so horny, let's go back for a dance." It almost always worked to get a guy back there, but....I don't know what she said, if anything, during the dances.

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    I'm probably in the minority but if you were to talk dirty to me, your dance count with me would end at one. I recognise a lot of guys are able to get deep into the fantasy but I find it a little insulting to my intelligence.

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    i personally dont talk dirty too anyone that walks thro the door..

    can lead to them possably thinking that there is really something else going on between you 2 then just the dance itself.. and might get you in to big trouble.. so be careful..

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    i dont talk dirty, i think thats far more intimate than dancing for someone naked.

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    I hate this. I woule never buy dances from this kind of girls.

    Quote Originally Posted by moonjade6
    Although I'm not too new, I have been reading the posts for some time. I'm not a dancer yet, but I have mild confidence that in a few months, I'll be able to do this.

    My question is, How do you talk dirty to a custy? What do you say. I'm not offended by explicitness.

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    I assumed that it was done regularly by dancers.

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    I hate this. I woule never buy dances from this kind of girls.
    What kind of girl? You can determine my personality by two sentences?

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    Quote Originally Posted by moonjade6
    I assumed that it was done regularly by dancers.
    Ah yes, you have discovered the Pink Paradox, moonjade. Lots of things done regularly by dancers are never done by anyone here.

    Depending on the club, dancers night "talk dirty" by rubbing against a guy at the bar and saying something like, "You wanna play with me?" During the lapdance they might describe what you're doing together and how good it feels. Almost no one says "Pump it in my [whatever] NOW," although I've heard it on occasion.

    It helps to ask a customer what he likes. I hope this answers your question.

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    Quote Originally Posted by moonjade6
    My question is, How do you talk dirty to a custy? What do you say.
    It's nearly impossible to answer. Too many variables.

    There's things that can be said on the approach, can be on the pitch, can be said during the dance. It is highly dependent on the image you're trying to portray and what you perceive as the need of the customer. It is also dependent on the club itself.

    The range to me has been from something simple as "let's play" as a pitch to an explicit description during the dance of what the girl would do while delivering oral sex. Neither was impressive to me. Perhaps it would be to a different customer.

    The phrase "I want to get naked and molest you" got to be an old cliche over the course of one forgettable evening. But maybe it was being said because it usually worked well there.

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    haha! i sometimes wonder the same thing

    you have to suss out the 'type' of customer (what he wants!) and your 'style' (what suits you best.)....

    i usuually play the innocent baby girl (because i can!)

    its funny, the other day i got into a conversation with a customer when he started dropping some hints about being a bit of an exhibtioniast..... so i dropped a few back (subtley, like being over instrested in his stories andf hinting i was like that too!) ... sdo he intrigued and took me for a dance.

    once we were there i made up the elaborate (semi true!) story about how i used to take my underwear off in class at school too see if anyone would notice etc...

    so after my dance, when i turned up on the floor changed into mky schoolgirl costume, ofcourse all had to do was remove my panties and i had him pinned for the night!! hehe

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    haha! i sometimes wonder the same thing

    you have to suss out the 'type' of customer (what he wants!) and your 'style' (what suits you best.)....

    i usuually play the innocent baby girl (because i can!)

    its funny, the other day i got into a conversation with a customer when he started dropping some hints about being a bit of an exhibtioniast..... so i dropped a few back (subtley, like being over instrested in his stories andf hinting i was like that too!) ... sdo he intrigued and took me for a dance.

    once we were there i made up the elaborate (semi true!) story about how i used to take my underwear off in class at school too see if anyone would notice etc...

    so after my dance, when i turned up on the floor changed into mky schoolgirl costume, ofcourse all had to do was remove my panties and i had him pinned for the night!! hehe
    Oh, I understand what you're saying. So what you have to do, basically, is sort of figure out the psyche of the customer and take it from there? Kind of follow their lead? That's awesome!

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    Almost no one says "Pump it in my [whatever] NOW," although I've heard it on occasion.

    lol, I didn't think it went that far sometimes.

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    It is not about personality. Maybe she is a nice person but I will have no interest in her anymore if I hear that. It is like a pretty girl with bad breath.

    Quote Originally Posted by moonjade6
    What kind of girl? You can determine my personality by two sentences?

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    It is not about personality. Maybe she is a nice person but I will have no interest in her anymore if I hear that. It is like a pretty girl with bad breath.

    Oohh...you mean you'll have no interest in a girl who talks dirty?

    Hm. The variety of posts in this thread simply goes to show that people have different preferences.

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    Over half of the girls i work with talk dirty to the customers. I just cant do it. I will either be getting sick to my stomach or laughing to hard.That just dont work for me. It dont seem to be hurting my money though.

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    i dont talk dirty, i think thats far more intimate than dancing for someone naked.
    These are my personal sentiments as well. I just can't talk dirty with a complete utter stranger who I'm not having a sexual or even intimate type of relationship with...

    I know I have the talent for it however that is for my private life not work life.

    One time a custy was talking dirty to me and I couldn't feel more disgusted with myself. It was definately one way - he was doing the talking. I just closed my eyes and gave minimal responses back as I just wanted the time to run out so I could run away.

    It doesn't work for me however I will not deny there are dancers who do this and do this well .... and thus works for them.

    In the end, customers are individuals and some (not all) customers desire a 'dirty talking' dancer. Yes, you must be able to 'read' the customer.


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    Talking dirty doesn't do it for me. What does it for me is eye contact. That's a much bigger turn-on.

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    Hmm... I've talked dirty to guys during LD's, but only when asked. And then they get sorta creepy...
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    Well unless you work in a brothel and need to get all hot and horny its a bit pointless no?!
    Certainly a lot of the older customers want to have nice friendly banter with a 'lady'! Younger ones merely want some flirting and bit of frivolous sexy banter.

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    yea, I've never tried dirty talking because I have this whole cute and innocent girl next door thing going on, guys like me for how sweet I am.

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    I am very surprised at the number of girls who say they wont talk dirty to custys. I used to be the same way, there would be no way i could do it without laughing!! Me and a girl, Lacy started working together a lot and she started talking dirty to the custys. At first it embarrased me but it didnt take long before Igot over that and joined in.
    As far as what you say, you dont have to tell them to hit it hard or stick it in ... jeez, thats nasty not dirty. We just moan and stuff. Also, sometimes if you know the guy will spend for more tell him how big it is and hard. I think a lot of men like hearing they have a big one, even if they dont, specially from a girl that they know would probably know the difference between big and small. I have never had it not work, but then again I do not do it for everyone. Weird ppl are out of the question, it just makes them weirder and if I am not totaly comfy with the custy I cant do it. Icant even pretend like I am getting into the dance if I am uncomfortable with the custy.
    I have a reg that I talk dirty to allthe time. He gets so embarrased it is very funny. There is nothing wrong with laughing after you tell you custy, "ooooh, it's so big and hard. mmmmmmm" lol

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