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    I'v just got home from work and iv lost my faith in the club. I was called into vip by another dancer because id been requested so i went in and danced. they gave me 4 dance vouchers for 1 dance so i stupidly stayed with them cos I hadnt even made my house fee. when the dj announced the night was over I went to leave and a guy (3 guys and 1 girl) told me to stay and finish my drink. I protested that management didnt allow it but He said the management would "behave themselves". So I sipped my drink and thought of an excuse to leave. Basically to cut a long story short, they got drugs out, got management to sort the cameras out (I think) and security to turn a blind eye. I felt so scared as they blocked the exit and alarmed that security didnt seem to care. I always felt safe with the bouncer but realised if they had enuf money and power the rules didnt apply. they started teasing me for not taking the drugs and demanding blow jobs which is when I ran out but not before one of their girlfriends said to me the quickest way too get home was to do as they asked. I felt so let down by management for turning a blind eye. Ok so I wasnt in any real danger but I didnt like the way I was made to feel. I feel so unhappy now. Any my BF when I told him doesnt understand he thinks I should have just got out but he doesnt get that they blocked the exit and I felt scared. Its ok for a big guy to say what I should have done but I was scared. I expected to be able to signal to security that I wanted to leave but that didnt happen. Anyway Im sure Il be told that I need to stand my ground and expect this if I want to strip blah blah, but I just had to type this to help me feel better.

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    It sounds to me like you were in danger or that it could have turned into a dangerous situation. I would have been scared in that situation.

    This is another example pointing to the fact that you have to get out of a bad situation AS SOON AS YOU REALIZE YOU ARE UNCOMFORTABLE (i.e. when the dj said the night was over and they were pressuring you to stay and finish your drink). At that point, they were probably testing you to see if they could pressure you into doing something you didn't want to do. You didn't want to stay and finish your drink, but you did (so they won in that instance). Then they wanted more (drugs, bj, etc.). Next time just say no as soon as you realize you don't like what's going on. If that doesn't work scream and holler until management or security finally comes to your assistance.

    I'm glad you are okay!

    Take care of yourself.


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    You dont have to do anything you dont want to hun. You feel uncomfortable around their illegal activities - leave. Good nothing really crazy happened. Thats screwed up of management to 'turn a blind eye' to their actions. I would feel the same way being let down and all.

    If shady things like this are reoccuring I would change clubs. A place that is willing to put you in danger and in illegal activities is not a place I would like to have on my back.

    Even if you were in the hole a bit its ok to leave and stay away from what they were trying to do. Besides you never know if police would bust in and there you are next to drugs and drug dealers and all.
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    UN-FRIGGIN-BELIEVABLE

    I can understand that you are upset about that bullying and complete disregard your your security. I would hope it is not that way at all clubs, but I'm pretty sure it is at many of them. Bet it gets closed down within a few months unless they grease palms of some higher-ups.

    I agree with TM's recommendation. That drug thing is a very slippery slope down to your own personal Hell. I think you have good instincts, and I hope you will continue using them.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    I escape as soon as the night is over, especially if I am not getting paid.. Remember you owe NOTHING to these people. If they want to break the law and the club doesn't "mind." That's their issue, next time just disappear if you feel awkward, make up an excuse about a friend dancer or somethin, it doesn't matter.
    I've worked at clubs where "the show" gets started after hours. We should never come to expect it, but be sure to escape the next time you feel strnage. No need to ruin your feelings about dancig because of a bunch of morons.
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    OH MY GOD!

    I can't believe that happened. I'm sorry. Don't go back there. If the bouncers will do that it won't take much more for them to rob or assault you and claim something else happened and they're not at fault....(In this business I distrust my superiors more than I distrust the customers.)
    If anything like this happens again, play dumb or play along and claim you want to go get something "special" out of the dressing room...then get the heck out of the club.

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    I'm sorry that had to happen and for sure it's an indication that you should leave that club. Some managers and/or bouncers can be such assholes sometimes.

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    Sorry sweetheart but that is not part of stripping...you need to find a new club and quick!! I personally would not put up with that kind of crap!!!
    "The body is meant to be seen, not all covered up."
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    i guess I felt I did owe them something because they gave me 4 dance vouchers and I only had time to do two dances. I know that sounds really pathetic but Im always so anxious to please people and not seem like im money grabbing. I think I might have overreacted, I guess if something bad had seemed like it was going to happen I could have screamed etc. Maybe the doorman thought he was doing me a favour by turning away so I could take drugs/give bj's (weird I know but maybe he has a stereotype of the busty blonde stripper and thought thats what id like). Either way I know its inexcusable and Il sure as hell be getting out as soon as the dj says its the last dance in future. And it just reinforces my reasons that I never like to go to VIP cos theyre arrogant tossers. If I see the guys in the club again Il just look the other way. I hope they dont "suggest" to management that they should fire me though. I like the job apart from that incident and believe it or not the club is the cleanest and one I feel most comfortable in. Thanks for being supportive ladies xx

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    You go right up to the mgt. and tell them straight off that if you don't get protected from shit like that next time, you're going to leave.

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