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    Hey girls, wow I haven't posted in so long.... I have taken a hiatus from dancing and I miss it terribly...I got a job waitressing( at a rest.) and I am going through training right now, and all I can think about is getting back in a club!!! I keep telling myself to give the "reg" job a chance but I miss dancing so much...Any advice, has anyone been in this place before and can give me some helpful words...
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    If you love dancing so much and miss it to the point that it's all you can think about, then what's stopping you from getting back into it?

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    Yea I was scared and happy when I quit my 'straight' job. I hoped to make it again as a dancer but down in the pit that is SoCal. I had already tried up north near LA but couldnt stay long.

    I think the fact that you want to go back soooo bad is movtication enough to help you do great.

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    I would go back for a few nights to see if you really miss it.Sometimes you will have feelings of missing dancing because it's the flexibilty and freedom you really miss.
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    I missed it so much for ages after i quit...
    I still even dream about dancing, and it's always fun lol!

    Don't know if i'd go back now... it's been 3 years since i stopped dancing...

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    I start feeling like that too when I've been out for about 6 months. But I think it's because I'm stuck at home with a hubbie and 3 kids and I need a break and that's the only way I can get out of the house and be in that "party" atmosphere lol. Can't you work at the club on the nights you're not working at the restaurant to see if that's really what you want to do?

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    Going through this right now too. My boyfriend is going to leave me if I don't find a normal job. And I love my job. Hell, I can go to school full-time plus live in a beautiful apartment, on my own, minutes from the Gulf Coast beaches!! I couldn't be happier. I can afford the finer things in life; things most want but only some can have.

    He is a great guy, but I don't know that it's worth it to give all this up... as I am only 20. Words of inspiration or advice??
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    ^tanandsandy- keep the job. There's a lot of great guys out there. There's plenty of posts about the same predicament on here. Your Twenties are your Me decade. ; )

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    I also stoped working for my boyfreidn but he gives me all I want. But if he didn't give me anything I wouldn't quit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Crystal_eyes
    I also stoped working for my boyfreidn but he gives me all I want. But if he didn't give me anything I wouldn't quit.
    I would be afraid to put that much faith into one person. I mean if he leaves you then your stuck back in square one again.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bella622
    I would be afraid to put that much faith into one person. I mean if he leaves you then your stuck back in square one again.

    i agree .. i couldnt do that for no man regardless if he gave me everything im just way too indpendent

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    Quote Originally Posted by bella622
    I would be afraid to put that much faith into one person. I mean if he leaves you then your stuck back in square one again.
    Well it doesn't matter I'll just go back to work !

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    Quote Originally Posted by Crystal_eyes
    Well it doesn't matter I'll just go back to work !
    That would've been my response too. A man isnt everything, but u can take him for all he's got until he leaves you, or doesnt. Whichever happens, you will be fine.

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    LOL We understand each other

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    Thanks for the responses girls. I have calmed down and haven't been thinking about it so much. There are things I miss, and many that I don't. I can definetely say that I dont miss the general disrespect, but I miss performing and dancing on the pole. I am not thinking about it as much as before, and am not sure yet if I am going back or not.
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    Excuse my bluntness here.. but in my honest opinion, any man who would tell me that he was going to leave me because he didnt' like what I had decided to do for a living would be shown the door...

    Life is suppose to be happy.. and one day at a job you hate is misery. One day at a job you love makes the rest of your life balance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by UltraFoxie
    Thanks for the responses girls. I have calmed down and haven't been thinking about it so much. There are things I miss, and many that I don't. I can definetely say that I dont miss the general disrespect, but I miss performing and dancing on the pole. I am not thinking about it as much as before, and am not sure yet if I am going back or not.
    I miss dancing to!
    I stopped cause my hubby wanted me to

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