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    hey there

    been reading many of your posts and was just wondering what the touching is like at your club? and if they are allowed too or not?

    The state i work at they are not allowed too what so ever but i know that in other states here in Australia that in some parts that they can..

    I worked in Alice springs a few years ago too and we had too stand 3 feet away while we were dancing ..

    would just like too see what goes on where ya all work

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    Last edited by Candice; 10-26-2008 at 09:53 AM.

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    I honestly think it just depends where you club is, I know if I am up in Chicago, I have seen not as much touching just some light, or even none. But then again if I go down to around central Il where I am originally from, now there can be heavy touching. I think its because it's more rural so the club can get away with more.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Candice
    I don't think you would want to know what goes on at my club.
    lmao i do wanna know thats why im asking hun

    Where i work now they are not allowed too touch but he still cance on their laps..

    i know everywhere is different im just being nosey:p

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    Hi Candice, I am snowbirding to WPB during the first week of November. I would love to visit you at your club and buy a few dances. Send me the name of your club and a schedule if you like.

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    At my club it's the 12 inch rule from the custs genitals. they can touch us otherwise
    but we can not touch them.

    that being said i recently gained full body massage(excludeing her beasts and vagaina) rights on my current atf. which is extremely enjoyable.
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    I touch them, thy don't touch me, although every once in a while a customer will lay his hands on my legs as I straddle him (ooh, naughty).
    Then again, I've worked at clubs where they can only touch arms,legs and back.. And once where it is "to the discretion of the dancer and customer", ha ha.
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    In my club there's pretty much no rules. The only place the customer can't touch is areas covered by your g-string. Of course each girl can be more strict if she wants.

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    The club I work in south east kansas customers are not allowed to touch the dancers out in the open and on stage, but we can touch them. In the VIP room some of the dancers allow customers to touch their backs and the back of their legs, but absolutely not touching of their boobs, bootys, or kitty's.
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    i work at a no touch no grind club, and i love it. i tried to work a t aclub once where the guys were allowed to touch other than the sacred areas, and i just wanted to throw the customers throgh a wall, to me it felt like being molested.

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    On the floor- no touching custys or dancers...except hugs.

    At the stage- dancer can touch custy (no pee-pee), lapdance him, rub boobies on his face etc.

    Private dance- Touching is up to dancer but no touching the who-who. Also dancer cannot touch the custys underwear area besides grinding.

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    Even at our local clubs here in East Central FL the contact rules seem to vary from club to club. Most dancers touch you every where except the crotch, unless grinding which is only at some clubs. I have been allowed to touch everywhere except boobies and coochie.

    I assume any dancer who allows me to touch her (which I always do very gently) is not grossed out by it. If you are grossed out by it, I'd hope you'd say something and not put up with it for 20 bucks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss. Kristina Lee
    i work at a no touch no grind club, and i love it. i tried to work a t aclub once where the guys were allowed to touch other than the sacred areas, and i just wanted to throw the customers throgh a wall, to me it felt like being molested.
    same here i totally agree.. i have never worked in a touching club *they aint down here in my state*

    i dont think i could let a guy touch at all.. its my personal space lol i dont know maybe im just different

    wow im quite shocked that in some clubs that its just not tits that they are allowed too touch and they can touch everything

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    We do full contact lap dances. They can touch anywhere but between the legs....yup. It's not so bad though. It's easy-ish to sell dances based on that premise, and I stand up a lot too...breast touching privleges makes it a little easier on my part, because I can do less grinding, etc.

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    It's a full contact nude club, so basically they can touch everywhere except the cooch. But if you're not comfortable with that, you can certainly set your own standards as to what you allow them to touch. Most guys will be respectful or even ask what they're allowed to do. For the ones that keep trying to go overboard, if they don't stop after a couple of warnings you can just walk out. The management tells the girls to always get your money up front, so it works out pretty well.

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    Sydney - no touching what-so-ever in fully licensed clubs, hurray!
    Still waiting to hear definatly about The Gold Coast changes, it was waist up knees down touching though it was up to the dancer. No groping allowed just light touching. Some clubs included sides as legally the dancers sides were allowed to be touched but for smaller girls dancing for guys with big hands there was a problem with the distance laws. Dances had to be done 30cm away or more from the customer and various body parts to be that far away from the dancers various body parts at all times.
    It's so less complicated when theres just no touching at all!

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    In DC lap dancing is illegal,so we work in a no contact atmosphere,which is great.All we can do is give our customers a hug.In other states and cities the rules are different,it all mostly depends on the law and the club licencing.In NYC I've seen clubs with no contact at all (could be different in private rooms),and clubs where the customers will grab you as soon as they sit down to get the dance from you.

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    I'm a BIG no no when it comes to touching, I've slapped customers & threw my drink in the face of another when he grabed my (customer) friends breast (I know this is dangerous). Some of my (skanky) work mates told me that touching comes with the territory, if thats the way they feel why dont they work at a "Rub & Tug"???

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    At my club its $20 per song.. The top comes off and you are alloud to touch but the bottoms must stay on at all times.
    I don't chase money. Money chases me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KittenCaboodle
    I'm a BIG no no when it comes to touching, I've slapped customers & threw my drink in the face of another when he grabed my (customer) friends breast (I know this is dangerous). Some of my (skanky) work mates told me that touching comes with the territory, if thats the way they feel why dont they work at a "Rub & Tug"???
    As someone who was 'raised' as a stripper in a touching environment and worked in a touching environment (South East Queensland, specifically the Gold Coast) for over 3 years.... I take offense at your statement. Please be more aware of what you 'say' as not every dancer who allows touching is skanky or dirty. You would then be labelling all dancers who work in South East Queensland as such and I can honestly tell you that they are far from it (only a few are just like every other club).

    As I will tell patrons I meet whilst working in a no touch club (ie Melbourne or anywhere else) when they get excited about how Gold Coast allows touching in their private dances: there are a whole heap of little laws that a dancer has to abide by when doing the dance compared to when there is no touching. I have so much more freedom in a no touching environment and can 'do' so much more compared to when I worked on the Gold Coast.

    ....and it's the truth.

    My private/lap dances done elsewhere are much more rauchier and just plain better due to the fact the customer cannot touch me. I also can 'get into it' more due to the fact that I do not have to watch where the customer's hands are going. Plus I just 'got over' being groped and handled like a piece of meat by soooooooo many guys. I enjoy sex a hellava lot more now than I would've working in a touching environment.

    I'm a sensual person and do miss certain aspects of working in a touching environment. I've had some great sensual experiences however the majority of the times the guys are just groping and "man handling" your breasts.... plus using their strength against you (the old "have his hands on your waist guiding you towards his crotch so you can grind him or so he can hump you" routine).... this is why I no longer can work in such an environment for longer than 3-4 nights a month.

    OTOH, I'm not 'uptight' about a guy casually touching my neck, shoulders, arm, back or leg (mid-upper thigh and lower) as some dancers who work in no touching environments (due to how I was 'raised' as a stripper). I always respect the rules of the club I work within at the same time.



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    no touching! not even a pat on the leg... its serious stuff at my club, but I love it!
    So sexy almost evil






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    In Oregon there's no touching allowed at all, but it's fully nude. I think this leaves a bit of the fantasy and mystique to it, actually, although it's hard to come up with enough moves to feel like I'm really doing anything when a guy gets multiple dances. I don't know if it's this way everywhere in Oregon, but at my club they're very adamant about the no touching laws, and will immediately kick a guy out and even fire a dancer if she has repeated offenses where she doesn't tell the bouncer immediately.

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    Full contact nude club. They can touch everywhere but pussy... not supposed to allow tits either but most girls do. Its also heavy grinding for the most part as well.

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    GoldCoastGirl

    I dont wanna debate this topic out in the open so I sent you a private message.

    When I refered to the skanks at my work who let customers "touch" I'm not just refering to a little titty-titty bum-bum rub

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    Quote Originally Posted by KittenCaboodle
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    I dont wanna debate this topic out in the open so I sent you a private message.

    When I refered to the skanks at my work who let customers "touch" I'm not just refering to a little titty-titty bum-bum rub
    It's kewl as your problem happens even at the 'best' of clubs. Just that it is a text-based medium and the way I perceive and/or interpret a message on here isn't always the way you may have 'sent' it.


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