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    Default Re: Dancer falling asleep in the vip room

    Out of all these posts, only two had brought up the drug issue.

    Sure, I think you've been had. But I don't see the fatal harm in that. I just don't like seeing good guys getting had by junkies. That behavior is a big fat red flag. I work in a with a slew of druggies. It amazes that the guys don't see it, until it's too late. I hope I'm wrong, but I doubt I am. Be careful.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Viva Eva
    Sure, I think you've been had. But I don't see the fatal harm in that. I just don't like seeing good guys getting had by junkies. That behavior is a big fat red flag. I work in a with a slew of druggies. It amazes that the guys don't see it, until it's too late. I hope I'm wrong, but I doubt I am. Be careful.
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    It is really easy to fall asleep at work. I always work completely sober and on my break i find an empty vip bed and nap for an hour. A person doesn't have to be messed up fall asleep with loud noise around.

    Once a while ago now I feel asleep on a customers lap. with my head laying on his chest. I was tierd when i showed up at work but i had thought it was just because it was the end of the week. As the night went on i felt worse. There was a man I always spent my time with in to see me. So when I felt so draged out I asked him if he wanted to go up stairs. he sat down and I snuggled up and covered us with my dancing blanket and fell asleep.
    I just really needed the rest. the next day it truned out i had a bad case of strep throat.
    When he went to pay me I said no i didn't dance so he didn't have to pay me. i told him i was just grateful for the cuddling. But he insisted that he pay me. so i took it.
    I figure I'll tell you once that you don't owe me. I'm not going to argue over money.
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    I will fess up that I have totally fallen asleep on a customer. I've done it in a VIP and I've done it in a corner on the floor. And... I was absolutely not drunk and I've never done an illegal drug in my life. Okay I smoked pot like twice in high school. But that's all.

    Neither of them were angry or felt particularly abused - I suppose because if we walked into the VIP and he wanted the hard core dancey action, it's highly unlikely I would have fallen asleep. They both seemed fine, and the guy on the floor - who was participating in the drink commission as I slept so that the waitress wouldn't wake me up - only woke me to go on the stage. I apologized, I was embarrassed, and I had a little line up of drinks in front of me that the waitress made me drink immediately. Are they PL's - they may have been a little on the PL side, but they weren't trying to marry me and take me away from all this; on the spectrum of PL they were pretty normal and nice. Another thing to keep in mind is that guys also like to cuddle. We have this idea that that kind of contact is reserved for committed lovey relationship, or is very girly. Not so. Some guys actually do like and enjoy this simply because it feels nice at the time, and not because they are deeply in love.

    So is this super professional great behaviour? No. And that is why I don't fall asleep on my customers every time I work. Is it reprehensible? No. There are too many avenues open to just WAKING THE GIRL UP (you don't have to shake her and yell in her ear - a "are you sleeping over there?" will usually do it) if you want her to dance or talk or whatever.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny
    Another thing to keep in mind is that guys also like to cuddle. We have this idea that that kind of contact is reserved for committed lovey relationship, or is very girly. Not so. Some guys actually do like and enjoy this simply because it feels nice at the time, and not because they are deeply in love.
    Of course... I mean sure cuddling is less sexual than a grinding lap dance but it is still a matter of purchasing artificial intimacy, maybe more so because it is more like the behavior that takes place between people that are intimate, rather than the highly stylized moves of a lapdance. But watching someone sleep or having someone sleep on your shoulder is not cuddling.

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    I'm not going to argue over money.

    lol!!!!
    we differ Miss Eliza.

    If we are talking about "my"money,im ready to get tribal and do the curly shuffle on someones ass behind the painted red barn,and i warn everyone contemplating,i bite AND pull hair,and have been known to scream real loud and headbutt on occasion!
    I will go home every night,its not my rule,i only adhere to it.


    Every dollar someone doesnt pay me for my services,or every dollar someone cheats me out of,is taking dollars from my kids.

    Then we have issue.

    Its a whole circular "zen"kinda thing.Steal from me and your fuckin with my kids,then i gotsta kills ya ying and yang style,its the law of the jungle,i didnt invent it,i just subscribe to it.

    But then,I dont see the argument being over money.
    (thank goodness,cause i was ready to start smackin people around)

    Wow!!!!!

    This chic needs to come work with me,or i need to go work where she is.

    She fuckin rocks majoooooor!!!!

    She gave a lapdance ASLEEP!!!!!!!!

    <<doing the snoopy dance on my desk for her,in her honor>>>

    Not only did the custie walk out feeling good,its been on his mind(haunting him even) to the point,he has gotten "play"on it with the web for a few days(and a few more im sure)

    Talk about a wonderful VIP trip!!!!!!

    Fuckin perfect!!!!!
    and in her sleep no less!!!!!

    dis biotch freekin rules!!!!!!


    Everytime someone responds to this thread,and every time each day the OP comes back to see what people say,it was ALL born from that "sleep"in the VIP.

    A vip that last a week after closing time?!?!?!?!?!?Are you kidding me yoda??Teach me please,I beg of you!

    Sorry dude,you got what you paid for,and alot more,to the point,I think you might actually owe her more money for all the pleasure you received from the initial VIP trip and its continuing residuals.(ones you are still getting at 2:08 eastern time,days later)

    Next time you see her,you should be tipping in 20's and a whole lot of them.

    God help you on your next VIP trip with her,there is no telling what kind of nija shit she can pull on you,but im just guessing,it will be worth it to you,and i would bet my left nut(not cause im more fond of the right one)that you WILL be in VIP with her again,sooner or later.(my money is on sooner,closely resembling this weekend at the latest)

    Its like going to the carnival,you pay for a ride,the ride ends,you get off,ride over.
    You get what you paid for,only you got a whirly whirl on roids,MLB strength dosage!

    This ride didnt end,its going on now,and will continue until you go and see her again.
    (I promise you this,it wont end till you see her again.Bet)

    Who cares about the outcome???

    Right now,you paid for a VIP.

    This chic,in her sleep, has rocked your world,and wakend the lion within.

    Even if you buy into the "she was drugged out"responses on this thread,she still woke that lion the fuck up.
    You will never forget that VIP trip as long as you live.(again,BET.Specially now that its been dicected<sp>)

    The manager counting bottles at the end of the night,the doorgirl smiling at the drunks,the waitresses/bartenders sloshing the suds,the doorguys eyeballin ya, the dj's drowning them all together,and the stripper sleeping in your arms....
    MAN!!!!!!

    As a custie,that club was on point for you that night,all of them.

    They put a tickle in your pickle,and kick started your motorcyckle.

    Job well done!

    (crap!!I think i have had to much fun with this thread,I think even I may owe this chic some money now!)

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    yikes - okay, if you can enjoy the dance so much that you can cum on your leg 0p then you should do this - forever....................especilly in OHIO!!!!!!!!
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    I agree with Big Green on the note that this feller sure did get his $$$ worth, and after all isn't that the point? I mean, I think it's unfair to label this poor gal without knowing her personally...there are endless reasons for to her 'nap' we are mearly speculating as to the whys...who cares? This guy seems satisfied, she did her "job" --heck there's a guy that comes to my club who sits back in VIP for HOURS giving gals back rubs, and I know many of them have fallen asleep (VIP is a tad quieter)...they were neither druggies or sick, just sharing mutual time & appriciation.
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    If she was strung out I think that sucks . If she was that sick she should not be there for the fact she can get the other workers and custys sick . I f she is hustling well so be it if the customer is cool with it and thinks he is getting attention . The girls are in character they are there to make money - they -in most cases dont want to go home with you , live the fantasy - go home and crank one off and be happy .

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    Sounds to me like she was strung out. Some drugs can make you feel really cold, and it would explain the passing out on you too.

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    Allright, I know this is a really old thread but I just found it and I'm commenting...lol

    What I would guess happened is this:

    The girl was either really sick, tired or drunk. but she was still trying to be her work self, as she was at work (duh)

    She asked if you wanted to take her to VIP, you know, planning on giving you the normal VIP experience.

    But she was so tired/sick/drunk she fell asleep. Which is pretty bad and she should be embarassed.

    But I highly doubt she was hustling you out of money. I mean, yeah, most strippers would NEVER fall asleep in front of a custie.

    Apparently, you probably encountered her on the worst night of her career.

    PS- If I ever fall asleep in the VIP room with you, please wake me up immediately. Thanks!! (LOL)

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    Seeing this thread again made me recall something I learned from a dancer last week, which I meant to post here. It seems she did the exact same thing with a customer -- one afternoon she came in to work very tired from studying she'd been doing over the past few days, and then on top of that had a bit too much to drink. One of her regulars -- and it's important to note here that he was a very generous, long-term regular, in fact -- asked her to go to the Champagne room with him for 2 hours. Long story short, she fell asleep ... customer spent the entire time next to her, happy as a clam. And paid!

    I guess it's possible this could be the same dancer, but I doubt it. I asked her a little about this -- no, she didn't feel awful about it in retrospect because the important thing was that she knew he didn't mind.

    I conclude that it's just one of those things that happens, that (a) just like customers, dancers fall asleep on the couch, esp. with those that they're on easy, familiar terms with; and (b) some customers actually tolerate it! Now if it had been me, I would've called the whole thing promptly to a halt and rescheduled the session for another day when she was more, uh, able-bodied. My money's just not that plentiful that I can afford to spend it in a fantasy camp for stripper baby-sitting, or whatever....
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    It's a job like any other job. Wake her up and tell her get to work. What occupation tolerates it's employees sleeping on the job?

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    Exactly. I really highly doubt that this girl intended to fall asleep...She was probably sick, had too much to drink, relaxed for a minute and passed out. Wake her up, and tell her to get to stripping...lol

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    A similar thing happened to me once. I was in a VIP room with a girl who was giving me dances, we decided to take a break, she curled up on my lap and fell asleep. I really enjoyed it because I like to cuddle. I definately felt like I got my money's worth, especially since it was a very inexpensive place (Brad's in Indy, $50 for a half hour VIP, which is one of the best deals anywhere.) This was mid-afternoon and she didn't appear to be on anything but who knows? Anyway she was embarassed when she woke up but I told her I loved it, which was true.

    It's been my observation that an awful lot of dancers are hugely sleep deprived, either from taking care of their kids, studying, partying all night or all of the above. So I'm guessing that falling asleep at the club isn't unusual.
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    there have been instances where i have been tired and a customer wanted to go in the vip or i asked a regular to go (since he does it anyway) but i always dance thats what they paid for it was in fact one occasion where i was really feeling horrible and my regular came in and instead of getting alot of dances he jus said lets go into the vip and when we got there he made the decision and was like you dont have to dance i like your company and know your not feeling well. i would never ask anyone to go into the vip and not deliver on dancing unles they actually said they didn't want me to.
    still here.... just in another chapter..

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    You got jacked. She knows she didn't deserve any money. Did she offer to dance for you on your next visit to make up for the VIP situation? If not, completely jacked. Good girls know how to keep things fair. They may be expensive but they know what is fair.

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    I never had a dancer accidently fall asleep on me, but it became frequent with my ATF. It was just part of our VIP routine. We talked, she danced, I gave her a back and foot rub, and she frequently fell asleep. I'm a cuddler, and I find partial nudity sexy. So if she was getting sleepy, she would put on her gown and leave one breast exposed. She could then drift off while remaining warm, yet providing a very different kind of erotic experience. In my case it wasn't a matter of being taken advantage of. I loved the experience. I also got an additional pay off because when she was dancing, she really turned up the heat.

    We didn't have an OTC relatationship, but we became good friends. When she had to quit the club, she cried when we said goodby. If she ever comes back (not likely), I would glady continue where we left off. :-)

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