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    I love girls and all but why do you alwayz get that one girl who comes in and wants to start trouble with everyone and talk shit on all the girls. I dont understand why they would come in if they had a problem with dancers. Some of the time i catch myself ready to snap on them girls. I would rather have the fun drunk grabby girls come in the club rather then the haters. The famous line they all say is "i could do that." That drives me nuts.

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    i agree.

    or to the point that they are all nice but once they geta drink in them and you dance for their boyfriend they become haters.

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    I let those girls just breeze over me. I dont know why they came along if all they do is critisize and think the job is so easy. Let it roll right off ya.

    While they are being bitchy and ruining their bf's good time...Im making money.
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    I think their boyfriends shouldn't bring them in if they don't want to be there. What dummies, I would never spend my money in a business I didn't support.
    I always think, If he ain't rich, I ain't looking at your dumbass boyfriend!

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    I have got all "my girls" to now inform all female custies who talk shit like that to feel free to come in the first wednesday of every month for our amateur night. They can then put their money where their mouth is, as it were. so far only one girl has taken us up on it. aaaaand, she lost. i'm just the dj, but i dont see these girls being that much worse than an asshole guy telling his friend not to get a dance from you. screw 'em, and move on.
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    Well the girls at my work always love it when these bitches come in. When you are on stage you make eye contact with them and don't leave them alone and try talk to them and piss them off heaps -but pretend you don't notice they hate you and go along with the bimbo stripper stereotype. They get so angry. Just keep talking to them and be really loud un-necessarily attracting attention in the wrong way towards them. We get just groups of girls coming in a checking the girls out and saying things like 'shes got cellulite' (that happened to one of my shyer friends while she was onstage - funny tho i've never seen an INCH of cellulite on her) and things like that. We just don't leave them alone and make them feel REALLY uncomfortable. Like stand near them and talk loud about how ugly 'normal' girls try come in and pretend they could be strippers. Its kind of fun. Like back in the old days at school when someone was nasty to you and your friends.

    We don't do it all the time, I admit it is pretty immature and going down to their level (but it's just so FUN)... but we don't want a club full of bitchy jealous girls for customers deterring the real business away

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    we get alot of girls in the club im in ..

    i dont mind as they have respect and spend more or get the ppl that they are with too spend money...

    the bitchy ones are just jealous and really dont bother me that much as long as i dont hear comments they wont hear any back ..

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    Quote Originally Posted by MrChristopher
    I have got all "my girls" to now inform all female custies who talk shit like that to feel free to come in the first wednesday of every month for our amateur night. They can then put their money where their mouth is, as it were. so far only one girl has taken us up on it. aaaaand, she lost. i'm just the dj, but i dont see these girls being that much worse than an asshole guy telling his friend not to get a dance from you. screw 'em, and move on.
    That's what I always told them. heh heh heh Shuts them up pretty quick...or they get pressured by their BF or friends. Of course, I had one girl tell me, "I don't want to be a dancer because I'm not a whore." Yeah...next excuse, please!

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    Just ignore them, girls just get jealous... because most girls probably fantasize about stripping and dont have the guts to do it ... weve even had a few girls jump on the stage after a few drinks... but the bouncers pull them of if a guy cant do it why should a girl be able to get away with it...
    They are just insecure... like we are there to steal their boyfriends/ husbands... how narrowminded "like strippers dont have a life besides work". Just think they are the fool, they have PAID money to come into the club, too bad they leave respect for other human beings at the door. Also strippers usually earn more in a night, than these customers do in a week...

    I agree totally girls are either one way or the other... much too eager or spiteful...

    Well just hold your heads high... they have the problem, not you. Im certainly not ashamed of what I do for a living... Let it roll of your shoulders...

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    I'm really glad this thread was posted. Last Friday night I was on stage dancing, doing exactly what every one of our custys paid a cover charge to see me do, and this middle aged heavy set woman was sitting by the tipping rail. She looks at me, points to me, and very loudly announces to her friend she is sitting next to that I am too "big" to be onstage. Never in my life have I been refered to as big. It really blew me away, especially since I'm 5 feet tall and one hundred pounds. It really threw me off, and I am very self conscious about my weight, as it took me two years after my youngest daughter was born to even think about getting up on that stage...Why do women waste their time and money in a club when they do stuff like that? I don't get it!!!
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    At my old club, you could touch the audience, but not vice-versa. We'd drag the girls up on the stage and put on pussy shows (all fake, of course). The obnoxious girls would resist, so we'd have to suffice with hooking a leg over the table and giving them a close-up. They're usually deathly homophobic and fucked off.

    MrChris, kudos to you for making the catty snobs eat their own words.

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    I try to ignore these girls. I especially hate it when they ask if my boobs are real or fake. I much rather have a guy ask that question then a girl. I'm over the females. Every now and then a really sweet girl comes through the door and actually appreciates being in one of the clubs I work at. Those are the only girls I can stand these days. They actually have at least an ounce of respect for the dancers. These girls have been known to give credit to us dancers where it is well deserved. This is not an easy job and they recognize that.

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    I was discussing this with a custy the other week! --On the topic of gals who come in (begrugingly) with a SO-- I feel badly for them, it's as if they are trying to please thier man who obviously has no respect for them, putting them in an uncomfortable situation that can turn ugly for all involved-- BUT:
    For all the gals that come in on thier own accord to hate are fun to taunt! Or ignore in a snobby fashion (that's what I do, if I get a vibe they are haters; I'll give 'em a reason through body language= if you come in here to bring me down, I'll turn it around on you (the 'haters') that is).
    Or, they could be truly interested and scared of the elusive SC! And because of the love/hate misunderstanding they have towards something they do not know...they act a fool...Just some thoughts...

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    I'm too chicken to do this, but my idea was to grab one of the other girls to walk by with me as I say, "See, I told you they weren't here to audition. I mean, LOOK at them..." Instead, I let them make their comments, then smile back, maybe introduce myself. Act like a lady and lead by example. You may make money from it. The only reason these girls are being rude is because they are not comfortable with the environment and are putting up a shield to keep themselves safe from an impending attack. You will attract more bees with honey than vinegar.

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    I once walked up to a group of girls and their male counterparts like these after I got off stage and said, "hi, how's your night going so far?" to absolutely no response. I thought they hadn't heard me, so I repeated myself (albeit through kinda clenched teeth). Nothing. They sort of stared up at me in dumb astonishment, as though I had done something so bizarre and unthinkable that there was no possible response. I'm sure at that point I was looking at them the same way. I pointed up at the light show, which had chosen that moment to go off on the ceiling, said, "holy shit look at that!" and walked away.

    Then I pretty much forgot about it for the rest of the night.

    It's like no one *told* them it was going to be a *petting* zoo!
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    So um, whatever happened to just NOT CARING? There are plenty of girls at the J-O-B who are haters and complain about u in one way or the other, behind your back or to your face. "That bitch gives dirty dances" "I don't like her stage" "She copies my stage" "That bitch is nasty" "She's fat" whatever.............who gives a rats ass? I don't. These female haters are all the same-stripper or nonstripper. So I handle it by asking if these chics want to pay me and if they're not into it or get smart, I just think DON'T GET MAD 'CAUSE UR BROKE! smile and walk away. It's nice to be nice, bitches!!!!!!!!
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    Giving insecure girls negative feedback is feeding the trolls. Keep your confidence, ignore them, and put on a show better than ever.

    They have won if you start showing signs you feel insucure by their gestures or comments. Your attitude will soon attract a customer watching you and spending money .

    Girls like this want you to be as miserable as they are. I treat the bad girl customer like I would the bad male customer. Move on.. Money is to made.

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    Its OUR club, they are the ones on the attack, they WANT to believe that we are just cheap, no talent hussies out to steal their man. Like we really need another man with a jealous pet moose.

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    Having girls like that at my clubs just makes me work that much harder on the stage. I don't know, maybe I just get too complacent sometimes because I know the guys are there because they want to be. Seeing women like that once in awhile just gives me a shot in the ass to really impress...I dance better, smile brighter etc. As if to say to them "Go ahead and think what you want...but you can't say I'm not working for my money."

    I'm really lucky though....this happens only infrequently. At my clubs we get a lot of female custys and they can really get the money flowing on a quiet night when they interact with the dancers.

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