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    This post is kind of an extension of the "Strangest customer you've ever had thread", only I am wondering if I am the strange one. I am pretty new to dancing and alot of stuff I'm being exposed to is totally new for me, some for the better some for the worse.

    There is one thing in particular I would like some feedback on. I've had a couple of I guess you'd call fetish guys that have asked me to kick them in the balls, sometimes pretty hard. At first it seemed pretty wierd, but I was anxious to experience a full range of the business and definately wanted to make as much money as possible. Well, the end result is that I have found that I really like doing it, to the piont where it turns me on quite a bit. I have been abused in my past and don't know if enjoying hauling off on some guys nuts is a reaction to that or if it's something else.

    I know alot of the girls here have written about doing this to guys who request this at the clubs, have any of you had a reaction like me or am I a total freak?.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sunnyfla
    I am pretty new to dancing and alot of stuff I'm being exposed to is totally new for me, some for the better some for the worse.I was anxious to experience a full range of the business and definately wanted to make as much money as possible.
    I don't think there can be anything bad about you going into a new situation with the intent to explore it as fully as possible... and then having the balls (heh, sorry) to embrace what it offers.

    IMO--be proud of yourself that you have an open enough mind to go into this business with your eyes open, willing to experience everything it has to offer, even if some people may think it's a little off-kilter.

    You probably stand to make a few good regulars that you'll enjoy as much as they enjoy you...
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    Although I can't understand this fetish...or really many of those dancers have said customers ask for...I think that your situation sounds ideal. I have met dancers who have been abused or have esteem issues and dancing is theraputic to them in that they have control. To get paid for your therapy isn' t sick...but maybe you're a sadist?

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    your not sick, youve found a very lucritive nitch in the strip club world. do some research on dominatrix work, and try to play it up at work and you could get some serous high money customers.

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    I dont think youre a sicko at all. What about it exactly that turns you on? The feeling of control or the feeling of pleasing another person sexually?
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    Quote Originally Posted by sunnyfla

    I know alot of the girls here have written about doing this to guys who request this at the clubs, have any of you had a reaction like me or am I a total freak?.
    I've missed those threads! I'm not worried about you so much as I am worried about a club that lets dancers kick the crap out of the customers!

    No wait...not worried...excited. I'm excited about a club that lets dancers kick the crap out of the customers. That's it.

    As for you, you go girl. If you're comfortable and have other fallout from your past abusive situations firmly under control, then digging a little corner kick to some willing nads probably isn't anything to worry about.

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    I have a few of them that come to my club . i have one customer who comes in and looks like a normal guy. The crazy part is he wheres a bra and thongs(girls thongs) . when he gets his dances all he wants me to do is play with his nipples and tell him how much of a lil sissy girl he is. It is so hard for me not to laugh at him but he spends alot of money. My best friend there has a guy come in who likes to be beat up so bad you see blood. When he comes in the club they make him sign a paper that says he wont sue the club. He likes to be beat to all hell. I think he must like a nurse at the hospital becasue i have never met someone who likes to beat up that bad.

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    Ahh, nothing to worry about.

    In fact, a fetish customer tends to desire a gal who is really to some degree "into" his particular kink, as opposed to one who is simply going along with it because he's waving a great deal of money in her face.

    If these guys can sense that you appear more genuine and deliberate in what you're doing, they'll take notice of that, and for you that means CA-CHING $$$.

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    Thanks for all the replies. To answer some of the questions:

    Tigersmilk- I don't really get turned on by pleasing them, I guess it's more of a power and control thing. Also I guess cause it's sort of a tabu thing to kick a guy there even once, let alone a bunch of times with my heels on. I think also in terms of my past abuse, it is something I wish I had done or would still like to do to him. I think that is definately an element of it.

    Desertdoll- There were quite a few posts about guys requesting this in the Strangest Customer and Fetish posts on the boards.

    I'm still curious though, am I the only one that likes doing this?. Has anybody else done it and liked it or wanted to do it?.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sunnyfla
    I'm still curious though, am I the only one that likes doing this?. Has anybody else done it and liked it or wanted to do it?.
    You're not alone. I know other dancers who get turned on by physically and mentally abusing customers. Pinching/biting nipples and kicking balls seem to be the most common forms of physical pain in strip clubs.

    The risk of kicking balls is that you can rupture a blood vessel. Some men have varicose veins near the surface of their testicles. Kicking underneath the balls is generally safer and less painful.

    The more symbolic the abuse, the less you risk injuring someone. Presentation is everything. Tell him you could get caught. That will heighten the experience and add value (so ask for more money).

    It works both ways. I know submissive dancers who get turned on having their cookies slapped, and even do it to themselves.

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    Hey everyone has something that Floats their boat and as a matter of fact alot of people do like that freaky stuff! So have fun!

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    NAH, you're not a sicko I've been asked to do that before too (although did not oblige); so here's my thinking - why would it be okay for the men to request this and be turned on by it, but not okay for you to do it and get turned on by it?

    It wouldn't. Do your thing - just try not to permanently injure anyone! lol

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    As long as you only kick those guys in the balls who request it, you'll be fine. Once you start kicking random dudes in the balls, then you might have some problems

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alpha_Male
    As long as you only kick those guys in the balls who request it, you'll be fine. Once you start kicking random dudes in the balls, then you might have some problems
    lmao if only at times we could .. jk

    i personally dont think your "sick" but i do find it strange that guys are paying for this .. i had never heard of such a thing untill i put that thread up

    but hey if you enjoy it n its making you money go for it

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    i can't imagine any guys who would like the feeling of being kicked in the balls.... how is that a turn on??? just don't feel as though u have to do something like that just to please a customer.... .... only do it if u truly are comfortable with it.... u don't have to do anything a customer requests that makes you feel degraded or uncomfortable.

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    To answer your question......I'm pretty sure you are not the only one who enjoys this type of thing. As for the kicking of the balls, i'm not so much into that, but i really like to slap my husbands dick around sometimes causing him a little pain and then making it all better. I'm a little sick in the head too i guess lol. I really like to beat up on him sometimes and throw him onto the bed.........!! I've not started stripping but when i do and someone asks me about doing that, i'd be more than likely to enjoy crushing their nuts haha. It gives me pleasure to make a man, who's supposed to be tougher than me, pain.

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    Well, normal is rather narrowly defined anymore.

    I like kicking guys in the balls, tho I really like fucking with their heads (only if they ask for it) and generally dominating very submissive men. There's nothing wrong with it, as long as it's safe, sane, and consentual.



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    Quote Originally Posted by KamrynAnne
    only do it if u truly are comfortable with it.... u don't have to do anything a customer requests that makes you feel degraded or uncomfortable.
    I agree to never do anything that you're uncomfortable with; HOWEVER, the one being "degraded" here is the man asking for it. The woman (dancer) is the dominant in control.

    Some men do get off by being degraded and playing submissive - hey, whatever. Different strokes...

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    If you enjoy it a lot, you might look into being an apprentice for dungeon work. That pays very well to someone with "enthusiasm" for the work. There is a job for every person, and you really should do what you are good at.

    For info post a request in "other work" here on stripperweb.

    Good luck, and enjoy your new found career!


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    I had a guy come in and request this last night. It was awesome!. I kicked him in the nuts for 4 songs and got a great tip. I swear it's theraputic for me, I worked off so much frustration. I'm sure his balls are sore today, but it's what he requested. Would like more guys like this. I don't think you're a sicko at all.

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    My boyfriend likes to be kicked in the balls... I dont really understand the fetish... He thinks it's because he has such a normally dominant personality, and likes being on the other end... That's HIS hypothesis at least. I just don't know. It really freaked me out at first, I didn't want to burst anything, you know! I can't say I really LIKE doing it... But it's gotten easier to do.
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    Wow Bella, That's awesome. I wish I had a boyfriend that liked that. How hard do you kick him?, is he able to "function" afterwards?.

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    So you've found a fetish. Something you enjoy doing that turns you on. Welcome to the world of lifestyle BDSM. There are PLENTY of people who are into ballbusting at home... not just for cash with a dancer or a Dominatrix. There is nothing wrong with it at all!
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    Not sick at all! Different strokes for different folks

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    If it works for you and he leaves happy, then everybody wins...no shame or "sicko" label required.

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