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    Hi to all. Haven't started dancing yet, but I just bought my first lapdance, and after so much reading on the subject, i've got to say that I learned infinitely more about the experience from actually EXPERIENCING it for myself, instead of just watching others receive dances or reading about them. (DUH!!) It wasn't what I expected at all. For example, i didnt realize how important (imo) it was for the dancer to smell pleasant... and didnt realize that some of the most sensual moves cant even be seen when you're getting a dance, because the dancer's hair is in your face. That, and her skin was very soft, which added positively to the experience... I am just amazed at how different my comprehension of lapdances has become after receiving a dance. That, and it seemed damn short!! No wonder there are custies that buy multiple dances... now I know what the time factor FEELS like for a customer, so hopefully, my knowledge of this will help me sell more!! Just wanted to share!!

    So from my experience, whatever it is worth to others wanting to start dancing, I suggest buying a dance to see what it is like for the customer. I learned a nice handful of things that I simply could not have learned from just reading.

    Good luck and $$$ to all out there.
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    Default Re: bought my 1st lapdance, learned a lot!

    It's so TRUE! I did the same thing, to see what it was like, and what the custies would expect. You are so right about the smelling nice thing! I noticed that right away, when I bought my first lap dance.

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    Wow, that makes me want to buy a lapdance from some of the girls at work just to see how things "look & feel" from the custy's point of view.

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    I used to get dances all the time with my hubby before i even thought about dancing. When I started I was so self conscious that I might not to be able to achieve that "stripper smell", and I thought they all had way softer skin than me. Those are two of the things that people pick up on right away and think we are super women for. You will notice how a popular scent will up your money as well.

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    I used to buy lapdances all the time and couldn't believe how soft the strippers felt and how beautiful they smelled. I thought I could never be that soft and kept trying to find out what their secret was. Finally I mentioned it to my bf and he laughed and said, "You already ARE that soft! Women just are!"

    But yeah, I take special care to lotion up whenever I go to dance. And I apply plenty of body spray to my hair, because I spend a lot of the lapdance time swinging it in the customers' faces. Your hair is definitely your most important asset as a stripper - and I learned recently NOT to use hairspray because it should swing around as much as possible!

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    Default Re: bought my 1st lapdance, learned a lot!

    I used to dance but never had anyone dance for me. I had my first lapdance too, a few months ago. It wasn't at all what I expected either! It's true, it does seem really short when your being treated, but when you're dancing, it seems like ages. I also felt really shy getting the dance but was always very bold when I would give them. I felt like I shouldn't watch her or look at her too long. Strange, huh? It's also true that fragrance adds to the dance and hair can be an issue when it's hanging in my face a tad too long. I also noticed how soft she was and sometimes when I could climb on the client and kneel in his lap, I would worry I was hurting him or too heavy. The girl who danced for me was about my weight and it wasn't even an issue. It also doesn't seem as "raunchy or dirty" as some may think. It's romantic and beautiful, sexy and playful more often than not. Sure, there are those that just hop on and grind. I don't think of those as lap dances though. That's just dry humping.

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