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    Sad I start tonight!

    And I am soooo nervous! I applied at a club that my husband and I are regulars at, because the other dancers there encouraged me to apply, but now I am nervous? Whats with the stage fright, I am not a shy person, and I always get lap dances when we go ( full contact nude club), so I have been exposed in front of the clients several times and most of them are regulars as well. Many times I have went outside for some air and had clients coming in ask me if I was a dancer, so why am I so scared? Is this normal?

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    I think...sometimes thinking about doing it, is alot harder than actually doing it.

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    When you think about something too hard for too long it can start to scare you.After your first night you should be fine.Good Luck

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    Being nervous is WAY normal! Getting up in front of a room full of people for ANY reason can make a person feel horrible (especially me...memories of Public Speaking...*shudder*). Just take a deep breath and remind yourself how well you'll do! Good luck!

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    After the first few steps under the blacklights and after you whip off yout bikini and feel the air dance over your body....youll be fine. Being naked is like 2nd nature after youve gone up on stage.
    I always find a good workout session makes me feel great and awake before big nights.
    you live like an ivy vine
    you can only survive by clinging onto trees
    that's your flaw
    put down some roots so you can stand on your own
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    I have been dancing for over a year and still occasionally get stage fright (only before actually getting on stage)...once I'm on stage it always disappears though. Just go slow, look each customer in the eye, go slow, smile and act like you're having fun. Oh yeah, and go ...s...l...o...w...

    As far as lap dances: same rules apply (slow, eye contact, have fun). If you think about how much money each dance is worth that will probably be enough to make you smile and relax.

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    A Shot may help ease tension. Notice I said a shot not shots

    Dont try to do anything crazy on stage if your not comfortable or confident. Like meantuned earlier move very slow. If you feel like you are going to fall do ground work such as on your knees lightly. Make eye contact and smile.

    Use being new to your advantage. It may help having the DJ Meantune you are new to the club . I personally would tell people it your first night. They love new girls. I guess because they are at ease your not a vetern hustler. You should get dances being a new face .

    Have Fun! People will like your attitude. Stay Possitive and use the new girl line for as long as you can. I did for 2 months.

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    of course its normal.. if you didnt have them feelings with it being your first time i would say that wouldnt be normal..

    its alot easier too sit there as a regular and watch rather then getting up there and doing it yourself..

    you will be fine , after your first dance you we be woundering why you worried so much

    good luck im sure it will go well.. and just remember have fun with it

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