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    Does it bother you girls if during our lap dance the dancer next to us is working to get my attention? e.g. small talk with me; using my knee for support.

    I find that stuff a turn on and if our dance is mediocre it's enough to get me to switch dancers.

    I'm curious if this is an accepted lap dancer practice or is frowned upon by you.

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    Im sure you can find some people who will say this is ok,but my advice is to run,in a low croutched down position,for the nearest exit.

    Shits about to hit the fan.

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    DURING the lap dance? Are you kidding? I'd stuff her panties down her throat.

    The other night another dancer came up and started whispering in the ear of the guy I was sitting there talking to. I couldn't believe it. She had years of experience too, so it's not like she didn't know any better. Such a thing is NOT COOL. I can't imagine actually having the nerve to behave that way during a paid lap dance!

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    That is horribly, horribly, massively, completely unacceptable. I can't think of anything, offhand, less acceptable. If you are bored during your dance, that is sad and wrong. You can stop getting dances at any time. If it is that bad you may stop the dance halfway through, pay the dancer and move on (this is rude, but so is flirting with the dancer next you as the girl is dancing for you). This does not do away with professional courtesy between dancers. She can approach you "have finished" with dancer the first. UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES should one dancer interrupt another dancer with a customer, if not hailed, specifically by either dancer or customer. No matter what, who, how much. If it is "your customer" who "comes in especially to see you" he will call you over. If he doesn't - then he doesn't want you that bad, and next time you had just better leap on him like a ravenous hyena as soon as he walks in the club.
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    very very rude.. i posted something a while ago about a dancer i worked with that came over about 6 times and interrupted my customer and i.... im talking pushing in between the two of us to ask him if he wanted a dance.... some people have no shame an no class...

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    Quote Originally Posted by FourWinns
    I find that stuff a turn on and if our dance is mediocre it's enough to get me to switch dancers.
    In mid-dance? Tell me how the payment system works on that one.

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    I have been sitting with a dancer and had another dancer that either I knew or she knew come over and join us for a while. She also threw a leg over mine, it was fine. BUT not during a dance. For me too allow this is very disrespectful of the dancer I'm with and I don't want that reputation, and I'm simply not that rude.

    If I didn't like the dance I'd just let her finish and then I'd move on. The other dancer would never be allowed to join me either.

    About 6 years ago I let a dancer take me away from another to give me a dance and then I returned to her. That has bothered me ever since, even though she has left the business & would never remember me anyway. It was also rude for me to do this and I vowed to myself to be a better person. But it still bothers me.

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    If a dancer pulled that crap while I was getting a dance I would just tell her to knock it off, then I would warn the other dancers about her.

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    see,its a shit storm on the horizon,its best to just duck and run,the girls will work it out.

    Not only do you have a dancer who is outta bounds,you even have custies who will want to stir up drama for thier own viewing pleasure.

    The girl on your lap WILL know that the girl next to her is crossing a line(if she even is at all,I have seen many girls packed onto one couch before,just cause her leg touches yours,it doesnt mean she is hitting on you)
    She will take care of it after the dance, in the dressing room,away from the custies.(we all hope)
    What the girls dont need is some custie runing around the room whispering in all the dancers ears about it while they are with other custies.(or was your plan to wait till each one is free,then waste thier money time with your "hero warnings".)

    If a girl did that at every club i have been in,all the girls would know about it before the night was over,and so would the girls working the next nights shift.

    And all without the help of the messenger custies.

    The girls will handle this.
    If they cant,the manager will.
    If he cant,she gets to dance to the theme from Gilligans Island.

    DL,girls dis each other all the time on the floor,in many ways,its females chasing money,its almost a given,even your atf is prob guilty of it,intentionaly or not).

    If you spend all your club visit ,running around the room playing hero custie,everytime you see a girl cut in on another girls action,your going to be doing alot of running,and not have a very good time.

    Unless thats your idea of a good time in a strp club,stirrin up shit.

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    why would she need your knee for support? was she with a kneeless person?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah
    I'd stuff her panties down her throat.
    Yup, that's exactly how I feel.







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    thats really wrong .. if that was me giving you that dance i would say "do you want me too go ?"

    no girl should do that were is the rescpect ?

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    I had an ok time with the dancer but nothing exceptional. She didn't protest the intrusion that I could detect.

    Half the dance the girls are facing away from me so if they're ripping in to each other I probably can't see it. We did our dance, she got her $25 and I moved on to the flirtatious one for more thrills.

    I thought it was a good move on the new girl's part - otherwise I would have got up and walked back to the stage to spend more $ finding my next dancer.

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    ok fourwinds,not an insult here,so please dont take it as one.

    You added factors,such as,this girl was new.

    That adds alot to the thread.

    Newbie=clueless(again,not an insult)

    You said the dancer who was giving you a LD didnt protest.

    to me

    that says alot,fuckin VOLUMES!!!!!

    A professional dancer either saw the bottom of the well,or she didnt want to give you any more attention because you gave her bad vibes,or you didnt fall into her required tax bracket and she had no problems letting a newbie move in.


    No way is a veteran dancer going to let a newbie come in and mess with her money,unless of course,its one of the reasons i listed above.

    Either she thought you didnt have money to spend,or you gave her the heebie jeebies and she had no problems passing you down the line.(once again,not ment as an insult)

    Know this as fact,in almost every case and club,the "newbies"dont come in and take from the vets,specially if its a questionable takeover.

    Half the dance the girls are facing away from me so if they're ripping in to each other I probably can't see it.
    yup yup,all it takes is a facial expression or a nod for these girls to say volumes to each other.
    My guess is,the vet on your lap said"he's your's,go for it".

    If you were spending alot of money,and the vet thought she could make more from you,no way would she have let the newbie move in so easy.

    Its not an insult,but you were passed.

    Most vets dont want a custie who is only interested in doing 1-2 25 dollar laps,they are looking for much much more.

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    That's true, we do pass on custies. If we know there is someone else for us or if we know that you reached your limit (yes, sometimes we know how much you are going to spend) then we will just pass you on to the next. A kind of "share the wealth" mentality. It happens all the time at my club. We pass each other, ask if the other's done with "that" guy and then either give him up or say he hasn't gotten the allotted two dances yet. This is usually a guy that comes in all the time.
    BUT, we don't touch the customer while the dancer is giving a dance! That's just rude and uncalled for. I don't see how that would show she gives good dance anyway. She's good at leaning? How does that make you want a dance from her? And there's no need to talk to my custy either if she has a guy she's with. This not only makes him feel neglected, but gives her a bad rep. Just as dancers talk, so do the customers.
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    hmmmm. In a regular situation I would say that is extremly rude. It is called cut throat and even newbs know what it is. it does not take long at all for someone to explain it to them.
    My club is a bit different. During a dance would probably piss me off no matter what, But I could care less if girls sit with my custy. Just about every girl in my club is welcome at my table at any time. If the custie likes her more, sucks for me, but I know I am going to make my money. I would rather the cust have a great time and spend 500 on her then have a not so great time with only 100 on me.
    The girls in my club are cool about this stuff though. Most of us have been there a long time. I have been for four yrs. New girls catch on very quick. We play team work a lot more here then at most clubs. If a very big spender comes in, we usually will have 4 or 5 girls sitting with him if hes col with it. Look, you can only get so much of a guy in one night. If he is willing to spend 10 grand, which I cant pull unless it is mostly tips, I may as well let a few of my freinds come with us and we can all make 2 or 3 grand. Next time they have a good spenidng custy in, it is simple, they invite me!
    Ps, very laid back club. And also, it isnt small like most of you are thinking. Not huge but usually 30 girls a night.

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    All I can say is that d.j's are a lot more than just the guy who talks into the mic. D/j's often run the show. They deffinitlyhave more say so in some clubs than even the ass. manager. The club Big Green works in is one of these, and I can say so , as I have worked with him in the past. BG is AWESOME!!!! I would listen to what he has to say any day. I am a vet dancer of 4 yrs and my hubby is also a d.j.
    BigGreen, the crippled dj and my slef love you, you know that.

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    BigGreen, the crippled dj and my slef love you, you know that.


    so fuckin call an ole man on occasion and lemmie know your ok dammit!!!!!

    I thought you guys were still down south,close to the katrina crazy!

    dont email me on the web,i was a bad boy and cant get emails here.

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    I dont have your number asshole, I e-mailed you our number is in the e-mail, why dont you call me!!!!!

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    I dont have your number asshole, I e-mailed you our number is in the e-mail, why dont you call me!!!!!
    dont shake yer good arm at me mutha fucka!!!!!

    It aint my fault!!!!!!!

    I was a bad boy on da web,they wont let me email.

    Email me at [email protected].

    Dam its good to know you guys are ok and proper!!!!!
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    I already e-mailed you at that address... Geez!!!!!!!!
    And I am not a one armed anything!!!! I am a two armed, and both work fine thankyou very much. you have me mistaken for my hubby!!!!

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    I don't know why it was even necessary to ask this question.

    The only other thing I can say is that if she will do that to get your attention, she will be just as quick to dump you for someone else (mid lap dance)- and expect to get paid in full for it!!!

    I learned a long time ago to watch how people treat others, because one day that person is going to be me...
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    Quote Originally Posted by MinahSky
    I don't know why it was even necessary to ask this question.
    I just wanted some dancer input. This never happened before and I was curious. I thought it was an aggressive dancer working for my attention and money and it worked.

    Didn't mean to imply I kicked a girl off my lap mid-dance, stiffed her for half pay and then moved to the next girl.

    It didn't occur to me before reading some of these posts I might have been passed. My experience so far is that it's rare for dancers to give up money.
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    "I find that stuff a turn on and if our dance is mediocre it's enough to get me to switch dancers."

    This was the part that made me want to get defensive. It's cool that you get turned on by girls competing for your attention, but to send signals mid-dance that you're getting excited because this other dancer wants to sit with you can sting.

    How often do you go to the club where this took place? Do the dancers there know you? We had a guy at a club I worked at who would try to get other dancer's attention during dances, and we all just learned to stay away. There was no money there for us anyways. If a dancer knows that you'll get bored and want to switch after one or two dances, she'll look elsewhere, and tell others to do the same.

    Also, just because no drama took place on the floor doesn't mean it didn't happen in the dressing room. If I had tried that, vet or not, I would've gotten some words.
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    You've got to quit thinking of customers as property. THe customer has the right to choose who they purchase from. A customer is simply a person seeking to have their needs fulfilled. If one provider is unsatisfactory by all means they have the right to switch.
    General business practice proposes that if you cannot provide the adequate product/service , that you suggest another provider. Did a sales woman ever tell you" Oh, we don't carry that line but if you try Sak's down the street....." Yes ,I know that's not what you expect to hear in a SC, but maybe you should.

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