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    Default Private Dancing Tool Kit

    If there is a thread devoted to this subject that I overlooked when searching, please let me know...

    I'm curious what those who dance privately bring to their appointments--lighting (bought a portable blacklight today), cd player/iPod/etc., mood stuff (candles, blankets?)...toys??

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    Hey! Great idea. Man, I have TONS of ideas as to what I could possibly bring for a private show. I do not work in a club atmosphere either. But, I'll tell you what. From the men that I have danced for, they want just a "regular" girl who is discreet. They don't want the costumes, the 6-in heels, and all that other stuff. Most men want to just unwind at home.

    I was actually talking to Mod. Paris about getting portable lights. I think this would only work for parties though. (where did you get this portable blacklight? tell me more)

    Having a CD player is good. But mostly I ask them what type of music they would like to hear (mostly rock) and I just go to work on that hahaa.

    Stuff to set the mood...I would probably only bring things like this (a credit card show) if I knew I was going to spend multiple hours with the guy. But the more you think about it..that could kinda give a man the wrong idea as to what type of show you're putting on.

    Nope...I don't do toys.







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    When i quit the club and went out on my own. I did showers shows, toys and yes dildo shows. They usually had music, or it was not required. Candles sound cool, but most guys i would do a private for wanted major lights! Blankets....Well i used a bed!

    The only thing i brought was a kiddie pool from time to time, they liked to pour food stuff onmy breasts! And dress up was a biggie too! Under my "normal" clothes they wanted outfits, so at times i would change out to suit different guys. I often had more than 3 guys at a private.

    Everything was negotiated over the phone before hand, so i knew what they wanted!

    Toy shows were the biggest seller for me!!!!

    Pamela

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    cinammonkisses, I found the portable blacklight for about $15 in the lighting section of Wal Mart. It can lay flat or be used free-standing, so you can direct the light in any direction. Target.com has a "Unique Lamps" section on their site...there is a rotating disco ball lamp that looks pretty cool. I worked a frat rush a few weeks ago and the lights were not dimmed near enough...I felt so much more "exposed" than at the club...

    Thanks for the ideas, y'all...do you bring your own boombox or use their systems?

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    hey sienna, i have the same blacklight from walmart... i worked with one girl who bought black lights like by the string.. (like christmas lights) and draped them around the chair....

    you might want a strobe light.... i bought a little stereo that is AWESOME on clearance at target for like $14... also, make sure you always bring baby wipes, a can of whipped cream (sometimes ive brought regular AND chocolate)

    also for your toys... bring a couple different colors, bring a squirting dildo, a double ender if you do two girl shows,... also, bring an old (just not dirty) sheet, cuz you never know whats been on the floor of some of those places (if you do shows in a house)... also, make sure your drill is charged if you use a drill-do, or bring an extension cord for it if its plug-inable... im sure i forgot stuff, but i dunno now.. OH! your watered down lotion (or watered down conditioner like some girls use) for lotion rubs...

    good luck, and sorry for repeating stuff other people might have said


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    Honey and Pamela: Do you ladies have any bachelor party ideas? I've only done one party so far, and I mostly just followed the girls lead. But in the event that I do a party alone, I want to have some show ideas!







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    Hey, what are you guys thoughts on a portable pole? I wanted to get one for my house..but getting it to use for the shows seems like that would be a great idea too.







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    Small lights, black lights and strobe lights are a good choice, I normally bring a standard CD/Boombox I have one that plays MP3s burned off the CD which makes it cheaper than using an ipod. Some people like small mist/fog machines (these can be picked up at places like spencers gifts) but as a warning some customers do not like the emissions those produce as well. As far as some of the items mentions by others it all depends what kind of a private "dance" you do. I see a big difference between exotic dancing and things like two girl shows but since a lot of so called agencies offer both I guess it gets mixed in from a lot of peoples perceptions.
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    ooh, i really love this thread... i'm thinking of getting into private shows/parties for a little extra cash... this is so helpful!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses
    Honey and Pamela: Do you ladies have any bachelor party ideas? I've only done one party so far, and I mostly just followed the girls lead. But in the event that I do a party alone, I want to have some show ideas!
    Bachelour parties were the most fun. Easy. Always more guys than one of course, but the main focus was always on the bachelour. No toys with these guys. Just raunchy nude ld's with friction!

    What i found fun (a friend said try it one night) I bought a thrift store wedding gown. I cut it up all sexy, short up the front to the crotch area, low cut in the front, to boobs, and white stockings, garter and a neat veil! Very sexy, but trashy!

    Music: White Wedding, Billy Idoil. Like A Virgin, Maddona!


    Worked well for me. These types of parties seem to be easy, the guys drink too much and can't handle it too long!!! Lol.

    Good luck,

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pamela
    What i found fun (a friend said try it one night) I bought a thrift store wedding gown. I cut it up all sexy, short up the front to the crotch area, low cut in the front, to boobs, and white stockings, garter and a neat veil! Very sexy, but trashy!

    Music: White Wedding, Billy Idoil. Like A Virgin, Maddona!
    Dam that sounds so hot Pam! I can totally see you rocking to that See that is the level of creativity that I need. At my agency, they just "come as is" lol I mean the guys like it..but I really want my shows to be memorable. You know..like 20yrs down the line, and old man is thinking back to his bachelor party. And he'll say, "Dam that Noelle (my stage name ) really showed me a good time!"







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    That's right hun!!! Try it!

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    Ladies, I just proposed to Pryce that he give us (private dancers) a go at having our own forum. Please go to the link below and give some imput. I really like the help that I'm getting from you ladies thus far..but I know there are more of us out there, who could give so much more information!

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...054#post610466







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    I literally have a rolling rubbermade tub that I bring along. Inside I have a strobe light and portable black light, portable cd player, glow in the dark bubbles, body paint, a sheet that I decorated with craft paints, a blowup kiddy pool, a whip, handcuffs, blindfold, a few candles, an empty TP roll, an extra t-back, a few silk scarves, and misc. things I find in my travels. I always ask what they would like to see in advance so that I can bring any extra props along.

    I love the idea of making a trashy wedding dress costume so now I think I have a new craft project!!
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    I will 2nd the idea for a forum specifically for Private dancers. I don't do much club dancing anymore but I am always looking for unique ideas for private parties.
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    I love all of these ideas. I have most of these items and am very creative. I am having problems with customers expecting more than a dance. I am in a commonwealth and there are strict show and touch rules-NONE. I wear pasties, and give a great show. Is this normal? I usually dance in a club, and have started doing out calls. As we all know, the economy is on the skids...
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    Whoot Whoot!!! Hell yea!

    I went to check in on the "site issues" Pryce thinks us having our forum made would be a great idea!!!! He said he's getting in contact with the Mod's to see what they think.

    Don't be lieve me? Go to Site Issues and see for yourself!!!!







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