Amadeus, the point of the car saleswoman story, as I'm sure you know, was to suggest that dancers are not at work to avail themselves of your scintillating wit and engaging personality, but may in fact be trying to sell you a dance the entire time they are talking to you. In their mind, they are in the business of persuading, while you, a non-buyer, are in the business of resisting. They talk to you, true, but not because they value the interaction with you over the money they "could be making." They are talking to you with the express intention of enticing you to take a different action.
Aside from this obvious disconnect, there also seems to be an almost charming blindness to the subtle manipulations, seductions, enticements and deception that undermine the validity of your assumed clean transactional analysis on its face. As noted elsewhere in this forum, a strip club is a Special Ethical Arena.
I think it's more the rule than the exception that regular posters in this forum have expanded relationships with dancers. I certainly qualify for that on about three different levels.But as a customer -- and I always try to be a very, very good one -- I assure you that I would never dream for a second, not for one scintilla of a nanosecond, of going into a club without the intention of spending a great deal of money on the dancers. Especially those who are also my friends. It's just one of those great laws of nature.
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But as a customer -- and I always try to be a very, very good one -- I assure you that I would never dream for a second, not for one scintilla of a nanosecond, of going into a club without the intention of spending a great deal of money on the dancers. Especially those who are also my friends. It's just one of those great laws of nature.
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