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    Ok I've been around here long enough to know that you should be making eye contact, smiling etc. I went to a club where one dancer came out for her set
    "dancing" and fixing her hair at the same time. I mean she was putting it into a ponytail. She came over to where we were and asked us if we were going to be working there. Then she started putting her leg up on the pole to do a trick and noticed something on her leg and stopped to look at it for what seemed to be a minute. She didn't really seem to care about what the custies were doing. She was in her own little world!

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    lmao well maybe she was just bored ? or on something .. who knows

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    I've seen those, or they bend over the bar to talk to another dancer, or they bring an ashtray on the side of stage so they can smoke every few beats, I have been drunk enought ot carry my drink up there (ops!) but the door man let me know it real quick, I have seen girls go off stage, and while I was up there just walk up there and grab what they thought was their top, and walk off....seriously.

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    We all have "that" dancer in each club. This years "that dancer" is funny to watch. She does this constant flipping of her very short hair.

    She also smokes till she is all the way up on stage then puts it out , only to relight it when her song(s) finish. She also carries one of those crown Royal bags ( my GOD i hate when girls carry those.) but hers has a hole in it and she safety pins it and it's loaded down with everything and I do mean everything in it. Shit even falls out as she walks.

    She also snorts her antibotics. It is only that because she was caught doing it by managers.

    Shes very nice though. She claims 33 , but years have NOT been kind to her. I honestly would have guessed 45 + and that's being kind.

    Sadly most of these "other world dancers" behavior is caused by years of drug abuse. Sometimes it's mental illness. Typically its crack, coke and now meth. Shit rots your brain to say the least.

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    I agree. What about those girls who were very hyper and happy the first 1-2 hours, then in the third hour, she is in the dressing room, all by her self of course, and you go back there than it's crying," These guys suck and all these guys don't kie me." Within 2 minutes the girl is is putting on her clothes and says she is never coming back, But somehow she keeps showing up at work like clockwork every week happy and hyper, the next crashing and buring.

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    HAhaahhaaa, yes, I was one of those in my own world.

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    ...I was "in my own world" so to speak the other evening...I have been on this forum for years (under another name previously, targeted by a 'troll' and changed names...anywhoo) I read all the articles and usually maintain a very professional image : always busy, (which is true, or give the illusion, remember custys names/professions/stories/hobbies, ect...) BUT the other evening it was so horrific (custy wise, not just for me but ALL the other poor gals too) Soooo, after smiling, impromptu dancing (NEVER do I say dollar dance, never undersell oneself ) and maintaining a positive attitude became angered by the apparent disrespect from all drooling, staring individuals who refused to tip anyone...I lit a cigarette with a match right there on stage in a 'silent protest' --subtlily suggesting "no tip, no strip", and you get what you (don't) pay for! So, I too am guilty, but did this ONCE in my 7 years of performing...perhaps some others do this for that same reason? Otherwise I agree it looks bad for all the other girls and the club...perhaps it is a reflection of our diminishing economy.
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    the girls that usually are hyper and then screaming ..crying ..quit

    and return in a few days to do it all over is a HUGE sign of a "come down" I witnessed this Thursday with a friend who is having a serious coke issue these days.

    It's like clockwork.

    She was pissed IMO because she didnt make enough to support her habit that night and say she earned something.

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    "no tip, no strip" teehee.

    sometimes its kind of cute to see a girl break down the performance barrier and do something a little cheeky and "innapropriate", brings some fun and realism into the game....though only when its intentional of course...hah.

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    My club is notorious for guys coming in, watching the game, playing pool, drinking beer with friends... doing ANYTHING but stage tipping... Sometimes it's like squeezing water from a stone to get them to buy dances. Occasionally, if I'm having a bad day, I'll just lay down on stage on my tummy and watch the tv. If anyone ever asks what I'm doing, I say 'Watching the game'.

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    Quote Originally Posted by justine08
    ....and maintaining a positive attitude became angered by the apparent disrespect from all drooling, staring individuals who refused to tip anyone...I lit a cigarette with a match right there on stage in a 'silent protest' --subtlily suggesting "no tip, no strip", and you get what you (don't) pay for!
    That is so cute! Taking a personal stand...doing something that is of the minority really screams RESPECT! Did the guys take the hint Justine?







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    HAHAHA
    I danced with a girl that would sit down and cross her arms in a pout mode when people weren't tipping her. We went to The Buffalo Station in Bozeman and she did that.... needless to say they never asked her to come back. The DJ even stopped her music. Other nights she'd get on stage and lay down. I always told her how tacky and materialistic it made her seem. She was always in her own little world, one day she'd be high as hell and dancing whether she gets tipped or not and others she was coming down and was to broke to pay attention and do her job.
    When I get on stage and no one is tipping or paying attention, I watch myself dance in the mirror like I'm in love with myself or I do pole tricks and just smile lovingly at people without removing my clothes until they start to tip. Rarely do I go into my own little world while dancing because I prefer to have everyone watching me and you don't get that when you are all caught up in yourself. Guys come to SC's to get female attention so if you ain't paying attention to them...they ain't payin'!
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    I knew one girl who would climb the pole, sit up there with her legs crossed, and pretend to do her nails wehn it got like that. It actaully got a laugh more than once, and she often sold dances on the humor aspect of it.


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    Uh oh. Hope this wasn't me the other day. Well, I didn't fix my hair or pick lint off my clothes, but sometimes it's hard to keep your game face on when it's boring in the club. Most of the customers were either a mile away from the stage or watching TV, except for one big table of drunk hecklers that I was trying to ignore. Ugh.

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    Maybe it was that first few minutes after the club is open for business,when there are no customers yet,and she just got finished getting ready for the night and was making final adjustments.If not,she could have a lot on her mind,or....who knows...

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    there's a girl like this at the club i work in. i guess "stage presence" doesn't matter much, because she still does very well. i guess at this club, it doesn't matter how well you do on stage since basically all the money comes from lapdances.

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    When the club is slow, and nobody is at the tipping rail, I think everyone appears to be in their own little world...I don't get excited about getting naked for nothing...Although smoking on stage or fixing your hair is over the line...
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    lol.....I started with a crown royal bag; I carried my cell phone in it andmoney til I got boots....and then i just turned the phone off and kept my money in my boot....funny to see that comment on the bags now.....2 yrs later. i also started in a low pair of boots til I got heels that would give a little slide and then went to real hooker boots...I still have them...they are my babys....but that is just funny to think about the beginning comapred to the now. And cell phones.....have you seen girls giving a dance and their phone rings and htey just turn, answer and go ahead talking...while doing a little shake......that still cracks me up.

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    dancers in their own world? Yep. It's my world and you're just living in it. LOL!!!

    I keep dancing even if no one looks....it's my job, I might as well work my ass if no one will work their wallet....

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