This is a question for any men or women on here, though I suspect the women may be more helpful.
I'm going to start with a preface. When I ask my guy friends about this problem, they usually have a sarcastic "must be rough" attitude and totally disregard this as being a very real problem. That being said...
My girlfriend and I have had a long-standing problem with my size. I'm certainly not a bull moose, but well above average would probably be a reasonable description. While most guys seem to think that this is nothing shy of the greatest blessing, in reality it seems to be every bit as much a curse. Sex with my GF always ends with the phrase (or its equivelent) "honey, its starting to hurt". As a result, sex very rarely goes past 30 - 45 minutes. Having sex for hours is simply not even an option. I would have a better chance of being hit by a meteor. Not only that, but if we DO go for say, 45 minutes, she is sore for like two or three days! Thus, the maximum amount of sex I can ever expect is an aggregate of 45 minutes over three days. A more realistic figure would be 45 minutes a WEEK because she doesn't want to be walking around work bow-legged the next day. So, if she has to work the next day, guess what, none for me! And, to make an already bad situation worse, what I'll call "jackhammer" sex is veeeeery limited (penis = car, cervix = brick wall, GF = intensive care unit).
To sum up the above, I get 45 total minutes of moderately-paced sex, every week.
I simply can't live with that. It has become a MAJOR issue. Everything else in the relationship is fine and it seems so shallow to make this issue a deal breaker, but I'm really starting to resent it (even though it really isn't her fault).
KY jelly has been some help, but it is far from a miracle cure. ANY suggestions would be appreciated beyond belief.
Thanks in advance for your consideration of this matter.



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I mean, there is only so long I can go before I start to feel like I am masturbating with a vibrator covered in sandpaper.






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