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    the other night i was at work, and maybe it could have just been an off night for me, but for whatever reason i was just not feeling very sexy. i know sometimes we have to fake it in this business, but obviously the better we feel about ourselves the better we tend to do. i think i am attractive, andi have guys tell me that @ work too. but for some reason, i just wasn't feeling SEXY. i wasn't liking the way i danced that night either. i was watching some of the other girls, and some of them just look really sexy on stage. and it got me thinking about the difference between being hot/attractive, and being sexy. can you be one without the other?
    hopefully i was just having an off night. but everyone just seemed sexier to me then i seemed to myself.
    anyone else ever feel this way??

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    Default Re: difference between being hot and being sexy? affecting work confidence

    One of my favorite dressing room quotes was from a girl called Rose, who came in from a stage set and said, "I felt profoundly unsexy up there."

    I think we've all felt that way at times.

    When I complained one day in the dressing room of feeling profoundly unsexy myself, a friend of mine cooed sympathetically, "oooohhhh, are you getting the Aerial View?" This refers to the sensation you sometimes get that you are observing yourself from afar--watching yourself going through the motions, trying so hard to project the image of the insatiable sex bomb, when really you're just thinking about normal-person stuff--and the whole thing just suddenly seems so ridiculous.

    It was funny because she didn't even have to explain the phrase--I knew exactly what she meant. Unless it happens very frequently, I don't think it's a big deal. We all have moments when we're off our game.

    And I do think that there is a significant difference between being "hot" (meaning physically attractive) and being "sexy."

    I've known women who are hot but not sexy, and women who are sexy without being "hot." Hot is all about genetic endowments (or cosmetic tweaking) and careful maintenance of your appearance. Sexy is more about body language and attitude.
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    This sounds like an algebra equation, but: if you're sexy, you're hot. However, you don't always have to be hot to be sexy. That's why sometimes the most physically beautiful girls can't match the earnings of some of the less attractive, more confident, self-assured girls. It happens to everyone. There are days I feel hot, and days I feel like I look like hammered shit. If you start feeling like that, just take a little break at work. Go in the back and relax or give someone a call, change outfits, or just chill. If it happens before work, give yurself a spa treatment.
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    Being hot is more like a physical compliment, while being sexy is an auora that resounds around someone. It's like when I look in the mirror today I go damn I am so not hot in this outfit , but then I walk away and look back and flirt with myself a little and I think damn that was sexy tho.
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    Everyone has days when they dont feel like their normal sexy selves (for me its right b4 my period).I just try to relax, and calm down.I feel a whole lot better knowing its just in my head and that Im still super sexy .Being hot is a physical thing (and more of a opinion depending on who's doing the judging).Sexy is something thats in your soul, you cant hide it because its a part of your personality.Being sexy is more of a fact, either you are or you're not.

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