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    Is this Derek's blog? In this blog, the guy discusses his strip club enperiences and how much he was allowed to get away with. Hmm, perhaps I'll post a comment linking him to UNICEF or Red Cross, hoping he'll take the hint. This was linked from collegehumor.com.

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    Sadly,. ther are porbaly a lot more dereks out there than we want to know about.


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    Quote Originally Posted by colleen
    Sadly,. ther are porbaly a lot more dereks out there than we want to know about.

    I can pretty much confirm that. More guys than will admit are like that.

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    What is the big deal here? He has a blog entry about having fun at the club. All the extra activity appeared stripper initiated. He's an average PL. Can someone please point out to me how, besides being unattractive and dull, he is anything like Derek?

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    1. bragging about getting extras in the club
    2. probably bullshitting about all the extras being stripper initiated

    In my experience, the guys are always trying to get get get, and then crying how they "didn't know it's against the rules" or some other bullshit.

    But nah, I don't think this is Derek. Derek was a tad more funny and less verbose.

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    The only thing that Derek and the guy in the blog have in common is that they both have a penis-presumably. I don't see the problem with a guy going into a strip club and taking advantage of what was offered to him. Lumping him into Derek territory just because he had some fun is hugely hypocritical. Post a link to UNICEF? What in the hell did he do to deserve that? He didn't even name any of the dancers!

    If it makes you ladies feel better to think that we guys initiate everything and spend all of our SC time trying to grope innocent clean dancers that's fine. I know there are enough dick-head customers out there to support your point of view.
    However, the reality is not every customer is a rain coater with roving hands and not every dancer is as "Clean" as you all would like to believe. The guy in this blog got propositioned by a dancer who was willing to cross the line in order to get his business. What's the problem? This happens every day in SCs all over the country. Kudos to her for keeping her word and delivering on what she promised.

    Most of my favs are medium mileage, no-extras girls. That doesn't mean I've never received extras and honestly, though I enjoyed myself immensely, I've never solicited an extra in over 20 years of clubbing. HJ, BJ and FS have all been offered and cheerfully accepted and always at the going rate-or lower-for the same amount of songs, or time, for a non-extras dance.

    Assuming that all guys are groping perverts looking for prey is no less hypoctritical than when a guy in a SC assumes that you will sleep with him because you are a dancer.
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    What Yoda said, except I turn down most of the extras offers because I love my ATF.

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    Yeah, because dancers ALWAYS intiate extras! Guys NEVER ask for them...there's tons of Dereks out there, and they're making work hell for more dancers every day because they multiply like mold spores.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SportsWriter2
    If you want to laugh and cry with another PL, check out the site below.

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    Oh sixty, sixty, sixty. You seem like a nice man but your blog makes me cringe. While certainly no Jeff of Bianca fame, I just can't understand why in 14 years of clubbing, you are still such a PL. Damn, I wish you were MY customer. But since there is nil chance of that, I'm just going to call 'em like I see 'em. Best regards, Kat

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    Quote Originally Posted by NinaDaisy
    Yeah, because dancers ALWAYS intiate extras! Guys NEVER ask for them...there's tons of Dereks out there, and they're making work hell for more dancers every day because they multiply like mold spores.
    Well, nobody ever said that dancers always initiate extras. All I'm saying is that they sometimes do. Can you honestly deny this Nina?
    Look, the Dereks are out there, we all know this, but so are the willing participants on the dancer side; and they too are multiplying like mold spores making work hell for more dancers every day.

    My only point here is that it's two way street. Denying that is simply lying to yourself.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Krazyjane
    Not unless Derek has moved to Oklahoma. I gotta say that I envy how this guy gets to travel.

    Did anyone read the second and third pages? (October 2 entry to be exact). This guy has a little raincoater AND a little RIL in him.
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    I think its sad to assume either the customer or dancer initiate extras. I'd say its right down the middle from the stripperweb blacksheep, to the pinkie feeling guilty about making out with military types in PD rooms since she's married.

    Its just not worth judging someone for being human and doing what nature says we should do. Just like its not worth judging someone who ignores the desire. As long as the situation was handled in a mature respectible way, who gives a shit.

    Not that I look for it, but I think if it was more stripperweb community acceptible to understand that this happens, maybe the few dancers who actually want to talk about it, wont be feared for being torn apart.

    I guess I understand how an "extras girl" effects a "non extras" girl, but as another thread defines extras, we all know that if extras weren't involved, period, it would be something else.

    Being very sporty-ish in my ways <ATF only for me, and she doesn't do extras!>, I amd happy when I spend a nice evening with my ATF and I am sure she enjoys me, if and only if for the fact that the guys looking for extras can go to other dancers.

    I digress tho, just my opinion.

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    Extras smextras. Sheesh, I don't think it's even relevant. I'm sorry but neither one of the referenced blogs are as entertaining as Derek's posts. My eyes glazed over with boredom. Derek's posts were camp, in a way that you're not sure whether they're deliberate parody or unintentional parody.

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    I don't live in a bubble. I know that there are dancers who initiate, I've seen it happen. However, I've read a few strip-clubbing blogs and it seems that the guys who get them always have the girls initiate because they're perhaps trying to make themselves out to be some stud who doesn't need to ask. Whatever.
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    Probably the conversation goes sometnign like this:

    Him: Can you take care of me, baby?

    HEr: How do you mean?

    Him: Well, do you do anythig other than dance?

    Her: I do lots of things other than dance. what do you want?

    HIm: Well I need a little more than jsut a dance, you know?

    Her: Oh?

    Him: yeah, you know, I really need to have a happy ending.

    Her: REally?

    Him: Yeah, a really happy ending, you know?

    Her: You mean you wnat a hand job? Why didn't you just come out and say it!

    See? SHE was initaiting!


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    Quote Originally Posted by NinaDaisy
    I don't live in a bubble. I know that there are dancers who initiate, I've seen it happen. However, I've read a few strip-clubbing blogs and it seems that the guys who get them always have the girls initiate because they're perhaps trying to make themselves out to be some stud who doesn't need to ask. Whatever.
    If a dancer initiated with me, I'd feel like THE MAN. Dunno if I would accept the oppertunity, but those who know me closely right now, know, even for money, that dancer is potentially biting off more than she can chew!
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    Quote Originally Posted by NinaDaisy
    I don't live in a bubble. I know that there are dancers who initiate, I've seen it happen. However, I've read a few strip-clubbing blogs and it seems that the guys who get them always have the girls initiate because they're perhaps trying to make themselves out to be some stud who doesn't need to ask. Whatever.
    Well yeah, guys lie about sex all the time. We are trained at a very early age to do so. Pounding your chest on a blog or a website really has nothing to do with what actually happens in a strip club.

    There are dancers who initiate and there are customers who initiate. Honestly what's the difference WHO initiates it? If their where not dancers who performed extras there wouldn't be customers looking for them. It's not an SC myth, it's reality. The chicken or egg theory certainly applies here.

    Yes, extras are a pain in the ass for clean girls(the majority of dancers). I should know, my ATF, who was a clean dancer, quit a few years ago mostly because of the ugly rumors that another dancer, who was supposed to be her friend, started spreading about her when the she lost a few customers to my ATF.

    It's unfair competition but unfair competion exists in just about any business.
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    If their where not dancers who performed extras there wouldn't be customers looking for them.
    You must be joking. Yoda has taken leave of his senses.

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    Yoda, I have to go with Lilith calling you out on that supposition. If no dancer on the planet performed extras, customers would still be looking for them. Nice try, though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SportsWriter2
    Yoda, I have to go with Lilith calling you out on that supposition. If no dancer on the planet performed extras, customers would still be looking for them. Nice try, though.
    Then perhaps they can look for them at the lingerie model studios, massage parlours, jack shacks, incalls, and outcalls for escorts.

    Our main extras girl stays the hell away from me, and the rest keep a low profile about it, but now management is making comments about firing girls that are dancing too dirty. Great, now we all have to be worried about getting caught doing some piddly squat baby extras (like taking both feet off the floor, nothing serious) because the cock-suckers can't take it OTC. And believe me, the customers don't give a shit if we get fired or in trouble, they just keep playing the numbers game until their money isn't good enough for me anymore.....

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    This blog reminds me of escort reviews - where the guy is always a superstud with a twelve inch penis and he makes his hooker come eight times by just looking at her.

    Guys exaggerate and publicize their pseudo-experiences because they have small winkies and low self-esteem. Nothing new or original about that.

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    Sporty and Lilith: You may be right or I may be, since the original crime scene has been corrupted for years we'll never really know. My clubbing days go back to well before there where private dances or places in an SC where a customer and dancer would even sit together. Then came drink scams and girls rubbing your leg under a booth while you bought her watered down drinks at $50 a wack. At some point some dancers started offering to leave with the guy and go to a hotel. OK, maybe the guy asked first or maybe the girl offered. Some girls offered and never showed up, some girls did. Here we go with the chicken/egg thing again. What is the difference? Yes, there are guys looking for extras there are girls who will take their money. Where it started is irrelevent. It's here, it's probably not going away in a hurry, and it's very much a two way street.

    Yes, all guys want sex. If they didn't strip clubs in their present form would not exist.
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    Quote Originally Posted by smartcookie
    This blog reminds me of escort reviews - where the guy is always a superstud with a twelve inch penis and he makes his hooker come eight times by just looking at her.
    I couldn't agree more, in fact, when I read certain posts on the blue side it reminds me of the crap I see on The Erotic Review. Every girl swallows, has five orgasms during DATY and comments about "how big it is". Saddly, I know the reality to be soooooooooooo different...
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us
    Every girl swallows, has five orgasms during DATY and comments about "how big it is". Saddly, I know the reality to be soooooooooooo different...
    Really? I'd feel soooooooooooo rejected.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Silverback
    I, on the other hand, choose to believe everything and then accept that it really doesn't matter.
    I accept it really doesn't matter before I choose to believe it, but that's just my "play safe" style.

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