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    I am about to graduate with my degree in may, and i'm having a very hard time focusing, studying, and generally staying in the "school mode".... all i can think about is wanting to go back and dance, but theres no way in hell I"m going to dance again around school or my hometown.. its just too risky to be caught again... I know i need to stay strong, and finish up.... i just have no desire to get a normal working job when im done with school.. All i wanna do is move away from ohio and dance for a while.... people keep asking me what i wanna do when im done and i just don't know what to say.... I guess I'm wondering, have any of you felt like that when you were almost done with your degree- you didn't immediately want to get a corporate day time job????? I need to stop worrying about it, but its hard.. i just miss dancing, the girls at work, the crazy drama (at times) and not having to constantly worry about money. if any of you girls have ever been in this situation or have any valuable advice, that would be great..
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    You went to school for a reason. Don't waste all that money you spent on it. Plus, you could always do both, and just work one night a week.

    I do understand the desire to go back, though. There aren't many day jobs out there that provide the same amount of money and excitement.

    Think about this, though...in a day job, if someone you're working for grabs your ass or tries to stick his hand on your crotch you can sue.

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    I don't so much get withdrawals about the dancing so much as I do the freedom. I certainly can get into a funk of wanting to just not go into work one night, or want to sit in a dressing room for a while. Can't do that in a 9-5.
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    I always miss dancing when I'm unable to work. I have a degree ( as do many of the other ladies on SW ) and I still continue to dance. I love the freedom, the money and being able to express my sexual side. Like was mentioned in a previous post you can always do the 9-5 during the week and go to the club on the weekends.
    In the meantime why don't you go out of town on the weekends to work ?
    I was paranoid about people from school seeing me. So every weekend I would high tail it to another city where no one knew me from adam.
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    My uncle taught me a great saying: "Do what you have to now to do what you want to later."

    I miss dancing during breaks but them I go make a few invert spins on the clotheline pole and everything's better. LOL

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    today i fell asleep in class.... whoops....

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    I can relate. I totally have might straight life lined up and I still miss dancing. Actually what I miss most is waking up at noon and taking naps durning the day, having time to workout 2 hours a day, reading for pleasure, listening to all the music played at my club, expressing my sexuality and my love for certain songs on stage, and counting, stacking my cash in the morning. But I do remember the bad stuff too so it keeps me in check.
    Bottom line is I may or may not consider doing it again in a limited capacity if the benefits outweigh the costs- it would be mostly for shits and giggles though.
    I don't like the idea of working sweatshop hours at a law firm but I'm going to do so because it will give me the skill set to eventually go out on my own. So that keeps me motivated.

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