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    I have read through many threads here, great site. I thought I would suggest a thread about state to state ways for a cutomer to act. At least how the dancers would like us to act. No one wants to be cheap but sometimes travelers don't know the local customs.

    Several years ago I went to a club in upstate NY with my girlfriend, we had a great time and have been regulars since.

    Typically when we sit at the stage we tip at least a dollar per song. Most clubs around here do two songs per girl. Sometimes we tip more. It's understood if you don't tip, don't sit at the stage. The move is to lay a dollar on the side of the stage and the dancer will be around to take it in various ways. that seems the usual around here. LD's are $20 a song and we usually get a few a piece and tip an extra 5 or 10 per song. We tend to get one at a time and a few different girls. We don't know if that normal or not.
    We have some favorites that welcome us and are comfortable around here.

    Then when visiting friends we went to a club in West Virginia. Sat up by the stage and laid our dollars down, followed by dirty looks from everyone. The dancer came over and said she can't take that. Then pulled out her garter and we carefully tucked a few dollars in it. Then she danced a little in front of us and moved on. Much different from where we are from.

    Later on we went to Niagra Falls and Toronto. In Niagra Falls my girl tried to get a lap dance.. they took her money and just before it began they said the rules are no lap dances for girls. I was watching the girl onstage and my girlfriend comes out a little upset saying they said they are not allowed. The dancer came up to me with "im so sorry, im so sorry, it's my boss" etc. I could still get one but was pissed at that point. Got my money back and left.
    Went to another club. This one was huge. I bet over 100 girls working. They all were giving my girl a dirty look/ evil gaze. She was the only female customer there. They also made us feel unwelcome.
    We don't expect anything from the clubs. We just go with tons of money to give out and enjoy doing it. I have read on here about girls trying to get money but some clubs we go to chase away our money.
    In Toronto we but canadian $5 bills on stage and everyone looked at us like we were crazy.

    So my point being, maybe it should be made clear the rules or customs of the area for travelers. For people like us that want to give money and play along but don't know the traditions of the area.

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    Try asking a dancer that you both have been talking to. I sometimes sit with couples just to make them feel comfortable.

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    As a couple we thank you for paying attention to them. We have money to give to.

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    For a dancer's POV, you have to take into account that most of the girls in the clubs noe are brats.

    At my club they (the girls) come in the club in swarms, they take all the chairs from the stage, and pull them away and refuse to tip anyone. They usually make fun od each and every girl on the stage, and half the time end up giving table dances to the other custys who are male for money.

    If you are a good couple, then be persistant, the dancers will eventually figure out that you guys are cool, and waht to have fun and take us seriously. They will then be better to you guys.

    I personally love couples and do dances for them all the time.

    It's just the gaggles of girls that get on my last damn nerves, lol!

    Hell, if you guys ever came into my club, the dancers would probaby attack you for being good custys, lol.

    The college girls around here, are way too catty and call us sluts for dancing, but by the end of the night, they are all trying to give talbe dances for a free drink. Who's skanky now?!
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    I see that and it's always the heavyset cow thats hunching her SO's leg and giggling as he lets her. Ugh. If I did that in a public place I would get arrested.

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    They should charge female customers an additional five dollars to get into the club. Kinda a reverse of the "ladies night" deal.

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    Women should have to bring a male escort to at least cut down on the envious and jealous bitches that harrass the dancers.
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    Oh Crow if only that were true, lol!!

    Most of the girls we get in, are college age "party girls" who are not that bad. Most (60-75%) could be dancers with just the smallest amount of polish.

    Deogol, no joke!!! I wish they would make the girls pay and the guys get in free, just on weekends, lol.

    Casual, I have tried to mention that before, but "what do I know? I'm only a stupid stripper!"

    Even if it was just one male for every 2 girls that would help so much.
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    Quote Originally Posted by custie
    In Toronto we but canadian $5 bills on stage and everyone looked at us like we were crazy.
    We do things a little different in Ontario than the U.S.. Sitting at the stage doesn't mean automatic tipping. Actually, you usually only tip at the stage if your laying down on it and most of the time this is just the young college types; although not always - I don't want to stereotype. Of course, as with everything, this will vary from area to area. I always tip my server anywhere between 2 to 3 dollars per drink. I don't like shooters but every time the shooter girl comes around and asks if I want one, I usually offer to buy her one instead or tip her a few bucks. Lap dances are $15 to $20 and I usually tip an extra dance for every three I get.

    I know what you're saying about not knowing the local customs for tipping. The first time I went to a club in the U.S. was in Kentucky and I was sitting at the stage, getting funny looks. I had no idea I was supposed to tip for sitting there. One of the girls was kind enough to fill me in; she was very polite about it. I apologized for my ignorance and made sure to generously tip each of the girls the next time they came around to make up for my ignorance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deogol
    They should charge female customers an additional five dollars to get into the club. Kinda a reverse of the "ladies night" deal.
    I would be willing to pay an extra $5 if the girls were great but....

    Quote Originally Posted by Casual Observer
    Women should have to bring a male escort to at least cut down on the envious and jealous bitches that harrass the dancers.
    Heck! That would mean I couldn't go into strip clubs. I have a weird group of friends where none of the guys I hang around with likes strip clubs o.o'

    I promise I'm a good girl and only go in to have fun and spend money.

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    I wouldn't care too much about paying an extra $5 to get into a club, coz they know me pretty well at most of the clubs I go to & would let me in free anyway....but this "bring-a-male-to-get-in"???
    No freakin way!!! When I go to SC's, I prefer to go alone....I like it better that way.

    Unless it's "bring-a-male-and-get-in-free"......hmmmmm......it would save me that extra $5.00.......

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    Etiquette.

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    Subject lines grab your attention & make you want to actually read what's inside. I didn't even feel the urge to...just the urge to correct. Whatever is inside doesn't need to be corrected... Just like I would hope that SW wouldn't mispell "Moderator".

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    Hey, give us girls a chance ! Obviously, you have every right to be annoyed with bitchy women who are just there to criticize or guard their men, but some of us are there to enjoy the show and pay well for the privilege, and you should wait and see which are which instead of writing all female customers off .

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