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    Well for a few reasons, I've decided to give dancing another go. I've tried a couple times in the past (few years back) and although I didn't stick to it, they were good first experiences. I now know to be prepared in some ways and thanks to this amazing site I've learned so much more and feel much more confident and prepared to give dancing another go.

    My previous two experiences were months apart at different clubs a few years back. I felt comfortable with the environment (have been a custy of stripclubs myself quite a bit ) and did well with my stages. Where I didn't do so well was the hustling (did make a few bucks at least) and recuperating the next few days. Both times I was left sore like crazy for a few days, mostly thighs and feet.

    Now that I'm needing some cash and not thrilled with my options, dancing has become much more appealing again. I really want to give it a serious shot this time and have been preparing myself the past few days to get ready to work, hopefully starting in the next day or two.

    I've been wearing my heels and practicing in them a few hours each day, as much as I can and working out, mainly my legs, abs and butt as they need the most work. Figure wise I'm not too bad, just not very toned. Something I've started to remedy.

    What makes me the most anxious is getting used to a new environment and people. I'm not particularly shy but I'm not the most talkative person, especially when I'm nervous. I'm not worrying much about the customers but the other staff at the club, mainly other dancers. How do I approach them? What are good conversation topics? Things of that sort. It's funny that I'm more comfortable around male strangers than female ones...

    I've got my club picked out and will be contacting them later about how things work with them and when I could start. I want to start with day shifts to build up my confidence a bit and then do a bit of both.

    What are good things to bring with me aside from outfits, shoes and makeup?

    Any advice is much appreciated
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    Pixie

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    Default Re: Giving dacing another shot

    Im in the same boat you are. Starting on sun or monday the latest. I keep to myself as well,can hustle the guys well,Iam more comfortable w/strangers too! I am thinking...Im going to keep to myself,stay working the floor,no chit-chat with dancers. (Im there to hustle &make $$) Im going to just let the dancers themselfs come talk to me,let them set the tone. Nothing more I hated at my old club was the new girls who thought they where the shit,or where to chatty kathy. I will however joke with the dj,bouncers,waitstff and managers. I'd add a lock to your list and maybe asprin and a powerbar. good luck girl!

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    I wouldn't worry about what to talk about with the other dancers. I keep to myself a lot at work-I say hi to the other girls and make small talk with them when it's slow, but I don't go out of my way to make friends. Sometimes the girl who is the most sweet and nice to your face will be the one who talks the most shit about you behind your back, so don't worry about the other girls.

    As for stuff to bring along to work, I would bring baby wipes, CD's if you're allowed to play your own CD's, a toothbrush and toothpaste (sometimes I get yucky breath from drinking and I'll take a break every couple hours to quick brush my teeth), gum or mints to freshen your breath, maybe some of those non-slip things to put on the bottom of your shoes or boots so you don't fall on your ass when you're on stage, a small purse to carry your money in or a garter if you'd rather use a garter, and your ID in case you need to fill out any paperwork. I'm sure there's more, but that's all I can think of right now in addition to what Logan said. Good luck and have fun!

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    it is normal to be nervous. just try talking to the guys like anyone else, ask them things about themselves. a lot of guys want to talk about themselves lol.
    one thing--if there are things you know you dont want to disclose to guys at work (like your real name, if your married/in a relationship, etc) think about those things and have a good answer before hand, so you are prepared when they ask you questions. also what you will say when asked to go home, for your number, etc. you probably already thought of that though!

    there are quite a few threads on what you should take with you. good luck and keep us posted.
    Oh, I musta took a wrong turn at Albuquerque.


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    First of all, welcome back to dancing! How you approach a customer is up to you. (It should always begin with a smile though, not to be cheesy, but it works) I've been dancing for five years so I have a pretty good "read" on the customers and very my approach based on what I think each customer wants to hear. A good general rule is to approach the gentleman, smile at him and introduce yourself. I live in Las Vegas and we are allowed to have contact here, so I bounce up and will often times plop myself directly on a customer's lap. It's always best to be polite, but bubbly and enthusiastic at the same time. Don't ever ask what you customer does for a living- he'll think you are trying to figure out how much money he has. Don't get in the habit of sitting with a customer for more than 3 songs without asking them for a dance....five songs at the VERY most is all you should ever do, and that's only if you are planning on asking the man for a VIP dance because you feel he has money! Over time your style will develop!! I wish you luck and $... oh, also remember NEVER to give out personal information such as what city you live in or what kind of car you drive or what your real name is. I have a "fake real name." My real name is Marie, but when people ask me I say it's Katie. Also, remember not to begin with questions that can be answered with a "no." Don't say, "may I sit with you?" or "would you like some company." It may just be the guys first reaction to say no and you'll miss out. You should be able to figure out if he wants you around or not within a minute or two.

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    Thanks for all the great advice, I'm definitely taking notes!

    I just called the club and spoke to the manager, I "audition" tomorrow (an audition around here is just making sure you don't look like hell) and if all is okay I start right then and there. The manager won't be there himself tomorrow so the DJ will be showing me around and getting me started.

    Good news: Only costs are 10$ tip out to the bar
    Bad news: No free lockers

    I plan to lock up my bag with a padlock on the zipper tags and keep my kit to a minimum. Any suggestions on keeping my stuff safe in this type of situation is most welcome. So far I will include in my kit:
    - 2 outfits
    - 2 pairs of shoes
    - Necessary makeup and hair stuff
    - Small purse for working the floor with basic ID
    - Small towel
    - Baby wipes
    - Small bottle of Purell or something similar
    - CD with some of my favorite music as well as a written out list
    - Notes from SW

    Anything I'm forgetting?

    I'm doing well with my home practice sessions and am hopefull that I won't be a wreck after my first day like the last times I've given dancing a try. I can pull off 6 hours no problem now in my 6" heels and my legs can take longer and longer dancing sessions. I'm sure I will be sore the next day, let's hope not too badly! lol These bones are starting to feel the difference of not being in their twenties anymore

    Less than 24 hours to the big ice break and I'm feeling both excited and nervous. I will definitely report my experiences back here and I thank you again for your warm welcome, great advice and good wishes.

    Pixie

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    ohhh im nervous and excited for you... i'm hoping to return here shortly.... i hope you bank tonite!!! make some money for me!!! kam

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    i don't think its necessary or safe to carry your ID with you on the floor. i've never heard of this being required, do some places require you to do that? you could forget to pick it up, it could get stolen, anything could happen. do you mean like a driver's license or an ID with all your info (address, full name, etc) or what? i wouldnt want to do that....i'm curious, please clarify lol.

    you are going to be great! and you already have experience so you have that working for you, smile and remind yourself that you are hot and fun to be with and the guys will think the same. and dont' stress over every little "rejection", it gets you in a bad mood. instead smile and tell the guy, "ok, i will come back and see you again later" and move on don't let it make you insecure.
    you sound like you are ready, you've practiced and are prepared. i'm looking forward to an update on your first night back!
    Oh, I musta took a wrong turn at Albuquerque.


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    p.s.- maybe take some lotion in your bag, i always forget to put lotion on my legs. just DON'T put it on immediately before going on stage, it makes it slippery. which you probably aleady know lol.
    don't forget the body spray and mints/gum
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    Regarding the ID, I meant my medicare card (Canadian health care system). It works as a valid picture ID as it has my name and picture but it doesn't have any other personal info on it. It has no value on it's own and no one can get personal info from the card. It's used to get medical care at any hospital or clinic when needed. In case of an accident, it's best to have it on hand. I'm creating a false bottom in my little purse to hide this and $$. That little purse will also be guarded like a hawk and with me at all time, as I do with any of my purses anyways.

    Even if a client got a hold of it and has my real name, he will have a very hard time finding me as my listings have always been private/confidential. If anyone does manage to track me down, they'll have to answer to my very irate boyfriend as well as the police.

    I'm going through my outfits and picking the ones I'll be taking with me. Also starting to create my dancer 'persona' and story to be able to answer the usual custy questions.

    Lotion, body spray and mints have been added to the list. Thanks!

    Pixie

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    What I would reccommend to you instead of keeping your ID in your purse is to throw it back in your car after u check in at work, or leave it with the DJ or the manager. I literally once had my purse stolen from between my feet while I was given a dance. I have NO IDEA who took it or how they did it without me noticing, but people are sharks man!

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    As promised, here is my report on my first shift dancing again.

    It was great!!!!

    First I arrive and the bouncer is an old friend of mine I hadn't seen in ages! That definitely helped me feel more comfortable He introduced me to the DJ who showed me around and got me settled in.

    I get dressed up and go back to the DJ with my CD and list to set up my stage music. The club was really dead, one table of 4-5 young american tourists and 2 old men elsewhere sitting alone. I lay low and just take in the place. Not 3 minutes that I'm on the floor and one of the young americans approaches me and asks for a dance! I bring him in the back and he takes 2.

    He barely makes it back to his table that his friend comes to me and ask for a dance too! He took 2 as well and I couldn't believe how great a start it was for my first day. There were other dancers there but most were downstairs still getting ready or chatting at the bar amongst themselves. No one approached the two men sitting alone so I decided to go hustle me some money hehe

    I pick the nice looking gentleman and walk by him and smile at him. He looks at me and smiles back, I then ask if he wanted a little bit of company pointing to the chair to which he smiles and nods. I sit and try to chit chat. This is not my strong suit as I never know what to talk about aside from cheesy things like the weather. It's a little tough at first but I keep smiling and making eye contact and although it was a bit awkward at times, it was pleasant. I was planning to suggest a dance after the third song since it was so quiet (otherwise I would have suggested after the first or second) but he asked me first just a moment later, he took 5 dances!

    After I finish with him I just can't believe how well my first day is going! I had been there about an hour and already had 9 dances, my first day minimum was already hit woohoo! I walk around a bit and notice another man sitting alone, I ask him if he wanted some company. He said he didn't mind but that he wouldn't be getting any dances, he just stopped in to get a beer. I answered that it was perfectly fine, that I just wanted to sit for a bit with no strings attached and it was true. My feet were needing a bit of a break. We chat for a few minutes and he's nice to talk to so it's no loss for me and I'm enjoying the break. He gets up to leave and says "well, you were really nice and fun to talk to so I'll have a dance with you before I go", I was stunned! I wasn't expecting a dance out of him at all and it was really nice to hear.

    The rest of the shift went well, I did my little hustle and got another customer, he took 7 dances! Boy, my legs were hurting after that! I went to sit with him again cause I really needed the break and he said he visited regularly, figured it could score me a repeat the next time he comes in.

    Next came my stage dances which went pretty well, the other dancers weren't doing any tricks so I think I managed to fit in with mine ok. I want to practice more because the next days I will work most likely won't be as quiet as today and I want to feel more confident.

    I get redressed after my last stage dance and headed to the bar. A nice older gent stops me on my way and asks if he can get a dance! I was happily surprised and got 2 from him plus he tipped me a song's worth. My shift was ending soon and I was pretty much done, so I sat and talked with him a bit. He said he wished he had more money with him, asked when I'd be back again and made me promise I would, lol. I think I may have made a first regular

    Considering how quiet the place was and that it was my first day, I feel like I totally banked. It's a nice club and the other dancers seem nice, didn't have much time to chat with them though I made 200$ (yeah, they're 10$ dances...) which I think is great for a quiet day shift. It's fun that I personally know the bouncer and that the DJ is nice too.

    All in all, I couldn't have asked for a better first day. Now it'll be hard to match with my next shifts, lol.

    Thanks especially to your fantastic gals here, you really helped me tons and were so thoughtful with your advice. It certainly helped me be confident and in a good mood to start off and I'm sure it'll keep me going for a long time.

    Pixie

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    Thats great to hear! I'm glad you had such a good first night

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    yayy! congrats littlepixie! i knew you would be fine.
    i think it's great what you did when the guy said he wouldnt be buying any dances and you sat with him anyway. i always do this when it's slow and there's not anyone else to try. more often than not, that's what happens. when they realize you're not going to hustle and manipulate them into a dance, they decide to get one. reverse psychology! lol.
    keep up your confindence and good attitude and you will continue to do good.
    one thing--are there any clubs you could try that do dances for $20 instead of $10?
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    Unfortunately, no 20$/dance clubs in my province... I know of one in town that has gone up to 15$/dance recently and it's suffering big time because of it... The only way it could ever work to get the price for dances up, all the clubs would have to do it, or at least all the decent ones.

    French Canadians are very spoiled with their strip clubs. Cheap dances and lots of contact... Out of all the strip clubs in the city of Montreal, only 3 are no contact. Bikini bar? We haven't heard of that around here, lol! What's worse is that outside of the big city, the strip clubs are full service I don't even want to imagine how that works!

    So for now I'll stay at this new club because it's decent and quite convenient not to mention that there seems to be decent money to be made there. Once I feel my dancing talents are better and that I'm more toned up, I'm open to travel a bit for work, most likely in Ontario where the dances are 20$ and not too far away from home.

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    Hey Little Pixie, im down in Toronto, you should think about coming down here to work, or the outskirts like mississauga and brampton area. you dont need a license and its 20/song. And you can definitly bank here hardcore. I made 900 buckaroos just a few days ago, more than half of it was off one custy. Let me know if you want any more info and stuff, PM if anythin. Hope your doing well, i cant believe theyre only 10 dollar dances. I had no idea, i thought montreal was expensive with their strippers. Hope your well take care sweetie and let me know.

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    Thanks for the advice and offer, I will most likely take you up on some extra info soon

    It really sucks that it's only 10$ per dance in this city, especially considering the amount of contact allowed, even in the cleaner clubs. We're known in this part of the country to be more open minded sexually and what not, with the french culture influence. It has it's advantages and down sides, particularly for the adult entertainment biz.

    I'm happy to report though that I'm at my second week dancing at my little club and am enjoying it and doing well. I'm getting in better shape and have more stamina for dancing and hustling, and I'm also one of the top earners in the club I love the flexibility of the club I work at (show up when I want to work) and the people are nice, clientele steady.

    I want to get a bit more experience dancing before I try travelling for work to make more $$. At least 2-4 more weeks. A bit more toning up and tuning up my stage shows and I'll feel ready to tackle a new challenge

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    I'm glad to hear things are going good for you! I know what you mean about the off island clubs! The guys are quick to inform you of the other girls"extras" prices. My reply was : "Well you can go back and see her again right?" I did make good $ though.I did that for a while because I didn't want to run into anyone I knew on the island, but now I am trying to work up the courage to call a place closer to home soon!I need to find a "goth" friendly place though. I have my lip, bb and nipples pierced and I'm tall and slim with dyed red and black hair but I am good at pulling off classy looks. What club do you work at (if you can't post it could you pm me please). I want to find a place that doesn't expect "extras" and where you work seems great.Take care!

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    as far as a great way to keep all your stuff locked up, Wal Mart has these oversized rubbermade type containers on wheels that have a hasp for a lock. They are lightweight, easy to manuver, and plenty big enough for makeup, hair care, several outfits (I could usually fit 20 in easily, with shoes!)....
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