Does anyone have any advice for getting into the SM scene as a model or working in some sort of capacity in the scene...I don't want to have sex, suck, etc clients, but I would engage in role play etc. Any tips?
Does anyone have any advice for getting into the SM scene as a model or working in some sort of capacity in the scene...I don't want to have sex, suck, etc clients, but I would engage in role play etc. Any tips?
K8T
That is how Bettie Page got started and look at her now! I don't really have any advice but GOOD LUCK anyways!
Phedre![]()
~ my very own pole dancer!




i'd love to do it to..... it's hard to break into the scene. doesn't paige D winter do this stuff, or at least topping? maybe we should pm her?
be the change you wish to see in the world....
~ghandi
i really love your peaches wanna shake your tree....
~steve miller
why not?
~anon
How do you get into that???
bondage these days is generally pretty extream.
if your not into being hog tied with rope and having electric shockers on your nipples with a giant glass dildo in your ass, this may not be the thing for you.
light bondage isnt even really considered bondage these days.





Depends on if youre doing modeling as a Domme or a submissive. Where as some modeling, like if you were working for insex.com or somesuch, can get extreme, some is just posing. There IS some fetish modeling where all you do is LOOK like you're in a huge scene. There are plenty of options for how far into a real scene, if at all, you'd like to go. There is just more work for those who are willing to do an actual scene and get photographed while doing it.
What Bettie Page did was mostly posing.
You have to make up your mind if you want to be a Top, a bottom, or a switch. Knowing before hand helps you establish a persona if you want to do it often. Men who want to see a powerful Domme will look for you if all you do is pose as a top. Men who like submissive women will seek you out if you are only found posed tied up or being spanked, etc.... some folks who are real picky about either type wont take you seriously if you switch.
You have to establish what you are willing to do. Pain-wise, exposure-wise, toy-wise, etc... are you willing to be tied up? How much pain can/will you take? Are you willing to use electrical toys? Medical? How about play piercing?
If you are modeling as a Domme, ALWAYS tell whoever you are working with the HONEST truth about how much experience you have as a Top. It keeps everything and everyone involved SAFE.
Feel free to PM me about anything else you need to know.
Number of times Rickrolled on stage: 6
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Marasmus ... "Ladies don't fart. They butt-laugh."
Marasmus says, "Oh no, that wasn't gas, it was merely a rectal chuckle."
Marek says, "A friend of mine got punched in the face by a dominatrix stripper about two weeks ago and I thought of you."
Most major cities have professional dungeons and always looking for attractive professional Doms. The best part with most established professional dungeons is that they don't want you doing extras on the side anyhow, so when a client asks for extras, they'll back you up in saying no.





Most clients who use dungeons (which can be scarce even in big cities...) dont ask for extras. Subbies who see Pros are usually well behaved lil bois.Originally Posted by Witness
Number of times Rickrolled on stage: 6
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Marasmus ... "Ladies don't fart. They butt-laugh."
Marasmus says, "Oh no, that wasn't gas, it was merely a rectal chuckle."
Marek says, "A friend of mine got punched in the face by a dominatrix stripper about two weeks ago and I thought of you."





How would you know if sub or domme would be right for you?
Ive been wanting to get into this type of modeling but not sure which way I go and which way is good for the money. I really like both though.
edit: why am I awake @ 5am anyways? must sleep..
you live like an ivy vine
you can only survive by clinging onto trees
that's your flaw
put down some roots so you can stand on your own
-Kenpachi




Try each role out with your boyfriend, or a willing experimenter. (There are clubs where you can find those, especially when you're female.)Originally Posted by TigersMilk
Read a good book on the subject -- it's better to know what turns you on than to be "trying to act like" a specific idea of a domme or sub.
I'm Dom by nature. I tried being tied up a few times in my entire life (not hard right, tied to a bed) and i freaked...felt like i could not breath. Yelled to get me out of that shit.
Now a guy, i can tie up and do anything i want. I don't care for safe words, too damn fake.
I will inflict much pain. That is me. Bleed if he is into it.
Miami has a few areas that are pretty hot for the Dom/Sub scene. I have been there, they want to hook up, that is why they go. Not a hotel room either for a spanking.
I have seen a garage, and many extra rooms with all the goodies!!! Also one lady had a shed she would take men.
All dark areas, but do-able. I have watched in horror!! Thinking the poor guy was going to croak! But i found that is for me. To do this to men who love it.
I have hit a few parties months ago but nothing i could do with a guy, i am not prepared.
Being a Dom is really cool!
Pamela




how do you find someone who's looking for models, aside from indie porn sites?
be the change you wish to see in the world....
~ghandi
i really love your peaches wanna shake your tree....
~steve miller
why not?
~anon
Heck, yeah,
Real popular genre.
Some sites, modeled for.
http://www.thebondagechannel.com/models/index.php
http://bondagepictures.com/faq.htm#models
http://www.paragonvideo.com/model.html
http://www.powershotz.com/modelsneeded.htm
http://www.bondagebarrix.com/htmpages/modelrecruit.htm
http://www.rope-bondage.com/models.html
Also, keep an eye out in your area for any parties that might be happening and make an appearance at your best.
I gotta say tho, the best way to be a terrific dom is to find one you admire yourself and be HER sub. Best if it's a woman as you will get clued in on the power of feminine mystique and use it yourself. You can't be a dom just cos you got ahold of some latex. BDSM type "porno" is also very educational.
The Texas Pin-up Stripteuse!





Originally Posted by TigersMilk
A lot of it is your personality. Is it easier for you to give or take direction? Stuff like that.
As far as modeling goes... Hrm... there is more WORK for submissive models, but more money for Dominant women.
Number of times Rickrolled on stage: 6
*******************************
Marasmus ... "Ladies don't fart. They butt-laugh."
Marasmus says, "Oh no, that wasn't gas, it was merely a rectal chuckle."
Marek says, "A friend of mine got punched in the face by a dominatrix stripper about two weeks ago and I thought of you."



ive always thought being a dom would be a fun job, i definately have the look, most guys suspect thats what i am when they meet me at the club.
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