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    Default Re: ? Friends hanging out at the club ?

    I had it happen a few times, go check out Susie, shes real hot, blablabla, I asked them not to do it a couple times. I told the manager about it, and apologised for them comming, he said he'd take care of it if I wanted him to. Well, the last time they came in my ex came in also. I had them kicked out. I asked them a few times to not come in and bug me, and they didn't get it till I had to be drastic. If they would have been cool, no cat calling the WHOLE time I was on stage, getting into fights in the parking lot at closing time, ect, I would have been fine.
    When you are at work you are there to work. I don't bug friends at their jobs, or they could get fired, the same goes for dancers. If it makes me a less popular person, then fine, I'll have more time to work. My REAL friends understand that I need to work at work and play when I'm not.
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    See, I've never understood the whole 'friends at work = bad' thing. The only way that it's a problem is if the dancer spends too much time hanging out with them, and that's not their fault, is it?

    My club of choice happens to be one where an old friend of mine works. She'll come over to say hi and hang out when she feels like a break but I won't be seeing her for most of the night. If we want to do that we'll hook up before or after work for coffee/dinner/breakfast. Seems like a dancer issue to me.

    For that matter, another mutual friend and I have been quite valuable on occassion, taking a bunch of other people there and then deciding for them who they were going to spend their money on (and enforcing club etiqutte - anyone I go with who refers to her by her real name is looking for a bitchslap, I don't care if anyone else can hear).

    Mind you, I have a fairly strict definition of the word 'friend' (as opposed to 'friendly aquaintance'), which may colour my judgement a bit. If they can't (or won't) seperate your work from the rest of your life, and hence cause problems, they they're poor friends, aren't they?

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    Work is not generally a place for friends to hangout. Most clubs have rules against it. There are times that I do go to the club that my GF works at. The club overlooks it for me because I act like any other customer. They also like that I spend several hundred at the bar when I come in. There are always slow times. We have a rule that if she can make money then she does not sit with me.

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    Default Re: ? Friends hanging out at the club ?

    i think with a club/bar - it's tough to keep them out. it's not professional to encourage them wasting your time though. i like the husband hustle bit above. that is funky if you're lucky enough to have that kind of partner. (although the club might take a dim view of it)

    friends don't realise you have to keep moving to make money. it's a novelty for them and a job for us.

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