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    Default Strippers can be so mean!!

    So, I dance at this strip club and sometimes they play Salsa. And I'm sick of some girls making fun of me 'cause I can't dance it. They'll be like 'you go Melina' , etc... and everybody knows they're making fun of me. I'm just SO fed up with this, I've tried to learn how to dance it, but I really can't. Men seem not to care 'cause they'll still tip me a lot no matter how I dance. But it still bothers me... How should I handle this??

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    Err....

    My way of handling something like that might not be all that high-road or great, but ummm...

    The one chick who ever dared to comment about how stupid I look doing a hip-hop song (cause of some new DJ, usually)... started keeping her mouth shut after I made a passing comment about how retarded she looked doing a country tune. Some wenches can't take what they ditch out...

    Otherwise, for high road tactics, I would say either invest the money in some salsa-dancing classes, or learn how to have fun with it and just ignore the wench.

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    Ok my opinion is way bluntness.....

    Hah hah hah. Laugh it up b*tches. They're still tipping me and I can't dance to it. Get out of my way while I take their money.

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    what morons. at least when i dance i'm not blinded by delusions of actual talent! hah. obviously, they can't see that it really doesn't matter since you're raking in the $$$ anyway.

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    just pretend it's good natured. There is no point about getting upset about something that can have no impact on your life.
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    Default Re: Strippers can be so mean!!

    Just keep on the beat and smile a lot. What do they know? You are making up new steps all the time.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny
    just pretend it's good natured. There is no point about getting upset about something that can have no impact on your life.
    Ditto. Most guys are turned off by that catty competitive bullsh*t anyway. It ruins their fantasies of the all girl orgy in the dressing room. Giggle like you think it's funny and smile even bigger when you count your $$$ at the end of the nite.

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    Saying you can't dance is an excuse for not trying hard enough. Yes the girls are cruel(Is this news?) but this is reality. It should encourage you to strive for some level of excellence. Getting away on looks isn't enough. Those are your parents contribution, not yours.
    The first thing you have to do is get over your introversion. Find some music by yourself and simply listen an relax to it. Visualize what do want to look like dancing to it .Then get a coach, take lessons, until you can perform as visualized. You have to make the effort.
    Sorry, but I believe people should be rewarded for their efforts, not hereditary.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridget83
    .. How should I handle this??

    Umm... 'Louisville Slugger'?!? Ja ja ja - JK!! For now, at least...
    "That's your answer Old Man? I guess you're a Hard Case too...."
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    laugh with them seriously.

    Had some stupid bitch at my old club call me " ice bitch " ( because a customer was saying the same..long story ) they really thought they were being funny and joke was on them

    I heard them and yah at first i was VERY pissed. So instead of taking my heel off and beating her dumbass and his too... I went up to the DJ and told them to announce me as " ice bitch "

    You shoulda seen their faces.

    I smiled the entire damn time i was up there. I danced to that song " shes' as cold as ice "

    perfect set..made a ton of money and most important gained my diginity and showed them you gotta be better then that to shit in my cherrios.

    Don't let them run you ! most meanness is a sign of insecurity and jealousy...instead of feeling bad or mad...feel SORRY for them that their mentality is still very highschool and they are adults.

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    salsa at a strip club? wtf? That would suck. How can you get a good LD to salsa?

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    Girls can be catty. It's part of this business, sadly. I would just ignore them and make your money. A tip is, though, if you really don't know how to dance, don't dance on stage. Just do some sexy floorwork, you know, sitting on your knees, laying on the ground arching your back, do a simple spin around the pole.

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    And remember, almost every lady who gets up on stage or does a lapdance is doing to exact same moves as every other lady anyway! It's rare to see real originality in any club... You just may want to get in the mirror and practice to a variety of the type of music you feel uncomfortable with. I didn't used to be able to dance to country worth a damn, but i tipped the dj (who loved to sneak it in unrequested.....aaaaagggghhhhh!!) to play some country songs for me in the vip stage area and i practiced my ass off for an hour every day untill I mastered it.

    it helped me with other types of music also. It was rewarding, nowI can't be caught off gaurd.
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    who cares if you cant dance to a certain type of music. Most girls dance exactly the same way no matter what is playing. Its salsa, all you have to do is shake your butt right?

    Someone else mentioned it, why are we listening to salsa at a sc anyway? Isnt that latin music? are we not in america? Do we look like we are in a dance competition?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jessica
    Saying you can't dance is an excuse for not trying hard enough. Yes the girls are cruel(Is this news?) but this is reality. It should encourage you to strive for some level of excellence. Getting away on looks isn't enough. Those are your parents contribution, not yours.
    The first thing you have to do is get over your introversion. Find some music by yourself and simply listen an relax to it. Visualize what do want to look like dancing to it .Then get a coach, take lessons, until you can perform as visualized. You have to make the effort.
    Sorry, but I believe people should be rewarded for their efforts, not hereditary.
    I believe she said she did make an effort...hence the girls making fun of her.

    Seriously, Bridget, the others are right. Laugh with them all the way to the bank. There are always going to be jealous people who try to mess with your game. If you're really concerned, don't go to a lot of expense. Rent or buy a video with some salsa moves and try them at home. This way, the money stays in your pocket. You shouldn't have to spend to satisfy girls that don't really matter anyway. Good luck girl!

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    Don't you get to pick the genre of music that you dance to? If not, that sucks! I dunno what I'd do. I can't dance to hip hop let alone salsa so I'd be pretty much screwed anywhere. Ask the DJ to only play the genre that you are comfortable with. If he won't then just ignore the bitches. They are probably bad ghetto trash anyhow, do you really care what they think? As long as the customers aren't laughing that's all that matters.
    In a black light trance, then go go dance...

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    Thanks for your help!

    The reason why they play salsa, it's because there are like 2 or 3 hispanic girls and they're good friends with the DJ. It's not like they play Salsa every night, just once in a while, but when they do, that's when I'm screwed. There's some other girls that can't dance it either, but they just seem to mess up with me.

    Anyway, after reading some other posts here about some really f***ed up dancers, I just can't help feeling like a whining baby. lol Sorry!
    Thanks again!

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    Aww, you're not a whining baby...

    Maybe you just need to watch Dirty Dancing and follow Patrick Swayze's advice on feeling it inside you, like a heartbeat. Guh Gunk, Guh Gunk.. LOL

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