
Originally Posted by
doc-catfish
Lena brings up a very good point here. It can be very uncomfortable for the fetishist to explain his fantasies to the model face to face for fear that his model will find his requests disturbing or disgusting.
What you might want to do is ask him put his fantasies down on paper while he is in the nonjudgemental comfort of his home (a list of details, a script, or even prose, like an erotic story will work). Be sure to encourage him to feel free to be as detailed as he wants to. Once he is finished, have him hand it to you during his next visit.
Do not read what he wrote in front of him, or even read it at work. Take it home and read it there. Pay close attention to the details, and give him a little taste of what he wrote down during his next visit (provided that it is within your comfort zone).
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