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    Ive been having this guy come in every so often and he loves LOVES loves feet. He likes for me to say things to him like " ** my foot slave" and " ** my dirty filthy whore". He likes me to spit on his face, slap his face and jab my stileto into his nipples.

    How can I make he experience better? Hes a great tipper and I want him to keep tipping well and me doing a better job. Im kinda new to this and dont want to hurt him or cross the line in anyway that would turn him off.
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    If he has common sense he will know that you arent a pro at this. No worries. It's hard to hurt him doing what you're doing anyways. If he wants you to do something new or differently, he will tell you.
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    I am a longtime customer, new to this forum. I like feet too, although I am not as heavily into the humiliation aspects as your customer is. However, for me, a few times in the past, the joy of giving a dancer a foot massage under her guidance has been a thrill. I am rewarded with a kind word and a kiss on the forehead if I do a good job; stern verbal correction of my faulty massage technique if I do not. I usually do a good job because it's a sensual pleasure, however, this humble servant can't please everyone! Anyway, if your club permits a customer-dancer foot massage, this is one approach I suggest.--Sir Cranky

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    Hi

    Sounds like he's not only into feet, he's also into being treated rough and the bad language.

    I'd suggest you try to ask him about it, maybe after he's had one dance with you, so that his immediate fetish needs are taken care of. Tell him you really like that he's into your feet, that it makes him different from the other guys at the club, but you want to know what pleases him.

    Also, find out if he's into heels as well as feet. Can you let him take off your shoe in private?

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    Sadly, you're on your own on this one. I had a customer that wanted me to "step on his feet" while giving him a lapdance once and I couldn't even do that. I was like, my stilletos will puncture you dude, no way.

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    Tm, have you tried google? Search for a S&M fourm, or foot fetish, or pain and humilation board, that's more geared for that.

    You could also call a local Dominatrix, (if you have one that's local) and ask her about it.

    As usual, every fetish guy is different. If he's a long time practicer, you guys could have a code word as most do already. And if you go too far then he could tell you.

    The only problem I have ever had with the fetish guys, is that most of the other guys who see me dance for Mr. Fetish usually are scared of me and refuse to do dances based upon what they saw from those dances with him.

    Good Luck, they usually tip well, and are long time custys.
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    I've worked in domination before and it sounds like what you are doing is just right. Just remember this guy likes you in charge and it also makes perfect sense to ask him about his fetish at the same time. Foot fetishes are by and far the most common type there is.

    Just keep calling him a foot slut and when he massages your feet direct/command him on what areas to focus on. Also, make sure he knows your shoe size. These guys can be good for getting new shoes.

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    Pinch his nipples, laugh at him, make him kneel on the floor and rub your feet or lick your shoes clean, say "aww, you're so cute when your licking my shoes" and giggle. Tell him your shoes hurt your feet and he should get you new ones. Lots of them. Step on his crotch area with your shoes and kick him in the balls.

    Of course, ask him before you do any of these things. Fetish guys are usually a little embarrassed about what they want, so I usually ask them what they've experienced before, what fantasies they have, etc. You can usually get a pretty good idea from that.



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    I have a foot guy, and he's not into the S&M aspect of it, but he loves sucking on my feet with stockings on.

    Then there is this other guy that loves to rub my feet while talking about how he wants to put my leg in a cast and he will watch me hobble around....and the toes have to stick out of the cast.

    And then there is this other kid who likes me to tweak his nipples with my toes.

    I work with a girl that says one of her regs like to snort coke off her feet.

    I know this isn't helpful, but I wanted to chime in because I find it interesting....why is it that foot guys never just want to like feet? it's got to be taken to the next level!

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    One thing about fetishists is that they are very oriented on details. In the case of a foot fetish guy, this could vary on what he'd like you to do to him with your feet, the color of your toenail polish, yada, yada, yada. There are perhaps dozens of sub-fetishes that fall under feet so it pays to know which ones he is into.

    A number of adult sites, and almost every fetish website I've seen has a "custom" video or photo option where the customer can pay to have a model act out his fantasies. Usually the model will ask the customer to submit instructions, sometimes in the form of a brief script, on how he would like the video/photos done, which brings me to...

    Quote Originally Posted by Lena
    Fetish guys are usually a little embarrassed about what they want, so I usually ask them what they've experienced before, what fantasies they have, etc. You can usually get a pretty good idea from that.
    Lena brings up a very good point here. It can be very uncomfortable for the fetishist to explain his fantasies to the model face to face for fear that his model will find his requests disturbing or disgusting.

    What you might want to do is ask him put his fantasies down on paper while he is in the nonjudgemental comfort of his home (a list of details, a script, or even prose, like an erotic story will work). Be sure to encourage him to feel free to be as detailed as he wants to. Once he is finished, have him hand it to you during his next visit.

    Do not read what he wrote in front of him, or even read it at work. Take it home and read it there. Pay close attention to the details, and give him a little taste of what he wrote down during his next visit (provided that it is within your comfort zone).
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    Quote Originally Posted by doc-catfish
    Lena brings up a very good point here. It can be very uncomfortable for the fetishist to explain his fantasies to the model face to face for fear that his model will find his requests disturbing or disgusting.

    What you might want to do is ask him put his fantasies down on paper while he is in the nonjudgemental comfort of his home (a list of details, a script, or even prose, like an erotic story will work). Be sure to encourage him to feel free to be as detailed as he wants to. Once he is finished, have him hand it to you during his next visit.

    Do not read what he wrote in front of him, or even read it at work. Take it home and read it there. Pay close attention to the details, and give him a little taste of what he wrote down during his next visit (provided that it is within your comfort zone).
    This is a great suggestion. If a dancer asked me to do this, it would be really fun. I would look forward to the writing of the note and going back to see her and handing it over. I love role-playing. Of course, some guys might be paranoid about putting anything down in writing, but I wouldn't be. It depends on the individual, I guess.

    I know dancers can't read our minds, but it IS hard sometimes to say, "I'm turned on by your feet," or "Act a little bitchy to me." Recently in the middle of the third or fourth song, I simply told the dancer, with whom I'd been chatting for awhile before the dances, that I wished I could kiss her feet. When she looked so delighted it was clear that she understood the fetish and I didn't have to explain further. I felt such a wave of relief and gratitude. We verbalized about the fantasy a little more and it was hot. Maybe I'll get to rub her feet at some point...that would be VERY nice.--Sir Cranky

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    I have a MAJOR bare soles fetish.
    I am not into humiliation or pain or any of that stuff.
    I just LOVE feet. That's all, nothing more.
    Oh. . . I DO love tickling those feet too.

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    I'm a professional Domme so I know a bit about foot fetishes (among other things

    It sounds like what you are doing now is a pretty simple operation, but I understand your desire for more variation. Some guys with fetishes don't LIKE to change things up, as their brains are wired to be turned on by certain things - others NEED variety. Make sure he WANTS to try something new.

    I suggest going to a lingerie or adult video store (or you can purchase this stuff online) and finding a small paddle, maybe one with leather and then fuzzy furry fabric on the other side... maybe give him a few swats on the behind with your hand. (if he is into that kind of pain)...I'm not sure how much activity or nudity your SC allows. Be sure that this kind of behavior is OK with management obviously.

    You can also get yourself some nipple clamps, do some creative things with an ice cube, scratch his skin with your nails, allow him to paint your toenails, make him suck on your stiletto heels, tie his hands behind his back with your silkiest stockings and do a seductive 'foot dance'.....just use your imagination and use things that are around you.

    Just make sure you always do things consensually (meaning that he is completely okay with what you are doing to him) and safely. Never spank a diabetic on the ass with any substantial force...and make sure anyone in bondage does not have numb or tingling limbs. And no electricity above the waist.....I think that's all the bases to cover! LOL Just to be safe, before doing anything potentially painful/dangerous/tricky, be sure to do some research on the subject ( in the health section is a good place to start) and be sure you feel CONFIDENT in what you are doing (based on knowledge, not on ambition). If what you are doing involves pain, you may want to give him a 'safe word': a word other than 'no' or 'stop' that signifies he can't take anymore of what you are doing and he wants you to stop. For my clients, it is usually 'mercy' or 'red'.

    The suggestions I gave are not tricky or dangerous, but if you are going to delve into something more hardcore, just be sure you do plenty of research and practice on yourself first if you can. I never put my clients or personal slaves through something I haven't yet experienced.

    Hope this helps!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by kitana
    The only problem I have ever had with the fetish guys, is that most of the other guys who see me dance for Mr. Fetish usually are scared of me and refuse to do dances based upon what they saw from those dances with him.
    Yes, I have had that same problem. I have long black hair and unfortunately get refered to as "gothic" looking way too often. I am the opposite of a gothic person in the inside, and I try to down play my accidental "look" and not wear black and keep a tan and wear rinestones and stuff so I don't turn off the "normal" men (I know, there is no such thing as a normal man but you get what I am saying). But anywho, I have a lot of guys approach me, wanting to be dominated, and the first couple of times I know it had to sound so stupid. I just don't feel normal yelling "you fucking dirty whore bitch" to a nice paying customer. But you will get used to it.

    And as far as what Kitana said about other customers seeing you giving the dance to the fetish guy, I worry about that too, but usually the fetish guys come in when it is not so busy. You've got to think they, especially the conservative ones, don't want everyone and their brother seeing what is being done to them either.

    Just have fun with it! Let all that built up aggresion you have in you from your last fight with your boyfriend out on him!

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    Just to let you know, 80% of foot fetishists are shy to talk about it,and believe me if you let them touch your feet or whatever and really enjoy it,they feel so good and they tip so well.

    When he touches your feet,tell him that feels so good.Oh my God your touch is so that and that etc..admire that thing about him.He will tip well gauranteed.

    Now some foot fetishists are into things like tickling hmm that might bother you.

    I mean to all the dancers,do you mind if a customer tickles your feet?

    LOL I like doing that but never was open about it.Im a shy guy I confess.

    By the way foot fetish is the most common fetish. I might sound weird but the first thing I look at is a dancer's feet and legs.

    if you have sexy feet than ur lucky,you will make so much money for nothing,just sit and relax let him massage ur feet and HES paying for it!!!!!

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