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    Ok it’s been 4 months now … I wish I could say I was doing well … not that I am doing bad but there have definitely been ‘moments’ Sometimes its great to feel somewhat 'normal' and living in the 'real' world not having to try and hide what I do (dancing) or making excuses for it. Other times I really do miss the freedom and the ability to create the money and time I need to manifest my dreams.

    Oh and the pole of course! Ok ok and the attention


    It’s an interesting ride ...



    Just wanted to share my thoughts.

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    i know exactly how you feel!! it's been about 4 months since i've stopped dancing, and lately i've been missin the hell out of it myself. i think that everyone feels like that if they stop at least once in awhile. but you have to think about what made you stop in the first place. for me, it was the $$ was slowing down and i seriously needed a break; i was drinking wayyyy too much and headed towards getting into some trouble. but now, i think i've calmed down enough to where i could start again. actually, i'm thinking of going and working at a club this friday, so i'll see how it goes from then. definatly miss the attention, plus it's a lot of fun! i would try to weigh out the positives and negitives in the situation, because you have to remember, there is a reason why you quit. just make sure you're still happy with your decision and you should be fine. hope this helps!!

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    Why not just buy yourself a pole and put on some music and get naked? No...doesnt do it for ya?....

    Maybe all you needed was a break? I mean you were traveling and everything. Id want a break too.

    How would you make things different if you went back? If you go back make good solid positive plans.
    you live like an ivy vine
    you can only survive by clinging onto trees
    that's your flaw
    put down some roots so you can stand on your own
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    Thanks for the replies ladies ... well I wouldn't dance where I am in NZ. That is one thing that has held me back ... and will continue to hold me back.

    I would sure as heck appreciate the money a lot more and now that I have learnt to live off $200 a week I should be able to save wiser and spend wiser! Have a game plan and not just figure things out as they go.

    It's all just thoughts. I have to weigh up the pros and cons and really consider if I could maintain a balance if I went back to it.

    Oh and trust me TM if I had the space and the money I would have a pole ... shit I would have several poles and my own freaken studio! LOL

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    krys--I really miss going on stage! And I've only been out for like 6 weeks or so now! The money, well, I've got that taken care of, but I am a performer by nature and I just miss that part. Keep the lapdances and everything else far away from me!

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    we sound similar krys.. i have been out of dancing for almost three months... i definitely was drinking way too much, got a dui, started messing up in school... i was having a hard time balancing work and school... its been hard not making the income i once had, but i really think it has been good to have a break... i hardly drink anymore, i feel healthier, and i have time to study and focus on school.... i am definitely going to return to dancing in the near future, but i think school is more important right now.... but i know what you mean about missing it... i think about it all the time.... sometimes you gotta just set your priorities straight... thats why im putting school ahead of dancing right now.. i can dance all i want once i get that degree.. i will at least have something to fall back on if i really decide to hang up dancing for good.

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    Sounds like you have got the balance right KamrynAnne - good for you!

    And I hear ya on the stage thing Glamazon! Oh how I miss my stage shows! LOL

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    I stopped for a year and am now back in....its hard to go back to a "normal " life once you've been onstage.

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