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    Sad Bouncer Assault

    Okay, this is my first thread, so bare w/me. I am working at a club in Phoenix, that I consider my local "home" club. Anyway, recently the club changed ownership, and in turn, has changed management twice since June. Well the new management team is getting a bunch of complaints from the girls about new high-ass fees, ridiculous rules, banning of all R&B/hip-hop, and a bunch of girls claim that management sells meth to some girls, and customers.

    So, few days ago, a girl who dances with us, was mad into the house mom, mind you we have a bout 5 girls on day shift, what the hell do we need a house mom for??? Plus she's a bitch, and has management aspirations etc. Anyway, all the hullabaloo prompted many girls to comment on stribclublist.com. Even the girls that haven't commented have started reading the posts.

    Now, today I got to work, and I was informed there was no more house mom. The dancer that told me, said she read on stripclublist, that the house mom quit siteing too much drama, blah, blah, blah. COOL.

    I work my shift, do di do di do, and come 6pm, i go tip the dj his 10%, and also give him my manager's fee of $10. Then I go to the security guy, who is new/and I've never worked with before, and hasn't said a word to me all day, and hand him his $5 fee. He say, security is $10 now, and scowled. I said, since when? He says, go look in the dressing room, there's a sign up. So I reply, when did a sign go up, I've been here since 11am, and there was no sign up, and I've been back to the dressing room numerous times. He says the sign was posted around 2. So I said, well I didn't know anythinga bout that when I started my shift, so they must be starting that 2morrow, in fact let me go talk to the manager. I start walking back there, and the bouncer say, he's already gone! Okay. So I say to the bouncer, well, please tell "manager" that I will call him about the fee changes. So he's all huffy, and tries to reach for my dance bag, as if he were going to carry it out to my car. I said, oh no, I got it. But since that's his job, he follows me, so in the hallway hes ays "all that phuckin' money you made today, and you can't give me an extra $5? (now I'm thinking, what about the days I make $27, and I'm also thinking, if this mother had spoken 1 word to me, I woulda given him a $20..the other bouncers know that!!!)I said EXCUSE ME??? He goes, I don't get a paycheck, I work on tips only. I said, umm, I don't get paid either,a dn i didn't see you take your top off onstage, or give one lap dance! I choose to work for tips, as do you. The this phucker sya..."all the shit you write about this club on stripclublist.com" Whoa..............pump your brakes bitch (my thought). I was dumbfounded. So I stuttered.."what"? I repeated/rephrases.I said listen , you don't know me, obviously. But I am NOBODY's punk. I haven't written anything derogatory about this damn club, even when I probably would have been well within my right to. So, I walk out, get in my car, and he goes back in the club. So, I'm trying to call the owner on the phone..no answer. I call another dancer, who'd already left, to give her the scoop. Do you know this m/f bouncer comes outside, and screams get the phuck outta here bitch!!! then says "phuckin" nigger. WHOA!!!!!!!!! So, he must not have realized I had the phone to my ear, so I put it on the other ear, and say "did you hear that"manager", although I'm really talking to the other dancer. She had heard everything!!!! Now mind you, just yesterday, her and I called the owner, and talked to him at length about things that are going on at his club, that he doesn't know about. We wanted to find out, if in fact he was aware, so we could move on! He wasn't aware, and asked us (along with the other girls we mentioned) to give him a few days to sort this crap all out. Cool, we like the dude, we like the club (hell we were there before him, and have hella regulars). Now, I'm wondering if I should even bother giving him chance to sort this out, or go ahead, and press assault charges. i don't give a flying phuck about my name being in the paper etc, I pay my texes and all that good shit. I also, already have other gigs, and I am not worried about being blacklisted in the biz. I really don't want money, nor do I want the owner to be screwed, but I don't talk to people like they are pions, regardless of their status, and I expect as much respect. calling me a bitch, and then a nigger??? Would I still be a nigger if I'd given him $5? I want people to realize that you can't just talk to strippers anyway u choose. These m/f's ain't even "connected". I knew that phucker didn't like me from 11am, because I bounced from white lap to white lap, right after another. Plus, he was watching my dances like a Hawk, and I'm a clean dancer... by Phoenix standards. everytime I went to v.i.p (3x) he's posted up like the detention monitor. Cool, but he only did that shit to me, and I have never been watched, or accused before, Guess he doesn't understand why the Black girl can make money of of White men w/o getting phucked. Iknow I am rambling, but this shit JUST happened. I am seriously considering doing something legal. My witness aid she had my back all the way...
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    p.s., btw, yes he did threaten me, he said he was going to "kick my black ass", while he was walking toward my car. and to be perfectly honest, I replied, I have fold down seats in the back, so i don't need to get out of the car to reach my glock bitch!!. He stopped walking toward my car then. And yes ladies, my gun/s are registered, and I am licensed to carry a concealed weapon, so he was campaigning to be the president of the hot lead committe, and he almost got elected.
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    Dam Jayda, I'm sorry that you had to go through that. Man, and I thought Phoenix was the place to be? Let me ask you...did you ever go to the back to see if they really had put a sign up?

    I really hope that your new manager does something about this guy, because he sounds like absolute trouble.







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    I wouldn't work with that bouncer anymore. He is not going to have your back if a custy gets out of hand and who knows if he will try anything himself.

    Can you work the shifts he doesn't ? If not I'd work elsewhere for awhile. Good luck to you hon, hope it works out for you soon.

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    The entire situation could have been avoided had the management informed both the bouncer and you about the tipping policy. Management is responsible. Blame them. Even if the bouncer is right about getting an extra $5, he should not have confronted you. He should have gone straight to management instead of putting you in this position. Unless he hit you, I don't think you have any legal recourse.

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    7. Assault § 13-1203
    The crime of assault in Arizona is committed under three different scenarios:

    Intentionally, knowingly, or recklessly causing a physical injury to another person is a Class 1 Misdemeanor.
    Intentionally placing another person in reasonable apprehension of imminent physical injury is a Class 2 Misdemeanor even if there is no physical injury to the other person.
    Knowingly touching another person with the intent to injure, insult or provoke is a Class 3 Misdemeanor.

    Thank you for your input ladies. After talking to the police (and others), I deceided to actually DO something. This is a Class 2 Misdemenor. Therefore, I'm filing my report, and going from there. We'll see what happens.

    To answer your questions, no Cin, I didn't check to see if the sign was there, after he stuttered and told me it was up since 2, I knew it wasn't even worth my effort. You can't put some shit up after I've already worked half a damn shift. Fl, I can never be sure what shifts he'll be there, its kinda phucked up in that club right now. I didn't wanna do it, but I will be moving my regs to my other club.
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    ^^ Good for you Jayda. I'm glad you took this initiative. That means you mean business. There is alot of shady stuff that goes on in clubs and most dancers just say "F%$%^ it" and try to pick up the pieces.

    I don't think you should leave the club you're at. Let him go!!! You do very well there, and you shouldn't jeopardize your earning for this douchebag!!







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    That is messed up, I hope his ass gets fired (whether you stay or not). Even if a sign was posted there is no way he should have reacted like that. It would seem to me that you are much more valuable to that club than he is and if they don't have your back on this they are nuts. I have a pretty good idea of the club you are talking about and quite frankly I'm guessing that you can do better elsewhere anyways. Good luck.

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    Good for you . Please let us know how things progress.

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    Oh my fucking God!! That's awful...what the hell....that has GOT to be the most horrible strip club story I've heard in a while...

    Good for you for standing up to that prick. I love that you told him you could get your glock...

    Any grown man that tells a girl he's going to "kick her ass" for not giving him 5 dollars is a jack-off!! And his job is supposed to be to protect the girls? Fuck him!

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    girl that is CRAZY!!! I hope they fire his ignorant ass ASAP!!!!! I have never been called the Nword before but I had a guy tell a coworker he didn't want to work with me because my skin was to dark!!!!! I was really to set fire to his ass! people just throw racial slurs around like it's nothing but that shit can get you killed!!!!I hope everything works out for you! btw comming back this way soon?

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    Is this club Creme', Bliss, or Amazons? All of those 3 changed hands, and I understand Creme' is geared to all rock and roll music right in the heart of the barrio. Plus if a club will not allow black music, then a black girl has no business working there. I stand by that. That music ban speaks for itself. I have seen mediocre clubs try to go to a classic rock format, and use that to run out the black dancers and attempt to woo the middle aged white customer but it never works. Music format isn't the make or break factor of a club. The atmosphere and ambience of a club is what brings in business.

    If the environment isn't to your liking have you considered going somewhere else? This business is constantly changing and sometimes that requires us to move around.

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    Tina, I have in fact gone somewhere else, I only go to my "old" club, to see my regulars that can't make it over to my other club. I am flexible, so the environment per say is tolerable, just not the obvious racism, and disrespect. That's not cool Anywhere, and dancers shouldn't be run off because of bullshit like that. Nor she we be called bitches, niggers, or threatened with violence by the people who are essentially there to protect them.. Of course, I know u aren't suggesting that.... Its Creme' btw, and their change of format will not suceed, mark my word(its the 40yr+ white guys who are complaining the most about the music and changes, I only make money there b/c of my devoted regs)
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    That's terrible- I'm so glad you're filing a report against him.

    Sounds like the club is going to go downhill anyways, so it's probably a good thing in the long run that you're moving clubs. The regs that you lose (if any) will be replaced.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JustJayda
    their change of format will not suceed, mark my word(its the 40yr+ white guys who are complaining the most about the music and changes, I only make money there b/c of my devoted regs)
    Well, that's the kicker right there. In addition to other poor management practices, these clubs trying to use music format as an agent of discrimination obviously haven't even done their music research. I doubt if they know what music appeals to which demographic these days because it's changing. According to a consultant I know, classic rock is trending popular with younger audiences and hip hop is trending older, compared to a few years ago. So misguided club owners can't even get that right.

    Good luck pursuing your case and stay safe. I admire your tenacity.

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