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    Default no, i had the worst night at work

    First of all I made no money--the worst I have ever made before this is $150--tonight I did 4 table dances at $10 each and then I had stage tips of about $20 total. It was a bad night for most dancers at my club, but then there is more. Tues is $2 drinks so I decide that i am not making any $ so I might as well drink. Another dancer that has always been super nice to me and another girl I like are all at the bar and we all get a drink together because of the bad night. Well, the girl that has been nice to me is pretty drunk and makes a joke about wanting to snort drugs. She used to do drugs years ago but told me she doesn't anymore (she told me this long before this night and when she was sober). The other girl at the bar tells on her. Management asks me did the girl I like ask for drugs and I say "u-huh." She gets fired. I then find out this girl put $ in my purse earlier because she was "lucky" (she works really hard) and felt bad for me. Oh the shame and guilt I feel. If I had not drunk so much I would have said something like I think she was joking. I just feel so bad overall about this night--not only do I feel terrible about the $ I made, I also feel like I wronged a friend and I will never see her again to apologize. And all I can think is what kind of karma this will bring to me!? I guess I just needed to vent--thanks. Jenna

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    Umm. Wow. I just got home from work tonite, I had a really horrible night too, it must have been a nationwide trend.

    Honestly, I don't know what to tell you. Really, you should feel bad. I don't mean that in a mean way... I know you didn't do this on purpose, so I am not trying to make you feel worse or anything....but, God, you said the girl was kidding, you said you knew she was kidding, why in the hell would you have told the manager or the other girl that? I understand you were drunk, but damn!!

    I just feel bad for this girl, she sounds really nice. A lot of people had problems with drugs, and it sounds like she was just drunk talking. It was an unfortunate situation, and although you did contribute to it, you were not solely responsible... it was that other bitch at the bar!! (LOL) Honestly, that girl (who told on the nice girl) is lucky she doesn't work at some of the clubs I've been in, because she would have gotten her ass beat bloody for being such a little cunt! (In case you were wondering, I've never even smoked pot, I just don't like people ratting out other people)

    It's like that old joke about a boy smoking cigarettes. A man comes up to him and says, you shouldn't smoke those they give you cancer. the boy says, well, my grandpa lived to be 107. Holy crap, says the man, your grandpa smoked and he lived to be a hundred and seven?? The boy puffs his cigarette, looks up and says, "No, he didn't smoke. He lived to be 107 because he minded his own fucking business."

    What's done here is done. If you really want to be a friend to this girl who got fired, remember what happened and don't let this sort of shit go on again. Words have power, and gossip can seriously affect people's lives, as you saw here. Never again mention another dancer's business to anyone, esp this little bitch that you work with (I'm so mean) who ratted out the nice dancer in the first place. If you really want to try to make things right, lie and tell the club manager that you have some of the fired girl's stuff and need her number so you can return it to her. (Unless you think association with her would get you fired too... no sense in everyone getting fired) Then take the money that girl put in your purse and take her out to lunch and apologize, and help her find a new club.

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    Default Re: no, i had the worst night at work

    you could go back and tell the manager that you were all really drunk, and you realize now that you should have mentioned she was joking. at the very least, an honest attempt should help your karma rating.
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    And, may possibly help the other girl. You could say that you were all joking about all kinds of things...like drunk people do. The other girl was just joking around...on and on...

    Then just let it go.

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    um yeah i would be pist if i was the friend... i could understand if you actually saw her doing a line in the bathroom or physically taking a drug, but you didn't..... if that girl was a friend to you, i dont' understand why you would tell the bartender that... i think you would have been beaten down at another club.. theres probably other girls that you work with who are friends with this girl outside the club, and they probably won't be too nice to you when they find out what happened.... i would think though, since it was a communication mishap that you could all sit down and talk it over and she could get her job back....

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    Default Re: no, i had the worst night at work

    Jenna, that's terrible. Hopefully it can be cleared up like the others have already said. But don't beat yourself up over it. Dancers come and go in the clubs getting hired, fired, rehired and moving back and forth between the clubs. If she's good then getting another job shouldn't be much of a problem. Heck she may already have a new club by now.

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