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    Angry House Mom Horrors

    Had my first official night as house mom last night. I rocked that shit, yo! Hardy har. I have a question though... I brought a ton of supplies and products; hairspray, lotion, band-aids, snacks, every type of hot iron, makeup, etc. and all the girls used them. Well, all but one or two. There were at least 25 girls there last night and only 6 tipped me out. Whaaa?? In fact, there were two new girls that started for the very first time last night and asked one of the other dancers - "the nice helpful one" who they tip out. I was standing there and she mentions everyone but me. I was too chicken shit to say anything and I was pretty damn shocked too. Now I am just pissed. All the other girls tipped everyone out then stared at the floor as they walked right by me. Little shits! I wanted to trip them. What could I do when this crap happens?? What do I say to them? I don't want to be one of those nazi house moms but this is just retarded. I have all these products out for them to use whenever they want and however much they want during the night. I only want to be treated with respect, don't act like you are above me, and tip accordingly. I mean, is that so much to friggin' ask? Oy flippin' vey.
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    maybe a manager can enforce the tipout rule?

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    It sucks when you don't get the respect you deserve. I agree^^^^, maybe they can set a rule of $1 an hour to the house mom, minimum $5, since you ARE actually providing them a service, and they obviously are using your stuff. Keep us posted
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    Thanks girls! The $1.00 is a really good idea too. I mean, it's not much, but when you have upwards of 20 girls for 7 hours, it adds up. I want to be cool and keep bringing in items the girls can use, it's hard when I am not breaking even from the last purchase. I'll speak with management and see what happens. Keep the ideas and tips (no pun) coming!

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    try putting up a price list in the dressing room for supplies and services

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    At my old club, tipping out the housemom a minimum of $10 was mandatory. You tipped more if you used stuff. Maybe they could have something like this for you. Mandatory $5-$10. One housemom kept a list of who tipped her out. Kept everyone honest.

    Gently remind the girls that extra tip-out is required if they want to continue using the stuff.

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    The per item used is a good idea - its a lot easier for a dancer to give away $1 at a time 10 times in a night than to give out a whole $10 bill at the end of the night....

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    Aleah, how about posting a sign at your area with the suggested (or mandatory) tip?

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    Yah at every club I've ever worked at it was mandatory to tip the house mom. Anywhere between 5 and at the club I'm at now 8 bucks ( however I always tip 10 , since they have to tip out as well. )

    Keep a good eye on your Irons and such.

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    the rule we have at my club is that we give the house mom a minium of 7 dollars.
    (pardon my spelling) and everyone pays it.

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    The $1 per item used is a great idea. I'll keep a jar (and one eye) by the items, girls use them, tip a dollar. Maybe that way they won't think they're giving me sooo much of their money per night. As Audrey said, that' $10-$20 when you're walking out with hundreds. Now, if a dancer doesn't use my things or takes a stick of gum, I don't expect her to give me anything. It's the girls who use my stuff all night, which is what it is there for, but then think I don't have to be tipped. My items I bought for them isn't cheap. The makeup I have for them is Chanel and Smashbox, that for sure isn't cheap. Ok. I am done being upset about this. You all gave me rad ideas and I will use them!

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    I definitely like the charging idea. Maybe I should start doing that - everybody always wants to use my lotion, eye drops, body spray, etc. because I always have it. I've even loaned girls my CELL PHONE, just because I was too shocked to say no when they asked and I get free minutes at night anyway. We have no house mom. Guess we could use one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aleah
    Now, if a dancer doesn't use my things or takes a stick of gum, I don't expect her to give me anything.
    THis will be a little bit off subject........

    The not tipping if not using was what I was wondering. Because if I was dancing and there was a house mom I would never use the stuff she brought. Not because I'm above her but I have this thing about borrowing stuff from other people. Even if I tipped you for the stuff I would still feel indebted to you. I know it doesn't make sense..... It's easier for me to give then to receive.

    Whenever I do anything I make sure I'm prepared so that I don't have to depend or burden anyone else because I wasn't prepared. So if you don't use their stuff and you have your own personal trunk with a lock etc.....why would you tip the house mom??? Should you still tip here even though she doesn't really do anything for you. Then I feel like I'm tipping for all the assholes who use her stuff and abuse the tip out.

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    No no, if a dancer hasn't used anything of mine and has her own things, she does not need to tip me at all. Of course not. Even if it's something small, a one time use or something simple like a cigarette, I am not going to get fired up because she walked out without handing me any money. That would be really psycho on my part. I was upset because the girls who didn't tip me out, used my stuff all night - lots of it - and then just sauntered out the door. That's just shitty. That's when I become really upset and and want to slap them around. Nothing little things here and there. That's no big deal.

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    I understand the type of people you are talking about. Man I hate having to deal with them. Sadly I don't think I ever taught myself a good way to deal with them. I more just avoided having to deal with them. But that's not posssible in your case.

    It's hard not to come off as a demanding nit picker about money even though you are not at fault. It sucks having to deal with people who have no conscience and just don't and won't ever give a fuck about anything that's not all about them......aarrggghhhhh I feel your pain.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aleah
    No no, if a dancer hasn't used anything of mine and has her own things, she does not need to tip me at all. Of course not. Even if it's something small, a one time use or something simple like a cigarette, I am not going to get fired up because she walked out without handing me any money. That would be really psycho on my part. I was upset because the girls who didn't tip me out, used my stuff all night - lots of it - and then just sauntered out the door. That's just shitty. That's when I become really upset and and want to slap them around. Nothing little things here and there. That's no big deal.

    Don't ever come across to these girls you work with that no tip is okay , even if they feel they dont use your services. Bottom line most moms keep the back in order , offer mental support, supplies, food, and keep the dressing room stocked with toilet paper, tampons. soap, and clean up after all the sloppy messes left.You provide a beneficial service they take for granted. I rarely have used any products or food from the house mom and still always tip.

    If you were not there the dressing room would be chaous! Fights and theft would also rise due to lack of supervision. Everyone is there to make money and it would not be as profitable if areas of management, DJ,Bouncers, and moms didn't help. It cost you money to provide the personal products that make it easier . Not to meantune the patience with PMS, MEN, drugs, alcohol, Money gripes, and psycotic episodes you put with.

    As for the ones that dont tip (usually the ones using evertthing you bring) no extra services should be provided if they dont compensate you. The girls that do appreciate you will usually make up for the slackers. There are direct , suttle ways in body language and comments that will make your point to the freeloaders if the club wont allow a mantatory tip. What comes around goes around !

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