Ok, so I'm at a loss for what to do, I really need advice, please help.
Sorry, this is kind of long.
To start off with, I'm generally a good girl. I get good grades, I don't drink anymore, I've never used any drugs (by choice), I used to dance, but at least that's legal, right?
So my roommate loves her weed. She's been high for the past 4 days straight. She started off smoking in her room, the smell irritated me, but I got over it. The following night she was in the living room. This really irritated me because now I became a prisoner in my room. I had to keep the door shut, but smoke still seeped in. Next night, she was in the living room again, but I had a friend coming over to watch a movie. So...an hour before it was supposed to start we told her that we wanted to watch a movie. She said she was having people over to watch tv so no. I calmly pointed out that, she had a tv in her room and I didn't, and that I paid for the one in the living room, so I would like to use it. She gave in then, but rearranged the kitchen to push my buttons. She hung ugly, jagged peices of fabric up all over the kitchen, moved my aquarium, etc. Last night she was back to smoking in her room, because I had friends over in the living room.
Last night while in class, she im'd me and said that I am very rude, and could she use the living room that night. I said I was having friends over. She continued to tell me how unreasonable I am.
Ok, so at the beginning of the school year I had a cat. She knew about it from the start, she'd had cats before, she knew what they were about. She kept raising arguments about it, so I was waiting til things smoothed out before I went and paid the pet deposit, because I didn't want to waste the money if she was going to make me get rid of it anyways. Her main argument was that she was allergic to it, and that it was illegal. Now, I don't know about you guys, but I'd much rather be caught with a CAT then mass amounts of marijuana. So I said the exact same thing to her. It was illegal, and I'm allergic. She once again says I'm being unreasonable because I would consider "narcing on her"...mmk. On our lease it says no illegal substances,drugs, so pretty much if she's caught, I am now in violation of the lease too. I am a sad excuse for a human being, she says, because I would even consider getting her in trouble. (she made me give up my cat - I loved it)
I'm really afraid that she is going to plant some in my room or something and get me in trouble, she's very sneaky. I don't know what to do. My throat and nose are killing me, I always smell like pot, I hate it. What should I do?
Can I file a police report with out getting her arrested, so that if she does plant something there is already something on the books?
Please help
Jill
p.s. She knows that I used to dance. When we were friends I told her that in confidentiality, now she tells everyone she can about it, talks about it loudly, and uses all the stereotypes against me. Like she is putting me at risk, she says I put her at risk because a "scarry stripper stalkers" might mistake her for me...(ok...she weighs like 50lbs more than me because of the constant munchies). Anyways she likes to use this for amunition against me...something else to keep in mind.
If she tries to ruin my career in the future I will hit her with a defamation suit so fast her head will spin.



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