I've been dancing for a little over two weeks now. I'm working in a pretty high contact club and thats pretty much the standard for the rest of the area of the South Eastern Michigan area. I new this going in, but I've encountered an obnoxious amount of guys trying to touch my coochie.
I'm wondering if they're trying it because I admit to most of them that I'm new and herhaps they're just trying to see what they can get away with. Do guys who frequent SC's a lot like to try this on new dancers? Perhaps think we're more manipulable.
For the most part I've been able to deflect it. I've had a few guys turn down more dances after I made it clear that it wasn't going to happen (one guy told me I was really conservative and that he didn't think I liked men--because strippers are so conservative and all)
I still sold 14 dances to one customer who kept trying and 8 to another so I guess they weren't that upset they couldn't see and touch my cooch.
I've tried "Thats not allowed" or "no, we can't do that the bouncer is right over there." Do you guys have advice on any better wasy to keep them from going there? Also should I stop telling people I'm new? (it usually comes up when they're like how long have you been dancing? What other clubs ahve you worked at?)



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