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    Ok group,
    Here is my all time compliant about strippers and it happened recently

    I have a dancer that I am partying with in the exclusive area of the club. They didn't have VIP but they did have a nicer section for customers.

    Anyway, I am having a great time with this dancer. She has already made like $150 and stands to make at least $300 more. Then it happens.....

    "Hey I gotta go on stage now but my friends are gonna stay...I'll be back"

    No problem...the friends do their thing and I wait. Finally, I get tired of waiting and she is out on the floor with another dude. Cool, maybe he tipped her on stage so I wait and nothing. Finally, I ask her is she is coming back or is this is one of her regulars. She finally makes it back but by now I have waited at least 30 extra minutes for her.

    I told her I had lost the vibe and if she is going to pull that crap she should have just told me she had a regular. She told me it was her mechanic. I explain to her that this is not my first time in a club and she is stupid. I leave the club. Will never use her again and I let her know that.

    Anyone had a similar experience? Would like feedback from dancers also. Do not understand why dancers do stupid stuff like that. We were having a great time. I was behaving. Everything was cool. I guess her man came in and everything stops when that happens.

    Anyone think I should have complained to management? I decided to just leave and not ever get dances from her again.

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    Ok... my night is worth more than 450, so I am guessing she feels the same.

    It's a friggin' club dude, you don't own her.

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    it's a club. we're there to make $$$...she prolly didn't know you were willing to spend more money on her and she figured it was a waste of her time.

    also. how do you know it WASN'T her mechanic? Don't be so quick to jump to conclusions. why would you want to talk to management? they won't care. we are independent contractors, if we want to go in there, sit at the bar and not do a damn thing all nite...we can.
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    appeciate the feedback
    One thing...it was not for the whole night...

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    WOW dude you sound like a cave man
    She's there to make money and she has to spread the love she can make more from 20 guys than one, don't be so touchy all you did by stroming out was ruin your own night

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    Thanks for the feedback
    I don't believe that she did know i had it so that is a good point.
    I should have been more forthcoming....

    So you think just leaving a customer and not coming back is ok?

    I just see it as bad sales technique and a little inconsiderate..

    Especially if the customer is paying you and you are making good money.

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    didnt storm out...ready to go at that point

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    well she told you that she would come back. she prolly was going to. it's not her fault that you were impatient. oh...so $150 is good money? come on. she prolly makes WAY more than that.
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    All....appreciate the feedback
    Guess the net of it is to loosen up and not be so uptight and if I have a decent amount of money and I'm looking for some exclusive time, communicate that more clearly to the dancer

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    exactly.
    There's a wild side behind every innocent face.

    End violence against women.
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    I would highly recommend when you can afford it, go back and have a good time. I would not spend one dime with her because she is rude. If she recognizes you and comes over (she may forget the pervious situtation as dancers talk to so many men), just be very polite, say no thank you and have a nice time with another dancer. Try not to take it personal.

    Rick

    PS, I would also never comunicate I have lots to spend, I would rather know the dancer could have a nice time with me, it will not take long for her to see that I will take care of her in the club and she will not have to hustle the room.

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    complain to the manager? What is s/he going to do? Drag her back and make her sit with you? Tell her that she is no longer allowed to choose her customers?
    If you hadn't arranged an hourly rate she doesn't owe you anything. And she can't know how much you intend to spend or whatever - she probably says that she'll be right back, fully intending to and then got distracted. Not that big a deal.
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    Hey, I get at least one person who gets it.

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    Rick.

    you know you are making the point better than I did. I don't like for them to know what I have to spend until I get a better idea of how things are going between us. I do have some girls that dance for me on a regular basis so they know me.

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    Your dancer certainly got distracted, and surely she's not the best at juggling her customers. But that's a very long way from being "rude," don't you think?

    What's rude is your calling her "stupid" and saying that you will never "use" her again (I genuinely hope you didn't actually say that to her).

    I understand that you may have felt irritated or abandoned, but the poor customer service you experienced just means that it's time to move on to another dancer and try to have a better time with her. There are many more dancers in the club who will take good care of you, I'm sure.

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    I can only hope to achieve your level of cool, calm demeanor but hey u are 007

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    Were you in any way offensive to her?

    I agree she showed poor judgement in not getting back to you sooner.

    Most importantly...DID YOU TIP HER ON STAGE????

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    Quote Originally Posted by dawg777
    Anyway, I am having a great time with this dancer. She has already made like $150 and stands to make at least $300 more. Then it happens.....

    "Hey I gotta go on stage now but my friends are gonna stay...I'll be back"

    No problem...the friends do their thing and I wait. Finally, I get tired of waiting and she is out on the floor with another dude. Cool, maybe he tipped her on stage so I wait and nothing. Finally, I ask her is she is coming back or is this is one of her regulars. She finally makes it back but by now I have waited at least 30 extra minutes for her.
    If you didn't let her know in advance that there was more money waiting for her when she got back, she really had no incentive to come back. On the other hand, she might have considered the fact that you were going to spend money on her and that you were content on waiting. A mistake in judgment on her part, but not exactly what I would call stupid. If you can't read her mind, what makes you think that she can read yours?

    Do realize that she's there to earn a living and only has a small window of time each night to earn what she can. It sucks to get "bumped". I've had dancers do it to me as well. Just the same, other dancers have bumped their customers to attend to me. Its nothing personal.

    I think you were in the right to cut off the money, but I'm saddened that you apparently let your emotions get the better of you in blowing her off. You'd have gotten your message across to her a bit better had you taken the high road, flashed the $300, and told her that you'll be saving it for another time, either that, or spend it on another gal, and upon her return politely told her, "I'm sorry, but I thought you were busy with another guy". This way you can keep your moral high ground, and not look like an ass doing it.
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    Heh,

    Even tho its a Dancer-Customer relationship, its still a relationship which requires communication. Normally through $$. So:

    Did you tip her well during her stage set?
    Did you tell her you wanted to buy more dances at the end of her stage set?
    What happened before her stage set?
    It seems to me that you had 3 dancers, Was the 450 split up between them?

    She could have been thinking you where having a good time but she was splitting profits with other girls when she could get all profits from another custy. This is good dancer motif, and normally beneficial for me.

    If you don't know her, she doesn't know you. Certainly don't expect that she does.

    Tho I hope you didn't say the things you said, if you did, that says a lot about what she was dealing with while she was dancing for you, and though you where having a good time with her and her friends, the desire to come back for the money was not there for her. I'm not trying to offend you. But bottom line, she didn't feel she needed to come back. Thats represented by two things, not necissarily both. Lack of $$, or Lack of Comfort.

    Definatly don't worry about her. She'll be ok
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    Quote Originally Posted by tampafldancer
    Ok... my night is worth more than 450, so I am guessing she feels the same.

    It's a friggin' club dude, you don't own her.
    The next time I'm in tampa, I am gonna be sooooo broke.
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    "will never use her again"

    Your language, sir, speaks for itself.

    People, including women, don't want to be used.

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    Do mechanics really come to strip clubs to visit their customers? C'mon, folks, she dumped dawg777 for a regular. He got more upset about this than he probably should have, but a mechanic? Let's be real.

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    I understand that you may have felt irritated or abandoned, but the poor customer service you experienced just means that it's time to move on to another dancer and try to have a better time with her. There are many more dancers in the club who will take good care of you, I'm sure.
    Well said, indeed. One would think this so basic that it would obviate the need for explanation, but I'm continually surprised in this forum by what passes for customer wisdom.

    Finally, I get tired of waiting and she is out on the floor with another dude. Cool, maybe he tipped her on stage so I wait and nothing. Finally, I ask her is she is coming back or is this is one of her regulars. She finally makes it back but by now I have waited at least 30 extra minutes for her.
    Microeconomics 101: It's a matter of of basic opportunity cost for both you and the dancer. If she feels she can earn more from a regular PL/RIL then by all means she should entertain him over you and with all due haste, and there's not a damn thing wrong with that. By contrast, if you're not being suitably entertained, there's always more girls willing to take your cash and you accomplish nothing by waiting except increasing your opportunity cost without adequate return.

    Don't be ass, have some class and just move on.
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    No one has addressed the fact that Dawg777 had other dancers entertaining him in the mean time. There may be a very high level of cattyness in this club, and any attempt for the original dancer to return to the customer could cause problems with the other dancers who were making money from him. I have abandoned spending customers because the drama factor made any amount of money he might have spent not worth it.

    I have to work in the club 3-5 nights a week. I don't want to have to deal with crap from the other dancers.

    I also don't put up with any person disrespecting me or insulting me. If a customer is crass or insensitive, I'm happy to let him keep his money. I don't need it that bad. There is no excuse for being a jerk.


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    Just my lil' personal opinion here....

    WE dont know how long they actually sat together.

    BUT I will say that usually after I did a vip with a custy and he seems to no longer hold interest in another, I'll walk him back to his table and tell him " i'll check on you here in a bit " ...figuring since he didnt want to continue right then and there ..that hes NOT that interested in me.

    I will check in later...usually in passing and when nothing else is going on. I dont want to waste his time and I sure as hell dont want to waste mine. You know, because I AM at work.

    And a club is for variety ..correct?

    If you didnt go to her stage and tip her yet sat and watched her... I think that would say to her " he's not interested any longer ".

    Then asking " who is that guy you are talking to " ..sends HUGE red flags..

    Why red flag?

    Well why do you care who she's talking to and what his relationship is with her.

    Aren't you there for entertainment purposes only? And not to get snide, rude and possesive over a person you do not know.

    We are there to make money. You are there for fun, entertainment and pleasure of sorts.

    And we aren't commited to any one said customer UNLESS he is paying for our time ..ie dances,vip etc.

    Just as you aren't commited to one said dancer unless you are currently paying her time via a dance or VIP.


    There for, if you chose to end the VIP etc then you did in a sense end your time with her.

    Seems to me she is doing what she's supposed to be doing which is keeping busy

    And probably assumed that you would like to see a few of the other girls
    ( or ran out of cash and were just then wanting idle convo ..IE taking up her time at work. )

    She was poliet by saying she would return. and also not hogging up a seat at your table.

    I hate to be so fucking honest...but hey that is the way it works

    and "used" her was awful.

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