How would you guys have handled this? A guy came into the club last night that had spent some $ on me 2 weeks ago. I went over and said hi, while talking to him another dancer yells to him--I'm on stage, come over here. He excuses himself, says he wants a dance from me later.
He spends alot of time with this girl who called him over. 2-3 hours later I see him by his self, I go over and talk to him. He asks for a dance, and as we are walkinig back into the PD area, he sees the other dancer, who has brought another guy in for a dance. She scowls at him and he looks at me terrified. We wait until she goes in and then go get some dances.
Later the dancer walks by me and says "he is my regular" in a nasty tone, I say "he is my regular too." I told my manger what happened. I end up sitting w/ the guy again, the other dancer sits down very near to us and stares at us the whole time. He tells me that he would really like dances from me, she is scaring him, is rude and forceful, and that she is being way too clingy. He says that he would really like some time to stage tip and just hang out but he can't because she is always on top of him. But he is clearly too much of a pussy to stand up to her!? Because he got alot of dances from her.
Anyway she goes on to talk to him at my stage (a BIG no no in my club) to get him to leave w/ her and glares at us whenever we talk. Most of the time we interacted it was initiated by him, not me, so its not like I was trying to take him away. He clearly wanted to spend time with me. At one point she walked over to our table and asked him for $ that he owed her. (Also a BIG nono--always get your $ right away and 1 dancer per guy at a table).
All I did was tell the manager and nothing came of that what would you guys have done? Also, why did this guy spend so much time with her? Do you think he was feeding this when he said things like he didn't really like her to get us to fight over him? Why can't dancers share customers, he had lots of $ to go around and its not like I expected him all to myself. Also, guys if a dancer treated you like this would you continue to be her regular? Why would he? Thanks, Jenna



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