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    Default Stupid people abusing this forum.

    I should've known better than to put my AIM screen name on here, but I thought I could connect with other dancers. Some guy (Auburn4Life I think) just IM'ed me, said he was from SW, and said "send me some nude pics." I said goodbye, blocked him, and immediately took my screen name off of my profile on here.

    Has this happened to anyone else? Was I stupid for posting my handle? I deal with that shit enough in the club, I don't want to have to put up with it at home. Especially when someone expects it for free, no less!
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    I don't even make my email public info.We get enough PM's requesting pics of ourselves.Just be careful.
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    Nope ain't happened to me to yet. Sorry that happened to you.







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    Abbey, I'm sorry that happened :/

    It really does suck when you can't trust your own community simply because its viewed by the majority.

    But hey, I'd pay 100/year to view the site, hell even more.... Maybe a membership subscription is the answer?

    I mean I may be a guy, but my yahoo has gotten some pretty strange msgs since joinging.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mastridonicus
    Abbey, I'm sorry that happened :/

    It really does suck when you can't trust your own community simply because its viewed by the majority.

    But hey, I'd pay 100/year to view the site, hell even more.... Maybe a membership subscription is the answer?

    I mean I may be a guy, but my yahoo has gotten some pretty strange msgs since joinging.
    Crap, was that you I kept sending those messages to? J/K It wasn't me...REALLY!

    I would seriously be all good for a paid subscription if there was a way to process payments online (and yes, I know it's been said again and again).

    I had a couple of weirdos send me messages, but I just blocked them and moved on.

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    I haven't been asked for nude pics, but I have been asked where I work by guys (I presume). Now, I don't mind telling ladies where I work, hell I'm always down to help ANY dancer out with honest info etc. But I'm leary, about having guys visiting me from SW, they can read everything I've ever posted, and know just a lil too much about me, ya know. I know, other dnacers could do it too, but I am giving "us" the benefit of the doubt. Sorry for piggybacking Abbey, it was just too good to pass up
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    hahahaha nice timing he must be doing it for everyone becuase while reading this thread i had a pm pop up.

    "hi would love to chat or cam with you my name on yahoo is big_bad_azz_kicker and name onmsn is [email protected] and on aol its auburnf4life"

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    Yea its happened to me before. Grrr. No I do not want to send nude pics to some guy 1000's of miles away. What the hell really? *gives the crazy loook* I dont remember the person if I did I would out them right now.

    I just didnt answer back and good thing they didnt try again.
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    Report them to Pryce.

    The user agreement I signed to become a member here mentioned that asking for pics or otherwise harrassing is not acceptable.

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    But hey, I'd pay 100/year to view the site, hell even more.... Maybe a membership subscription is the answer?
    This would fix a lot of the problem immediately. There has been an unacceptably high number of brain-damaged juveniles posting as of late, irritating the bulk of the regular posting community, thereby devaluing SW in the process. It's the singular reason why I almost never initiate PM contact with a female SW member--they're bombarded with insulting idiocy too regularly, idiocy that the girls have to deal with all too often in the club on the job as it is.

    I'm hoping Pryce can find a merchant system to address this, but in the meantime, those of us with Y chromosomes on SW wind up looking like complete fucking assholes by association.

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    I'm up for paid membership too and made mention of it in site issues.

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    I will never put my AIM or Yahoo name up here...the ones that are in my profile are never used anymore simply because I kept getting morons and assholes IM'ing me the second I signed on. So, I changed my name.

    If you want to connect with others from here, I would suggest that you send a PM to the people who you would like to know this information.

    Unfortunately, the guy you are talking about can still keep contacting you. People who are not registered, but pull up the site and see the posts that lists everyone's IM's. They cannot contact people here, but they can see the posts.

    I'll let Pryce know that the guy mentioned above is abusing the site and have him banned.

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    I have a yahoo account listed, and I have a lot of email/IM that range from interesting and welcome to banal to very unwelcome indeed. Honestly, the amount of work it takes me to click "delete" and "block" for those that are inappropriate is little enough that it never even occurred to me that it was a problem - certainly less work than informing Pryce and then making him deal with it. Granted, I haven't had anyone start sending email every 4 minutes, or start a whole slew of new accounts to keep messaging me - if the problem is of that nature, then yeah, report it. Otherwise - just press delete and keep on truckin.
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    Totally agree with Venus. Although I did list my AIM name in one of the threads, that doesn't mean that just anyone can PM me. I add the people that I want to be able to contact me. All others, I block. It's a good idea for everyone to do something like that, so you don't get the horny morons looking for a free peep show.

    Paid membership has been mentioned a zillion times before. That is why Pryce came up with the Platinum memberships. Of course, when Paypal dumped us, online payments had to stop. There's still snail-mail though.

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    I don't like the idiotas either, but honestly I can't afford membership right now (lots of personal reasons), I adore this site and I hate anyone feeling uncomrtable on it. I have had a few random PMs, but nothing as crude as what you all seem to be receiving. I don't even deal with AIM so I am not hassled.
    It is awful when peope get on here and act like tools <-- my best way to describe it.
    There IS free porn out there, they should just check that out and leave us alone.
    I guess it should say on the sign up list of rules NO BAD PERVS ALLOWED, because we all know the good pervs on this site aren't the ones this thread is referring to.
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    Quote Originally Posted by JustJayda
    I haven't been asked for nude pics, but I have been asked where I work by guys (I presume). Now, I don't mind telling ladies where I work, hell I'm always down to help ANY dancer out with honest info etc. But I'm leary, about having guys visiting me from SW, they can read everything I've ever posted, and know just a lil too much about me, ya know. I know, other dnacers could do it too, but I am giving "us" the benefit of the doubt. Sorry for piggybacking Abbey, it was just too good to pass up
    This is a VERY helpful thread for customers too, thank you! If I notice that a dancer posting on SW is in my area, I have in the past sent a PM from the site (I don't use IM) only asking which club they work at. I would never ask for pics, that's just weird... Some don't respond, and some can't wait to meet me, but it never occurred to me that some would want their SW persona to stay separate and private from their club persona. Although sometimes a little slow on the uptake, I learn something new every day! Thanks for clueing me in, and apologies to anyone that would have rather not heard from me.

    However, this raises another question for you ladies. If I'm in a club and I recognize you from SW, would you prefer that I introduce myself to you and tell you that I recognize you from this site, or should I just enjoy your company and never bring it up? Thanks in advance for your feedback.

    Also, Abbey, I hope you don't mind sharing Calvin. When I signed up that was the only avatar I liked, and didn't know anyone else was using it. Cheers!

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    i've only had a few problems with ppl im'ing me. most i'll just block and never hear from them again. but one guy was persistant. i wish i knew what his name was. but he would call me a whore and say that all strippers will burn in hell. and there was more, it was horrible.
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    Quote Originally Posted by azdd
    If I notice that a dancer posting on SW is in my area, I have in the past sent a PM from the site (I don't use IM) only asking which club they work at. I would never ask for pics, that's just weird... Some don't respond, and some can't wait to meet me, but it never occurred to me that some would want their SW persona to stay separate and private from their club persona.
    I've done this before as well. This is simply a matter that you kind of have to play by ear because how acceptable that is will vary from member to member. I've gotten to meet a couple of the ladies on the site by contacting them by PM when I was going to be in their city. The reason I went that route was because I felt it was more appropriate to go that route than spill it out on the boards.

    Needless to say, I can see why some here would be uncomfortable with it, and yes, I think asking for pics (nude or not) when said gal has stated no intentions of giving them out is unacceptable.

    However, this raises another question for you ladies. If I'm in a club and I recognize you from SW, would you prefer that I introduce myself to you and tell you that I recognize you from this site, or should I just enjoy your company and never bring it up?
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    I have only ever been contacted by IM by a few other SW girls. Doc and azdd, I think you are being perfectly appropraite to contact people by PM. If the member soes not care to respond, that is her business, no big deal. Personally, I would not mind meeting a SW guy in the club; I think it woudl be fun. OTOH, I really do not want ALL the custies I meet in the club coming over to SW wehre they can read about my ongoing battles with acne and my fights with my husband. There realy is such a thing as to much info, IMO.


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    However, this raises another question for you ladies. If I'm in a club and I recognize you from SW, would you prefer that I introduce myself to you and tell you that I recognize you from this site, or should I just enjoy your company and never bring it up? Thanks in advance for your feedback.
    I think in most cases I would prefer not to know.

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    I use to love chatting on AIM, but I keep it turned off now-a-days cuz of the geeks who were SOOOOOO harassing! It's like I would get ONE message after ANOTHER from someone in east hell who either "wants to be my friend" or "got any nude pics?" or whatever!!! A bunch of guys had me on some sort of instant notification, so whenever I'd come on line, I'd instantly get like a dozen messages from them and they'd instantly be in my face.

    I'm hardly ever on AIM anymore becuz of that.

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    I had my Yahoo msngr up for like a day and I had 2 messages from guys asking to meet.... not fucking kosher with me.... so I immediately removed it. I still have my space account in my sig but there isn't anywhere that I put my email address there or anywhere else anymore. It's too creepy getting someone that thinks just because you are on a public forum that you want the "public" to contact you... fucking freaks.
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    I'm not even a dancer and I've gotten a few random, lewd IM's. I just ignore them. There's little buttons right on the IM itself that make them go away.
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    I never got into doing chat. I much prefer the message board thing.

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    I disagree with making the site a subscription site for everyone. Maybe just for the guys? I think it's awesome that we as dancers have this community for support and sisterhood and I don't think it would be fair to us to make it subscription. I think we'd lose a lot of the girls by doing that. Not everyone has axcess to a credit card, for whatever reason, and not everyone has extra funds availiable. I've never been contacted by a guy in PM on this site. However if someone was going to be in my area and wanted to stop by and see me at my club then hell yeah I'd want to hear from them. I'm not one to turn away business regardless of it's source. So report the assholes and let each of us decide our own comfort level. Like another girl already said, keep on truckin'!
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