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    Girls,

    Looking for some new ideas and advice on the following:

    I usually like to get dances pretty much from one or two girls tops. When a girl brings a friend over (or a friend shows up perhaps invited, perhaps not) my usual rule of thumb is to get at least one dance from each friend and buy them a drink if they want one.

    What would u guys recommend as a nice way to let the friends know that I enjoyed the dance but I am pretty much hanging out with their friend that night?

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    just say something like "i enjoy your company but id like to spend some time alone with so and so, heres a tip foor being cute, etc."

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    When a girl brings a friend over (or a friend shows up perhaps invited, perhaps not) my usual rule of thumb is to get at least one dance from each friend and buy them a drink if they want one.
    Stop doing that.

    When a dancer brings a friend over in whom you have no interest in patronizing, politely say, "Thanks, but I'm really here to see X." This way you're upfront about it and unless she's a total bitch, she'll be fine with that.

    It's fine to buy them a drink or get a dance from them if you have some interest, but you're not doing yourself any favor when you patronize dancers that don't interest you.
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    My roommate and I double team all the time. Most girls will not take offense if you tell them that you just want to be with your friend. It's better if you tell them, than making your girl tell her friend to get up and leave. I would play it off in a joking manner. I personally do this all the time, here are some ways I like...I've revised them to fit you, the customer...do any of the following:

    1. Hug your girl, and say to her friend...."X and I are having some alone time right now, I'm sorry. Maybe I can catch up with you next time I come in?"

    2. Give the girl a tip and say, " you are so beautiful, it's amazing. but I only have eyes for my girl here......."

    3. Say, "I don't mean to be rude, but when I come in, I really just like to talk to x."

    Also, if you don't want a girl to stick around, don't buy her a drink or get one dance from her. She might sit around because she's trying not to be rude to you after you bought her a drink, does that make sense? I would advise that if this is your favorite girls friend, slip her a ten or a twenty and politely tell her that you prefer to spend your time with just your girl, alone. This is really doing her a favor, and you a favor, because neither of you is wasitng time then.

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    A dancer friend once told me that once you give a dancer money for a dance they will think that when you come in your fair game, friend or no friend, money is money. Although it may seem great to have the attention of two or more girls in the club when a dancer starts "sharing" you it does you no good. Remember you are earning no points with the one your there to see by giving another girl money...a drink maybe to be friendly...but otherwise being the "good guy" has no place in the strip club environement...remember any and all relationships you form in the club are based on money...your money for their time...if you like one girl make it known not just to her but to the rest of the girls...then if they come over and hangout you'll know its not for your money.

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    Get your dances and then send your "fifth wheel" on her way. Instead of offering to buy her a drink, hand her the money and say "go get yourself a drink, and keep making that money girl. I'm sure you must have other guys waiting for you".

    She'll get the hint, and be appreciative of having an "escape" to go and get dances with other customers. You still were a gentleman and bought her a drink, but she was not obligated to stick around and finish it with you because you gave her the green light to go work other guys.


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    Be polite, be courteous. Tell the girl you don't want around that you're really just there to see X. Do not 'be a gentleman' and hand out cash for free, ie tipping or buying a drink for the girl you don't want around. That’s just called being stupid.
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    Just say NO to mercy dances....
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