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    extras question

    I am by no mean an extras girl! I want to make that VERY clear first before I post this question.
    Is letting a custy lick your nips an extra?
    I have never let a guy do it, I stop a dance if they do do it. I am starting to work at a different club with out as stiff of rules as the club I started at......I want to know for sure what is and what is not an extra, besides the whole sexual act blanket term. To me that would make a lot of things an extra, like the guy who just sits at the tip rail and wants dancers to rub the side of her face against his.....
    anyway a list would be helpful.
    thanks in advance

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    The short answer in is yes it is an extra. At least that was the case in all the clubs I have worked in anway. It's also one of the most commonplace extras and compared to some other ones, a light weight extra.

    What is and isn't an extra differs from club to club and lace to place so there is no one list of them.

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    I would consider anything that the club "officially" does not permit as being an extra, but for me it's more of an issue about how I feel and what would be mentally ok doing and not doing

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    If the majority of the other girls are doing it, then it is unfortunately not an extra. My club is pretty high contact and I've learned I need to be able to do what at least 2/3 of the girls in my club do and then draw the line VERY strictly there.

    There are also some girls in my club who make out with custies in vip. Is that common?

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    Uhhh...okay, to answer to questions at once....YES, nipple licking IS an "extra" don't do it unless you want to get busted, and even then, do you really want some nasty dude licking your nipples? You know you can communicate diseases through nipples, right? Yah. Anywho, also, if girls are making out with customer's, that's pretty messed up as well.

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    Can't say I never did extras.
    Was younger and just starting out.
    No way in hell I'd do some of them now.

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    http://www.medhelp.org/forums/STD/messages/1734.html

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    I would be more interested in what your local LAWS are. In Chicago, sitting on a customer's lap without your dress on, is an extra...dancing too close to the customer is an extra. And both, though harmless will get you busted if you are doing it to the wrong person at the wrong time.

    Find out your local laws and amend them. If "everyone" at your club is doing extras (nipple licking, kitty petting, etc) then it's time to find a new club. Chances are, that club is going to get busted. What's worse than getting caught doing extras is NOT doing extras and getting arrested and charged anyways just because you were there.

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    I work in a VERY high contact/serious mileage club. I'm not an extras girl, but I'll confess that I've allowed the occasional nipple lick (maybe that does make me an extras girl). I definately clean it up at clubs with less contact and I've even done air dances at the dirty club. Why do I stay there? Even as the club "saint" I still make good money. I think the only reason why the owner of this club hasn't gotten busted is b/c he has a lot of clout with the local police (he's an ex cop). Plus, the undercover cops are always bringing their guns with them and so security knows they're a cop (gotta get past the metal detector), tells the owner, and the owner walks into the back and warns the girls. Plus, the girls at this club seem to have cop radar (I don't know how, I can never tell), so if they get a feeling while talking to him, they leave. Of course that's not always accurate, but these chicks are GOOD! Man, if those club walls could talk...

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    Since it was brought up, I have to ask.


    Is it normal/common for a dancer in the VIP to

    a) kiss the customer, with tongue,

    b) stick her tongue in his ear,

    or c) lick and bite his neck and earlobes?



    The reason I ask is that it happens to me often, at different clubs and with different girls,and I'm not sure why. I don't go looking for it and I don't initiate any sort of contact. I let the dancers do things their way.

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    not in any of the clubs i have worked at.

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    Find out your local laws and amend them. If "everyone" at your club is doing extras (nipple licking, kitty petting, etc) then it's time to find a new club. Chances are, that club is going to get busted. What's worse than getting caught doing extras is NOT doing extras and getting arrested and charged anyways just because you were there.
    Welcome to 'Stripping 2005' ...

    Once upon a time 'extras' were considered to be legal interactions between dancers and customers, but interactions that were more 'up close and personal' than the interactions normally provided by other girls in the same club. But in many of todays clubs, normal levels of interaction between dancers and customers are illegal by the letter of the law, and 'extras' i.e. interactions between dancers and customers which go beyond what's normally available are clearly illegal.

    As to what sort of interactions club policies will 'allow' today, if it's making money for the club and if the dancer will be busted if caught but the club won't also be busted, then it probably isn't against club policy. In many clubs today, club policy expects/encourages levels of interaction which are technically illegal - and many clubowners look upon dancers who attempt to operate within the letter of the law as 'poor producers'.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hef
    Is it normal/common for a dancer in the VIP to
    a) kiss the customer, with tongue,
    b) stick her tongue in his ear,
    or c) lick and bite his neck and earlobes?
    Ew. No way. I work in a very high contact, high mileage club but I've never seen a girl doing that. You can tell I REALLY like you if I give you a peck on the cheek or bump my nose against yours, but that's as far as I go. I wouldn't be comfortable with any of the above at all; that crosses the line into prostitution as far as I'm concerned.

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    C isn't terribly common at my club, but there are some dancers who do it. B I've seen, too. A only happened once with a very drunk dancer. It wasn't hot.

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    Yekhefah, would things be different if you did not have a boyfriend...and you REALLY LIKED a guy you were dancing with?

    I myself have only experienced this in the non-brothel clubs once. And it was great! The dances always lead to outright making out including all of the stuff included in the list above and even more on occassion. I think that the club experience is different for everyone and your experience with one girl may not be the one some other guy experiences.

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    It's happened in a number of clubs, in different cities, some nice (some not), with a wide variety of women. There isn't a certain type of club or dancer that it usually happens with. One time it ended up being sex in the VIP, which turned into a fling with the dancer for a few weeks. That was the only time it went that far.

    I'm just wondering if this shit is normal.

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    Hef: I asked the same question after one make out session...the answer was that no it is not normal, particularly in more upscale clubs.

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    Letting a custy lick your nipple isn't part of the entertainment you should be providing. IMHO
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hef
    Since it was brought up, I have to ask.





    Is it normal/common for a dancer in the VIP to



    a) kiss the customer, with tongue,



    b) stick her tongue in his ear,



    or c) lick and bite his neck and earlobes?







    The reason I ask is that it happens to me often, at different clubs and with different girls,and I'm not sure why. I don't go looking for it and I don't initiate any sort of contact. I let the dancers do things their way.


    FWIW, I get ear an neck play with nearly every dance I receive, but I'm a girl.

    As for the kissing, yick. How do you let that happen once, much less "often"? You should back off, regardless of who started it. Three words: Herpes, Simplex, One.

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    This is definitely an extra.Any kind of direct mouth/skin contact and some other types of contacts would be an extra.It doesn't matter how much somebody likes someone,it is a job and you have to be professional.

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    Damn, whats up with my club? Its the only one I've ever worked at so I don't have any others to compare it to. I'd say about 25% of the girls I work with make out with customers during vip and I also get a lot of customers that try to get me to kiss them. I usually just respond with a little peck on the cheek which usually gets the message across thats its not going to happen.

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    Quote Originally Posted by desertdoll
    FWIW, I get ear an neck play with nearly every dance I receive, but I'm a girl.

    As for the kissing, yick. How do you let that happen once, much less "often"?
    In the past year I've gone from being unattractive to (as I'm told) "very attractive" or "hot". Before that I didn't get a whole lot of attention from women, much less the 8's, 9's, and 10's. I guess I'm making up for lost time? It's nice to feel wanted by women who are wanted.

    You should back off, regardless of who started it. Three words: Herpes, Simplex, One.
    That's a really good point. I never even thought of that. Ewwwwwww.

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    I will kiss a custy's cheek if he is 1.) clean 2.) not smelly 3.) very nice 4.) spending lots of money on me. I give a lot of "air kisses" to custys' cheeks though. Also, while lap dancing, I usually blow in the custy's ear a little, and occasionally I'll tug on their earring with my lips if they have a hoop or lightly brush my lips on their earlobe (but the same rules apply as for cheek kisses). I never lick them anywhere, or allow them to lick me anywhere. I find licking gross even with someone my boyfriend. lol.
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