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    Well, here's my story! The first night i went in and was pretty nervous, i knew i didn't have to be, but i was worried i'd not do well. There was really no one at the club, weekdays are bad like that! So i learned a little bit by watching the girls and about near the end of the night i started feeling like i wanted to leave and never come back. I don't even know why! It wasn't that i felt degraded or anything, I guess i was just having a hard time getting used to the fact that i'm going to have to work for this and learn some stuff! I did get one dance my first night, a man wanted to feel me out i guess! THANK GOODNESS! It really gave me a lot of confidence, he asked for me personally and we had a good chat afterwards. He even told me some tips too!
    I came home a bit confused, i didn't know what i really wanted, I couldn't tell if this was worth it and was so anxious about us not having enough money! Not to mention I found out I SUCK lol! It wasn't so bad, i made some good "friends".

    My second night rocked! I did really well and made bank, for a weekday that is. I can't remember how many dances i did and I've really enjoyed giving them as well as talking with the men. Although some don't talk back to much lol! I made about 100 tonight and that's good for where i work on a weekday. I even felt more at ease on stage and tried to do some new things!

    So for all those newbie's out there, don't get discouraged and quit after your first night! Feel it out and give yourself time to learn! Most of all have a good time, smile, guys like a girl who's having fun on stage!
    "When life gets rough turn up the music and dance a little"

    I Train Mixed Martial Arts!

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    Good job ferra!! Its scarey as hell eh? I know my first day I was like 'why am I doing this?' I wanted to leave and never look back. My second night was kind of the same but my third night I felt good about myself. I did 3 stage shows and did well with them I had one guy pay me over $100 to just sit and talk.. since the club was dead and there was no money I did just that. He gave me a massage and got a couple of dances. It gets so much better as time goes on. Keep up the great stuff.. and your right guys love girls who can have fun with what they are doing and dont take it to serious. Every custy has told me that they love a girl that can 'keep it real'

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    Congrats! I am so scared to make the leap and just do it for fear that I might hate it, but it's something I've always been facsinated by, and I have always been curious to do it so I owe it to myself to at least give it a try. I admire your courage! Hopefully things will keep getting better and I think there really is no reason to feel ashamed. The only way I would ever feel ashamed is if I ever did "extras," which I would never be able to do anway. Thank you for sharing your story about your 1st two nights- they were very encouraging to me. I'll try to remember to share my 1st experiences but I feel like I need to practice more (stupid me I just realized I'll be dancing in spiked platform heels not barefoot).

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    littletassle....I think that you should definetly go for it! Don't wait to long, because you will learn more and faster when you are at the club! The girls are usually fairly nice and will help you out by showing you things when they can! Also, my club allowed me to dance in my boots which only have a 4in heel for now! It's nice that i can learn some skills before trying to balance in my shoes lol! Next week i'm going to wear my crazy shoes though! And i'd opt for wider chunky heels than the spiked ones at first for balance purposes!
    Also, go in early and ask someone to teach you how to spin around the pole a bit, a walking spin, nothing fancy! It will get you through! Good luck and get your butt out there!
    "When life gets rough turn up the music and dance a little"

    I Train Mixed Martial Arts!

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    Lol you're so funny! Thanks for all your words of encouragement. Instead of being chicken and doing it in 1 month I plan on getting my sheriff's card and business liscence and auditioning THIS month. I'm trying to think of ways to exude confidence when I go to audition. So seriously come kick my ass if I still haven't gotten to work by the end of this month! I'm so sore from working out right now I couldn't possibly work yet. 36-25.5-36... trying to get down to 110 lbs (6 more lbs to go) and lose another inch on my waist and maybe I should get some boots, because my clear heels are scary! I never thought about boots .

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    Get the tall boots they have a platform toe but the heel is usually a bit thicker then the clear shoes... Silly me bought clear shoes with spikey heels... im still a bit wobbley in them but i manage to play it off fairly good. If I feel my ankles give I let myself go to the floor and do stuff then get up and do a pole trick.. Dont be scared... just go in and give it your best, as I said before guys like the girls that 'keep it real' Good luck

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    Littletassle...I don't think you'll have any problems with your weight or your body type! Trust me, i'm chunky lol, i'm a 36 28 38 and 122 lbs right now. I have a cottege cheese ass lol but i averaged $30 an hour last night! Guys like girls with a little meat on their bones! Don't worry so much about that, you'll loose it in a few weeks at the club anyways, it's pretty rigorous but a hell of a lot of fun! It's easier to loose weight when you're enjoying yourself and making money! And yea, boots are the way to go! I wore my heels last night, almost killed myself lol! I think i killed my ankle, but i never did actually fall! YEA!
    And check out k-mart or wal-mart for some cute outfits! They have things pretty cheap, like booty shorts and lace panties! Good luck! Also see if you can audition before getting your sheriff's card too, that way you don't have to spend the money if you don't get hired. Talk to the manager and see what they say!
    "When life gets rough turn up the music and dance a little"

    I Train Mixed Martial Arts!

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