It seems that most strippers will never date a customer, so how do most dancers get into relationships?
It seems that most strippers will never date a customer, so how do most dancers get into relationships?
The same way most other people do who have an employee fraternization policy at work, I would think.
He who fights with monsters might take care lest he thereby become a monster. And if you gaze for long into an abyss, the abyss gazes also into you. ~ Friedrich Nietzsche




my friends met my boyfriend and thought we would be a good match, so he came to work to meet me...and we've been together ever since![]()
but my friends all either met their boyfriends at work or at a bar when we had girls nite.
There's a wild side behind every innocent face.
End violence against women.
I support Dottie.
for the most part anywhere other than work! like any other normal girl.
Sorry- I guess its just hard to imagine dancers meeting guys at bars esp when they spend 40 hrs a week working at bars. Plus arent most dancers working when typical bars are most crowded?Originally Posted by velvet
Do a lot of dancers meet guys through friends? Also do most dancers have many dancer friends?





why are you asking?
40 hours? I don't know a single stripper that works 40 hours. 10-20 is pretty typical and many are going to afterhour clubs. We don't work every night!Originally Posted by fiddle245
I'm on match.com. I've met guys at the gym. I met a guy at a red light. I have met them on cruise ships. I have met them at the dog park. Yes, I have met them through friends. I have a dancer friend. I think most dancers have 1 or 2 dancer friends. We work together...it's bound to happen!
I'm sounding too normal. I better stop.

because he wants to date a dancer and hes too scared to stop beating around the bush... next thing u know hell b quoting mysterys book and talking about the how to date a stripper boot camp!!





yeah, i noticed the only posts from him revolve around the chances of dancers dating customers (i.e., him).
Then let's put him out of his misery. The official chances of dating a stripper you've met at her club while she's at work are exactly like winning the lotto. People keep playing because some lucky dog's got to win it, but chances are that it won't ever be you. If you really want to date a stripper, find a pretty gal in the grocery store with a fresh manicure and a boob job and ask her if the price of produce has gone insane or what. It improves your odds tremendously.
He who fights with monsters might take care lest he thereby become a monster. And if you gaze for long into an abyss, the abyss gazes also into you. ~ Friedrich Nietzsche
I know what she's asking...shit it's hard for me to meet someone i like. She's asking HOW DID U GUYS MEET YOUR BOYFRIENDS?????Originally Posted by miabella
Damn mods. I musta missed the whole part where he starts dating the stripper.Originally Posted by Lilith
oh yeah, I met my boyfriend in the VIP room....during the 2nd hour I jsut knew it was meant to be
I am married, so I don't ever date anyone besides my hubby. So on the meeting guys to date issue? Besides, I would never have a guy that would date strippers anyway. I was like that when I was single, and if I was dating again now nothing would change. There are a few guys out there that ALWAYS date strippers, and I reccommend dancers avoid them like the plauge.Originally Posted by fiddle245
I have one or two dancer friends, but most of my friends are not involved in the night club industry at all.
Oh, I am very hung up on looks. A lot of dancers are like that. If you don't have the right look as well as the right personality and the right bank account, forget it. You'll never land a dancer as a girlfriend.
Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!




....stant, good one....LOL.
"Peter, did you take Stewie to a strip-club? He smells like sweat and fear." - Lois and Stewie (Family Guy) ... "Through early morning fog I see, Visions of the things to be, The pains that are withheld for me, I realize and I can see..."
So far, everyone has short circuited the question.
And avoided giving a direct answer.
Ok, I will follow establishe procedure.
First, I have never liked the any of the people I have worked
with in the SC's. I get along with them, but that is part of my job.
Date those people, out of the question.
I met my friends, ok, call them fuck buddies, whatever through
other activities.
College classes, prep rallies, volunteer work, ship cruises, church, etc.
Any where people get together to talk.
Hey, I talk to anybody, but I, also am hung up looks and personality.
More towards personality.
Think this is unjust?
No, every guy that walks into the SC is looking for a Goddess,
and will spend money on you if you have the right looks and personality.
Not if I looked like Herman Munster.
I met my man at a party... way before I strated dancing...
I would never date a guy I met at work.
I have friends that are dancers... well we just party outside work once n awhile.. we hang out together at work and hustle together... But we never share any personal stuff.


I met mine before I started dancing which was almost 2 years ago.
An ex of mine introduced us.
All over the place! The guy I'm seeing currently though I met in Yahoos "Punk Ska and Thrash" chat room, lol!





I met my boyfriend at work.
One of woman's cardinal rule: Body parts can be fake,everything else has to be real.
一个女人的枢机规则:肢体可以伪造,一切必须真实.
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Through friends.
Through internet.
At concerts (perferably backstage with the hottest member of the band).
At parties.
My current prospect is the best friend of my business partner's younger brother, so that's a mouthful. The other prospect is from MySpace but we have yet to meet.
"Have you ever been to American wedding? Where is the vodka, where's marinated herring?" - GB
"And do the cats give a shit? No, they do not. Why? Because they're cats."-from The Onion
Originally Posted by Mia M
That pretty much hits the nail on the head!Originally Posted by Lilith
I met my boyfriend at a nightclub. He's a DJ, I was there every week, and eventually we just got to know each other through other people and yeah, that's how it happened!
I meet guys out w/ my friends, and I have dated guys from the SC. The thing about meeting a guy at work is that you dont have to tell them you r a dancer they already know. I have met guys on the interent, my friends set me up, and whatever. I have dancer friends. I am good friends w/ one of them, mostly we just party together. I am not really @ the club too much to really get invovled w/ anyone there.
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