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    I guess the honeymoon period is over. I have been dancing a month and the crazy bipolar strippers have come out. The first girl to ever be friendly to me and even brought me some old clothes of hers to have totally made a cuthroat move today. She talked a customer out of having me included in a bachlore party dance AFTER it was already agreed with the party that I would indeed be dancing for him.. She was also super sketchy and ultra catty with me while we sitting with the men. She seems intimidated by me, a lot like third grade BS.
    I need a little encouragement and advice. I know, I need to talk to management, but the manager that day totally saw what went down, and I discussed it with him, and his attitude was "let it go, its OK". Forget that. I don't want to make the situation more heated by talking to management, because they will in turn, talk to the sketchy girl, which will, in turn, perhaps make my life even more crazy. I think I will let this go, ignore her, be pleasant to her, and let management know if it happens again. What is with that psycho stripper mentality sh*t?
    What would you do?
    K8T

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    confront her in a polite way.

    if you let peopel walk on you, they will continue to do it.

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    This is the exact reason why I don't interact with other dancers.Most of them are too flaky and too much of a risk.I look at going to work like being in jail;mind your own business,make your money and get the f*ck outta there.
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    Yep.. what OTB said.

    But since your in hot water now, I would confront her in a polite fashion. Most bullies will deflate if they know your onto them. If she continues, let management deal with it.

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    This is why I work alone! I don't like to sit at tables where there are other girls working customers. For the most part, they can find a way to fuck up a wet dream!

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    Stay away from her! Work by yourself, you have learned a lesson, remember we r all competing against each other. She helped u at first b/c u were new, but now that you gained some expereince she probably feels threatened by you for her own psycho reasons. Try just to stay away from the girls, just keep your relationships w/ dancers very casual.

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    Honestly, take this as lesson learned. It's never worth confronting girls, I say this after five years of dancing....if you feel that someone is fucking up your money, simply get up and leave that table. There are tweny other tables in the club; you might as well be at another one. Now, that being said, if this girl continues to fuck up your money night after night, you need to address it with the manger. But if it's a one time thing, let it go.

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    Thank all of you for your input. I don't know what I would do without this support network! I feel much better now!
    You all Rock!
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    hope things get better for u, but most likely they will still talk shite. I just started at a new club and on my second day I had girls talking about me...I don't care, I've learned my lesson just brush it off. Someone very smart once said to me "if someone hates you for no reason, you're doing something right." Very smart girl right there!

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    I'm with "onlythebest" here, never trust a dancer (ironic, I know). When I first starting dancing at this club, this girl brought me some old clothes too, but then she turned out to be such a bitch. Be friendly, make jokes, get your money, and that's it.
    I know there's a lot of dancers that are good friends btw them, but that's not my case. I keep my friends outside the club.
    Still, I think you should confront her, in a nice way, she what she has to say for herself, and take it from there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sunkissedbeachbunni
    Someone very smart once said to me "if someone hates you for no reason, you're doing something right." Very smart girl right there!

    lol I like that, it's sooo true!

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    Your always going to run into people who are like this, and there's really nothing you can do about it.......the best thing to do is let it go and don't worry about it,Don't waist your time or energy or efforts. Just move along and do your job and don't get involed with people like that.Don't respond to her or say anything and as far as management, i wouldn't even mention it to them because they can't really do anything about it and you would just be waisting your time with all that.So be a professional and carry on and don't let the things some people do bother you....rise above it and move on.

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    Let it go. It's hard, I know. But it is the nature of the business and there is nothing you can do to change it. The best thing you can do is not let it get to you.

    One of these days, you will "steal" someone else's sale and think nothing of it. No one owes anyone anything. It's not wrong. It just is.

    If a dancer begins hustling a customer while you are right there, see if she'll leave after a hint. If she doesn't, thank the customer for his time and leave. That's right: Walk away. She torpedoed your sale and you can't save it. The odds of her making the sale are ZERO because the customer sees her as tacky and will wonder what is wrong with her since you walked away. Everyone loses in this situation, you, the other dancer, and the customer. I have no idea why girls pull this sh*t.

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    sounds like a little jealousy issue... that is the girl who screwed you... god there are just so many shady people in this business... its hard to really trust people.... i had a similar experience with a girl at the club i worked at.. she seemed so nice and trustworthy and helpful, but then when i started getting lots more attention at work than her, she quickly distanced herself from me. i have met maybe two girls in this business who i thought were true genuine girls... always watch your back and be weary of girls that come off as super nice when you first begin dancing, or even at a brand new club u start working at.... often times there are other motives behind their kindness to you.

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    I agree with what some of the other girls said, just go to work, do your job, and go home. You are not there to make friends. I would let what she did slide this one time, but if it happens again confront her. And I would also make a point of not talking to her and ignoring her so she knows you know and are not happy with what she did.

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