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    Is there a non-offensive way to tell a dancer what sort of dance I am looking for before I get it? To be clear, I am talking about the style of dance. This is not a "how to bargain for extras" question.

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    i have a few customers that tell me exactly what they like every time, like stand up turn around, i am sure they are oc though

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    Sometimes I will have guys say "can you turn this way?" or want me to face them only and say "I like you here." I have a set dance I do the first dance, and then if they get another I do mostly what they seemed to like best from the first dance. I am more than happy to fill any requests as long as they don't break the rules. Jenna

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    I would suggest you let her do her dance the way she wants for the first one. I have had many custies who had their Standard dance they wanted, be absoutely blown away by the dance I give when left to my own devices. After that, then you can make your request, unless you want your girl to keep doing things her way.

    As to HOW to ask, JZ hit it on the head.


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    Okay, I wouldn't be offended, but you do need to make clear what you are offering monetarily in return for the dance you want.

    Like, for instance, if a customer said, " I just want to cuddle with you instead of getting a dance," I wouldn't know if he meant he wanted me to sit on my lap and he would pay me, or if he wanted to cuddle "for free."

    A good way to phrase this is to say, "The kind of dance I like is.......can you do that, and I will pay you X amount of dollars for a song, for 15 minutes, for an hour...etc*

    The best way to handle it if you really want something specific is to go to the VIP room. It costs more, and most girls will go more out of their way to give you the kind of dance you want.

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    If you are wanting a girl to just sit and talk with you, but still pay her by song, then just tell her.

    The same goes for foot rubs, massage or other atypical dances.

    If you are wanting a little more fetish style, you might ask around with the bartender first on girls that would be game for that. When you find the girl, then camly and nicely make your request. Or you could ask her about her fantasys, then slip yours in, and ask if she would be willing to do that.
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    Just ask nicely, up front. I've had guys ask for things as simple as 'just keep facing me please' to 'please accidentally step on these crickets on the floor while you dance' and all manner of things in between. If you ask her nicely for what you want, chances are she'll happily oblige - either for the change of pace or more money if that's part of the deal. Most girls are willing to make some adjustments for gentlemen.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Totoro
    Is there a non-offensive way to tell a dancer what sort of dance I am looking for before I get it? To be clear, I am talking about the style of dance. This is not a "how to bargain for extras" question.
    I'm sorry but I'm sitting here imagineing the customer asking the dancer to "tango" or "break dance" or something. LOL

    I frequently have had requests for being slow in removing my clothes, leaving my panties on, cuddling, and "yeah baby, spread it for me, show me that pink pussy!" All of which is pretty normal in the club enviroment.

    If you think the question might be offensive, then it probably is. Some dancers are open to fetishes, and others are not. Just test the waters before you agree to buy the dance by asking her something simple like: "So do you ever get guys wanting foot fetish attention from you?" her answer will tell you exactly what you are looking for.


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    Whatever you request I doubt she will do much different than the way she performs on stage. Most girls aren't very versatile. They just keep repeating the same routine over and over again.

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    The suggestion about taking "special" dances to the VIP is excellent.

    While I have no problem tailoring my dance to a customer's needs, it can be a little embarrassing to sit in a full couch room as some dude licks the bottoms of your stilettos clean while grunting loudly. The same goes for guys who want dirty-talk, a private non-contact show that they direct, kicking/spitting/degradation type stuff, etc. It's a lot easier to do this stuff in a way that satisfies the customer when you're in a more private setting, and guaranteed a certain amount of money.

    However, if you're just talking about a "light" dance vs. a "hard" one, it doesn't seem like you should have problems getting a dancer to accomodate you.
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    My experience so far is that it's unusual to get a really good dance first time out. My current rule of thumb is that it's going to cost me 3 dances to get in sync with a girl and have a good time (I like to think of it as an investment)... I'm not talking about sex or 'extras', just getting a girls better dance.

    In any event, isn't SC'ing a great hobby!! - I usually have a good time even when I don't get what I want!

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