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    What's acceptable in a male strip show?

    I am just starting out performing small shows in private houses - I've only done two strips so far. A lady friend is organising the venues and audience - seems to be always older mature women!! All I have to do is turn up at the house and perform.

    It's really left open to me to decide what I do, how I perform. They seem to want me there all evening - at least three hours. So I have a lot of time to fill and no real guidance of how or what to do.

    Any guidance on what is expected of male strippers in these type of circumstances - how far I should go without crossing the limit etc.. would be very useful. I don't want to offend the ladies but also I want to be as daring, exciting and entertaining as possible for them.


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    Default Re: What's acceptable in a male strip show?

    Have they paid you to be there for so damn long? The only time I am at show/booking that long is when I am waitressing (lingere/topless/nude) not shows. With shows you go in, do your show and if they are tipping keep performing until you feel there is no more money left in the crowd.

    When there is no more money left in the crowd then just end it. They will get over that the show has ended and still be satisfied. A 3 hour long show? Man you must be real exhausted after them!

    (The only 3 hr long male shows are the "male revue" kind ie Manpower)


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    Being that you're striking out on your own it's up to you what limits you put your routine. I hope you break from the traditional conventional image of a male stripper ie. Macho all brawn, no brain jock who does one pose in their cock ring then down to the dry hump. Hopefully you will be more imaginative than that.

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    I am not getting paid a huge amount to perform as there are only half a dozen ladies there, they each pay their part of the fee. I guess I just accepted being there for the 3 hours or so as it was arranged as a stripper night with just me. It was clear they all wanted me to stay all evening and as I was their reason they were there I accepted that.

    I think i would be difficult to shorten my act now and I dont mind staying the whole evening. I am not dancing/performing the whole time. Last time I had 3 breaks during the night, and sat with them chatting and having a drink with them all.

    I was stripped bare in the first session and they had me stay naked for the rest of the time there, so the other sessions were more erotic performances than strips I suppose.It would have felt odd pulling my g-string on again anyway. I actually felt very free and liberated performing naked and it seemed to go well.

    I agree that it probably isnt much of a turn on for the ladies to put on a limited macho act. I have tried to be a lot more varied. I try and be interactive and reactive with them all to get them involved, with more sexy seduction I hope!! Being with them during the "breaks" helps I think, cos they can talk and get to know me a bit - as I try and flirt with them !

    It certainly makes the atmosphere more intimate and thats why I want to be clear about my limits, the ladies seem to want me to be as daring as I can be which I find an exciting challenge !!

    You can tell I am really getting into this stripping...lol !!

    David

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    It sounds like you have a good thing going. I really wouldn't change much . At this point I think you should work on building rapore with your clients. How did you manage to get started in the first place? How are your services advertised?

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    Just curious but where did you meet this lady friend and how did she come up with the great idea for you to come over to her house and get naked for her and her friends, and for not a lot of money. What exactly are you doing for three hours? How old is your "promoter"? Are you just sitting around naked? Are you getting them off? Are you getting off? Again I am really just curious as I too have some younger hot girl friends that I too would love to see naked and would love to know how the proposition went.

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    I got started only after continued prompting from an old friend, Margaret. She runs the office in an appartment complex I used to live in. A while ago a cleaner came into my appartment and caught me naked !! Margaret heard and started joking about me doing some strips for her and her friends. After I moved I carried on popping into her office for chats and she kept up with the stripping idea. I said noone else would be interested and she actually contacted some of her friends and got a group of 6. By now she was real serious about her idea and I couldnt back out !!

    Thats how I got started just 2 weeks ago. As yet I havent advertised and only have 6 ladies to strip for - but they already have told their friends about me and it seems like there are quite a few more ladies who are interested !!! (Good for my ego - my act must be OK). Margaret says I use her house once a week to strip, and another lady, Carol, said I can use hers once a week as well - so I am looking at doing 2 private strips a week for small groups.

    As Ive said all the ladies are more "mature" - from late 40's to 50's, Margaret is 51. They are pretty much all seperated or divorced and seem to really appreciate having a younger guy performing naked for them !! They are all very lovely and friendly ladies - good fun and also very cheeky and demanding !

    As its such a small group and I am with them so long, its been easy to develope a good rapore with them together and individually. As to "getting them off" - I try to be flirtyand as sexy as possible so hope I turn them on - they do have me naked virtually the whole time and I am not just sitting around..I do dances/poses, lapdances, individual slowdances with them. I try to be interactive and they use babyoil and whipped cream on me so I certainly get off on it - I think its important they see me getting into the show being aroused and excited. Hope thats OK ?? I have my next show tomorrow and am so looking forward to it !!

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    My main concern at this point is that you may not be receiving the $$ that you deserve for your services. Do not let her 'friendship' with you mean that she can take advantage of you financially. You are the one performing and what-not so you should be dutifully compensated.

    Just that I personally would be charging $200 for the nude show and then $135 per hour for nude waitressing (waitressing doesn't actually mean waitressing per say it can mean just being a naked hostess of a party).

    Look in your telephone directory and contact any stripper agencies. Even the ones that have female strippers do have male strippers "on their books"... find out what the general prices for a full nude show and nude waiter-ing... and charge appropriately.


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    Thanks for the price guide. I have just done my thirdshow - there were 6 ladiesthere and they each put in 20 pounds so I got 120 pounds - which is just over $200. i got there at 8.30 and didnt leave till after midnight....so it doesnt work out as a very high hourly rate.

    But I do seem to be enjoying each show more and more...I was more relaxed and really went for it..so everyone had a good time. -and I found all their attention focussed on my naked body extremely "stimulating" - maybe unprofessional but its just a small group.

    I know what you mean about her being a friend - but now I am going to strip in another ladies house for her friends as well so it will be different - tho i did agree the same fee structure - maybe ishould ake on a bigger group there to earn more?

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    Do not take on a bigger group - just charge more. If they ask why are charging more tell them the truth: you are charging what agencies that service the area are charging. You really need to "grow some balls" (in a nice way I say this) by not letting them "whore" you for so damn long! Now that you have some experience you should not be allowing them to get you for cheap.

    I am just really concerned that you are letting yourself down. You are worth more and hence charge it. The market will bear it.

    Work for some agencies if you have to get used to doing shorter shows.


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    Default Re: What's acceptable in a male strip show?

    Thanks for that useful advice..i do realise that my hourly rate works out to be quite low. I have actually now started stripping at another ladies house..I am doing 2 strips a week, 1at each house..for different groups of ladies..the groups have stayed at around 6. I did mention to Margaret that I was performing relatively long shows and she discussed it with the ladies..rather than shortening the show they ar now giving me more - 25 pounds each.

    I think as I am such an amateur iwill be getting quite good money each week from the 2 shows. As I said before I dont mind performing over the 3 hours..I find it challenging - keeps me fit and builds my stamina...lol..and the ladiesdo seem appreciative


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    Default Re: What's acceptable in a male strip show?

    david you seem to be in a very similar position to myself, I do strip shows for private parties, hen nights etc. I spend a few hours there too, I'm not really in it for the money as I have a regular job and stripping isn't particuarly regular. It's good you interact, I like to do that too, more fun for them and more fun for me too. I normally, of course end up naked but if for example I do 3 shows for them through out the evening, i usually wait until the 2nd one to get naked. I find it gets them gagging for me that little bit more

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