I've heard it before from dancers I've been with, but I'm curious as to the dancers' perspective. If you've said it to a guy before, especially one you met in the club, what motivated you?



I've heard it before from dancers I've been with, but I'm curious as to the dancers' perspective. If you've said it to a guy before, especially one you met in the club, what motivated you?




That's not a common quote from a dancer. Did she have amnesia and forgot what she was working for?
thats called hustling, and maybe putting on the cute innocent stripper persona. The girls who said it were motivated by money. Most guys don't like it when strippers just come up to them and make it obvious they want their money. You have to sugar coat it, make it seem like you really want to please the guy, but what it all comes down to is cold hard cash


I have had this from ONE girl. It was sincere and we became friends. I missed the dances but we were able to form a relationship....one that was more real and healthy. So yes it happen. But rare.
Happened to me once in Toronto, at a club whose name escapes me, but it's down the street from the highest court in Canada.
She was Eastern European of some kind, smoking hot, and wouldn't let me buy any dances from her. I hesitated since that had never happened to me before...
Idealism is fine, but as it approaches reality, the costs become prohibitive.
William F. Buckley, Jr.
I have said something similar to a guy when I was dating him (I worked nights and he worked days, so he liked coming into the club to see me; otherwise we would only see each other occasionally). Of course, that was also one reason I hated him coming into the club - didn't like taking his money, but didn't like not making it either. If she is just a strange dancer she is either weird or dumb. Or maybe you're a really cool guy and she's completely normal.
I have taught that the sky in all its zones is mortal and its substance was formed by a process of birth
I have only said it once, to a custy who was going through a difficult financial period. He had been one of my biggest tippers (100$ on stage) for several months, and then his business failed. I even bought him a couple of drinks and said in a nice way, if you can't afford to heat your home then you can't afford to be here.
I've said this and meant it too.
In one circumstance, I had become good friends with my regular, we went out probably like ten times to the bars and stuff (NOT on a "date", just so you know), and I wish that we hadn't because then I felt uncomfortable taking his money at work. And he turned out not to be the nicest guy in the world, either, so I wish I would have just kept him as a customer.
I've also said this when I've had a regular customer get a little "too" into me. He was creeping me out, and I just didn't want him coming to see me anymore. (not saying this is why the girl said it to you, this is just why I said it one time)
I'd wonder if she thought I was stinky.





It's only happened to me twice and in both cases it was because an OTC friendship was forming with a long-time fav. and it was starting to feel wierd inside the club. One of these ladies is now retired, the other still dances but I don't go to the club to watch her dance.
IN ANY OTHER CASE you are probably being worked.

Okay...she didn't *want* to, but did she actually take it?Originally Posted by Hef
If she dont want to take it, bro, she already Got Every Dolla. GED
Heh... I think I've got an interesting answer to this.
I said it to one of my custy's the other night (I'm very new, it was my first night). BUT I said it 'cause he gave me $180 for 4 ld's. So, a $100 tip (although I guess you could look at it as a tip for me spending 1/2 the night with him and talking). I did like the guy; he was very nice, and will probably be a regular.
Did I mean it? Yes. Did I take it anway? Yes, but he already pegged me as a girl who would have trouble taking a lot of money from a guy, and wasn't going to let me NOT take it.
I tend to have trouble with guys (in real life, anyway) spending lots of money on me. So maybe I'm just screwed up all around.
It is fine to be a gold digger in the club, just not one outside the club.Originally Posted by blonddarlin
I had it said, but it was because we were friends outside the club and she wasn't the type to really like hustling friends.

I was at a club once where I tried to stage tip a dancer a couple bucks, and she refused (and not just from me, but from all the guys). I asked her why she refused the money afterwards, and she basically said that when she's on stage, she up there because she just likes to dance. I actually think this was a pretty good marketing tool, seeing as I promptly bought a bunch of dances from her afterward, and she probably only gave up about $5 to $10 in stage tips total.
THe surpreme court of Canada is located in Ottawa, not Toronto. Old city hall houses the city courts and its located on Queen Street in Toronto. There is a strip club called jilly's about a 15 min street car ride away. There is a club called Filmores that is located beside what used to be the RCMP building (now a hotel). There are two other strip clubs up on Yonge street called Zanzibar and Brass Rail. Perhaps it was one of these clubs.Originally Posted by Casual Observer
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It's happened (dont want your money) and I've ended up dating a few of those girls. None of them lasted that long. It was all about going out, having some fun and enjoying good sex with them.
"If A = success, then A=X+Y+Z. X is work. Y is play. Z is keep your mouth shut." Albert Einstein
I have turned down money before, but because I felt it wasn't worth the hassle. A customer offered to pay for my implants, and I could just tell that if I accepted the money, I would have a problem on my hands.
I have turned down lap dances before, too. I won't dance for everyone. Sure, I might not be the richest chick in the joint, but I am by far the lowest drama dancer. I also have to think of my longevity in this business. I will not dance for abusive customers. I dance about 18 shifts a month, and if I have to put up with abuse, I will go crazy in a very short time.
I guess the short answer is that not everything is about money. There are many more important things in life.
Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!




I turned down dances because I felt sorry for the guys.
The one time I said this to a man that I met through work and MEANT it, it was because I fell in love with him. But he ended up grinding my heart into hamburger.
So I don't love anyone anymore unless they're a face on US currency. LOL
I think it was Brass Rail. Been a while...There are two other strip clubs up on Yonge street called Zanzibar and Brass Rail. Perhaps it was one of these clubs.
Idealism is fine, but as it approaches reality, the costs become prohibitive.
William F. Buckley, Jr.



I had a great time at the Brass Rail. I blew $400 in under an hour, and I spent less than anyone else in our group. What a night!!
Ive been clubbing for close to 10 years and Ive never had a stripper say that to me. I imagine 99% of the time a line like that is just SS.
FBR
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.
I am sorry but I must chime in here....
If i say I don't want your money (while working) That UNDOUBTFULLY means that I like you otc!
I have only said that to one dude. (and later a mistake)
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