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    Angry I'm soooooooo pissed off..................HELP!!!

    Some of the immature customers at our club are playing this new STUPID game with the dancers & its driving us all crazy!!

    When we ask then for a private dance the respond by saying "Excuse me dont you know who I am?..................No?..................Then fuck off!!"

    or they say "yes" walk us to the front desk (to pay) then say "Na.........changed my mind"

    All these men are 20-35 yrs old & its happend 3 days in a row?

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    Holy cow, that is really really ridiculous! I'm sorry that's happening to you and your fellow dancers.
    I don't have any advice, but am here to show my support. Hopefully they stop doing that.
    Wow I'm disgusted at that.

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    What idiots! That would piss me off too.

    I would smile sweetly and say "That's all right. If you can't afford it, I understand."

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    Is this a group of friends or something? How is this type of conspiracy happening? How are all the guys doing this throughout the club on multiple nights? Might I suggest you tell the management that this is going on? I somehow think they may not take a liking to these idiots if they are causing problems in the club intentionally.

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    Until this blows over (and it will) I woul dtry hitting the older guys first, and keeping as busy as you can with them. Only if you completely run out of prospects, hit the younger guys. and try guys who are sitting alone first, not the ones in groups. My experience is that when nthey are in groups, that is when they act like they have something to proove.


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    This cant be all the guys,just a group that comes in for the last 3 days,right? IF its not,then I would make it as boring as I could with all the other dancers as i could,like when on stage just stand there or dance very little,and stuff like that. Go to managment too. This really sucks!

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    Quote Originally Posted by blondhottie
    What idiots! That would piss me off too.

    I would smile sweetly and say "That's all right. If you can't afford it, I understand."

    Nice come-back and very classy.
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    Quote Originally Posted by KittenCaboodle
    Some of the immature customers at our club are playing this new STUPID game with the dancers & its driving us all crazy!!

    When we ask then for a private dance the respond by saying "Excuse me dont you know who I am?..................No?..................Then fuck off!!"

    or they say "yes" walk us to the front desk (to pay) then say "Na.........changed my mind"

    All these men are 20-35 yrs old & its happend 3 days in a row?
    This is ridiculous,what the hell?It would drive anyone insane.Hopefully it's just some kind of a coincidence,and will go away.But this is another reason to stay away from the younger guys.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KittenCaboodle
    When we ask then for a private dance the respond by saying "Excuse me dont you know who I am?...."

    Good answer to this, courtesy of a club manager I know: "Why? Did you forget?"

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    I heard a good variation on that once...

    "Don't you know who I am?!"
    "No, sweetie, but you might have an ID in your pocket. That should help you remember."

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    Ugh. That's so impolite.
    Have you talked to the manager? They will sometimes be willing to to put a little smackdown on that - even if it's a simple - "Hey! All the dancers here are LADIES." I'd experiment with that.
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    This must be a new method from a how to 'date' strippers book.
    Quote Originally Posted by rusdancer
    But this is another reason to stay away from the younger guys.
    One more reason I'm the one who has to hustle to get dances...

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    Well, you can always make yourself a little card sign that says "I promise I'm not an asshole." Just prop it up on your table.
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    Could this be some kind of joke organized by some kind of local blog site?

    You might have some succes in difusing the hate by establishing with the customer by saying that "You look like a very nice person" or "It is nice to get some actual gentlemen in here".

    By making these comments, you have set up in his mind that you think highly of him. Reguardless of what he thinks of you, he now has an impression to live up to, and will behave better because of it. It is human nature to want to be liked and popular. Who knows, maybe they will come clean as to what is going on with their "not so nice" buddies.

    Too bad for those guys in the future. I don't think they understand how fast word travels amoungst strippers that some guy is an ass. Some girl is going to still be working in that club 5 years from now, and she'll tell all the new dancers to stay away from that guy, he is trying to mess with girls heads. He'll never be able to get a lap dance in that town again.


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    Oh, my. Men thinking they are clever. They must be getting nosebleeds from the novelty!

    "Do you know who I am!?!"
    "You must be the Birthday Boy. Come with me. We're going to beat the hell out of you onstage!"

    PS- This might be a variation of an old set-up trick that 2-3 male friends play on women in bars/ restaurants. Guys #1/#2 pick on woman and give her a hard time, giving Guy #3 a chance to come over, show his manliness by getting rid of Guys #1/#2, and zero in on picking up the woman. This trick was used in the beginning of the movie "Enough" where Slim's abusive husband "impresses" her by saving her from a rude custie (his friend setting up the scene).

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    This happend at one club I worked at. It was a group of guys that were friends with a couple of the strippers. The other strippers were trying to rule the roost so to speak and thought that if they had eanouph guys try to bust our balls, we'd go away. The fools, it back fired, and all the older gentlemen in the club took a real likeing to everyone but them, and I earned more in one night then I had earned in a mounth.
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    I am a smart ass. If a guy asked me dont you know who I am, i would have to say something like "are you that gay guy I have been hearing about??" Or remind him that he is a customer in a gentlemans club and is there for entertainment and if he doesnt like you that is fine, but ask who do you like andyou will get her for him. Usually they will buy the dance from me just for offering another girl and not pressuring him just to buy from me. There was one customer who used to come in and ask each girl who gave the best dances. If she answered in anyway that it was hersellf, he wouldnt buy a dance. He was looking for the answer it depends on what youlike.....

    Dont let them make you feel stupid, put them in their place. I do it all the time.

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    grrrrrrr that would piss me off 2 .. how immature .. seems too me these guys may be lacking in something else other then manners..

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    Wow. I'm sorry that this is going on in your club. I would be really upset if this were happening at my club, too.

    It has to be some wierd group of friends or something.

    Why would they do this? Obviously they "get off" on bellitling women.

    If I were you I would tell the manager what is happening. Sit down with him before your shift and let him know what's going on. He'll take it more seriously if you bring it up before you start your shift, that's always been my experience.

    If it happens again, say, "u know what? Maybe my manaager knows who you are. I'll be right back with him." Or, "Obviously you're upset about something here. Let me go get my manager."

    Go get your manager, and let him take care of the situation. I'm sure he won't be amused by it either.

    Good luck, sorry to hear about this bullshit that's going on at your club!

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    Quote Originally Posted by blondhottie
    What idiots! That would piss me off too.

    I would smile sweetly and say "That's all right. If you can't afford it, I understand."
    Perfect! Couldn't have said it better myself!
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    ???

    This makes no sense at all. Why on earth would any guy respond this way? I'll tell you this, it's planned, it's not coincidence . Men are retards when it comes to a pair of tits. I'm shocked that they can get past "don't you kno...."

    Ask them if they are gay.

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    ^^ good idea madcap. those types are always superinsecure. and for the record i think i just wasted 5 minutes reading the little paris/lindsey thing in your signature, and my boyfriend probably thinks im a nut for laughing at the computer lol

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    Wow, what the hell??
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    Quote Originally Posted by KittenCaboodle
    When we ask then for a private dance the respond by saying "Excuse me dont you know who I am?..................No?..................Then fuck off!!"
    Can you cry on cue? I usually can if I'm really stressed in the first place and tap into it. And that's exactly what I'd do once I caught on to the pattern of this. After getting a response like this, I'd start crying and sit down dejected, asking, "Why is everyone doing this to me? I don't understand. Are customers blacklisting me? I'm going to get fired at this rate..." I'd try to get him to confess what's going on, who's behind it, and make him feel like dog shit for participating.

    I'm not a big advocate of turning on the water works for just anything, but this is one circumstance that justifies it. I don't even know that I'd call it manipulative, so much as dropping your mask and showing how it feels. Okay, it is manipulative, but he's playing a game, so turnabout's fair play.

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    I gotta hear an update! Did you talk with the manager yet? Are they still coming in or what? Dont leave me dangling.

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