I have been on the depo shot for like 7 or 8 years. Sone if the girls at my club, also on depo for a long time, was having problems the other day. She was lactating like she was pregnate. She went to the doc and got some pill to dry her up. ALso, the nurse told me it can lead to osteoperosis. I have heard of a lot of problems. One of my biggest concerns with it is decreased libido. I know it is one of the side effects but it causes problems with my relationship. My hubby thinks it has nothing to do with the shot, just that the newness of the relationship has worn off after 4 years. I had the same problem with my last bf though. I NEVER want to have sex. It is also VERY difficult to achieve orgasm. I have tried mastubating but I cant even get my self wet let alone come. Has anyone else ever had this stuff? I am going to make an appointment with a gyno tommarow but I am scared. The last time I went to the doc, for constipation, he seriously made me feel violated. I left the office in tears. I know that sounds stupid but it just felt wrong. I am going to try and find a woman doc because i think a woman will understand my sex problems better than a man. Some of my gf's think that my head is getting in the way and I htink too much when having sex so I dont enjoy it as much as I should. I have tried everything, masturbation, toys, intercourse, girl on girl, oral sex for long periods of time, anal,,, nothing seems to do it for me. I have always been like this except when my relationship was new I had somewhat of a sex drive, but the actuall sex was always the same. If I do feel like i am getting close to orgasim, it just seems to go away. Its like there is build up and no release.
Is there something wrong with my kitty? DO you think it is broken?



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I believe you Dottie and you have my support 
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