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    How has being a stripper changed you?

    I am seriously considering stripping, I want to do it, but I want to know what I'm really getting into, and am very curious to ask all of you who are already working in the business:

    How has being a stripper changed you?

    Your attitude?
    Your confidence?
    Your strengths and weaknesses?
    What do you love the most?
    What do you regret or would do differently?
    How do you feel about yourself as a women now, as opposed to before you started?
    How has your view of men changed?
    Have your social behaviors/skills changed noticeably?
    How has your body changed?


    I'd LOVE to hear how you really feel about any of these questions!

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    my attitude is the same
    my confidence even better
    i regret nothing
    my view of men, well it just made me realize that i have a great guy who will stay by my side and love me, so i dont think about other guys
    honestly, i feel like it has changed my social behavior, i stay in a lot more, dont keep in contact as much with my friends, and watch more tv
    I 've lost about 8 pounds but I'm pretty much the same with my body except that my legs are a little more toned

    I think it has helped me to find out who I am, and what my style is. Because since I am dressing sexy all the time at work, I dont want to when I go out, so its helped me find a sexy but not revealing style that I am very happy with.

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    It definitely made me more confident. I feel it made me a lot wiser about men, talking to so many men week after week, its more than you usually would hang out with! You see how men have so many different opinions on whats hot and whats not, whats attractive.
    It definitely changed my body, in that I made enough money to get breast augmentation, nose job, and a little bit of other stuff. I lost weight, I work out now and I look like a completely different person. I didnt do it SO i could be a dancer, it just provided the finances, I wanted to do it for myself.
    The thing I loved most about it was when I was dancing to my favorite music, and I was really feeling it on the stage and it was like I was in my own wonderful world, cos I love music and dancing.
    The thing that was the worst, in Florida we would get arrested in put in jail for a night for wearing a thong!! On stage!! Not even a skimpy thong!
    And night after night getting hit on by guys, and hearing the same lines...'you could make time to go out with me if you wanted to...' It made my blood boil. I think it made me tougher in the real world.

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    It has made me more confident, my attitude is the same
    I love the $$, having fun, feeling sexy, made some cool friends
    I regret not taking a travel partener when I have traveled, b/c I got myself in a sticky situation. The club I was @ sucked, and I was in the middle of nowhere! lesson learned...I need to check into the clubs more throughly
    I feel the same about being a woman, I know I am a sexy woman, stripping has added confidence, and I feel sexy everyday, I try to bring some of the stripping feelings into my day job
    My view of men are the same, they think about sex 24/7. I now see how lonely some men really are. I have learned to approach men more than I normally would have, alot of them are really lookin for love, but in the wrong place
    My social habits haven't changed at all, nor has my body
    Some friends are receptive to the dancing and some are not
    I don't give a fuck, it is part of me now
    I know one thing for sure, I am soooooooooooooo glad I stumbled upon this website, stripperweb has been the place for me to turn, w/o it I probably never would have had the balls to dance, and I have an instant suopport system

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    Your attitude? A lot more wise, I think

    Your confidence? Other people are noticing how my confidence has shot up - I walk straighter, am sure of my body and my abilities, and how to deal with different types of people - mainly men

    Your strengths and weaknesses? strengths - see above, weaknesses - I still talk too much and say whatever is on my mind.

    What do you love the most? turning guys on and being adored is a big turn on for me - I often go to my boyfriend's after work and wake him up for sex. lol. He really likes the change in me since I started dancing.

    What do you regret or would do differently? not have such high expectations.

    How do you feel about yourself as a women now, as opposed to before you started? I feel sexier, more confident, and more attuned with my womanhood.

    How has your view of men changed? it hasn't much. I dance in part because I knew that I was an object of desire for older men (I was hit on so much by men in their mid 30s to late 40s that it made me feel like crap and nervous all the time) and that I had a market for my looks. If they're gonna stare and comment anyway, might as well get paid for it, right?

    Have your social behaviors/skills changed noticeably? I only dance on weekends, so all of my weekends are busy, thus killing my social life. But I think in general I've become more of a social person.

    How has your body changed? My waist and lower back got stronger, making me gain 2 inches there. My hips slimmed down, and my thighs and butt have toned up a bit. I went from 36-28-40 to 36-30-36. I look better than I did before, so I'm happy.

    Overall, I'm very glad I started dancing. I think it's been really good for me. Not to say I recommend it to every woman, but it was beneficial to my personality type. If you're not comfortable with showing your body off then it's going to be counter-productive, but I really enjoy doing it and it really has benefited me a lot.
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    Your attitude?
    I refuse to put up with much bullshit anymore. However, I have become a better listener.

    Your confidence?
    Confidence level has drastically increased. Having men tell you how beautiful you are all night long is nice.

    Your strengths and weaknesses?
    Strengths: I take better care of my body, I demand respect from people, my communications skills are much better, I have learned a lot.
    Weaknesses: No tolerance, once again, for bullshit. Sometimes I feel like a sexual object, I drink more, more anger

    What do you love the most?
    THE MONEY

    What do you regret or would do differently?
    I would save more of my money

    How do you feel about yourself as a women now, as opposed to before you started?
    Definately a stronger woman, a lot more introverted though

    How has your view of men changed?
    I appreciate my husband more

    Have your social behaviors/skills changed noticeably?
    Yes, I have more confidence when talking to people, however, if they fail to meet certain expectation levels I get inpatient

    How has your body changed? More toned, lost a few lbs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by candygrrl
    my attitude is the same
    my confidence even better
    i regret nothing
    my view of men, well it just made me realize that i have a great guy who will stay by my side and love me, so i dont think about other guys
    honestly, i feel like it has changed my social behavior, i stay in a lot more, dont keep in contact as much with my friends, and watch more tv
    I 've lost about 8 pounds but I'm pretty much the same with my body except that my legs are a little more toned

    I think it has helped me to find out who I am, and what my style is. Because since I am dressing sexy all the time at work, I dont want to when I go out, so its helped me find a sexy but not revealing style that I am very happy with.
    Same thing here, except that I've gained 15lbs (I acquire muscle too easily)

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    Oh, and I think I'm better in bed. At first, it ruined my libido, but now, I'm more confident in the sack and I wanna do it more often than ever.

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    Attitude: take what you can grab.
    Confidence: Is figuring out fast your place in the food chain in any given situation.
    Strength: Take no prisoners, take no sh*t. Weakeness: What are YOU lookin' at?
    I LOVE the money. Sigh.
    Regret: that the world is so full of stupid people.
    How do I feel? Doesn't matter. Feelings matter last.
    Men? Obstacle. Tool. Rarely an ally.
    Behavior/ skills? Got the "prison tight" frame in my shoulders.

    Life's not a game. It's a challenge. When you're safe, it's a journey.

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    Your attitude? Honestly, my attitude towards people I know well and care for has not changed at all. My attitude towards strangers on the other hand... has become completely fake. I smile all the time at complete stangers at the grocery store because...thats what I do when I'm at work. You smile at everyone.

    Your confidence? My confidence has gone up A LOT! I don't second guess myself as much anymore about the way I look. I know I'm sexy now, before I never thought I was.

    Your strengths and weaknesses? My strength is probably that I have a girl next door sexy/cute thing going on. I always get told I don't look like I belong there, that I belong in a sorority so guys want to talk to me more sometimes. My weakness... probably that since I'm relatively new I haven't yet figured it all out!

    What do you love the most? The power I have when I'm on the stage or walking around the room.

    What do you regret or would do differently? I would have learned how to hustle better earlier on. This website helped a lot!

    How do you feel about yourself as a women now, as opposed to before you started? I feel stronger now. Like I'd be more likely to take up for myself in a situation. That I know a hell of a lot more than I did before.

    How has your view of men changed? It makes me see how flippin awesome my bf is. Not only as a bf but as a person. It makes me look at guys completely differently. I look at them with dollar signs above their head in the club, and when I'm out of the club.... I see them as pigs. Just being honest. Thats why my bf is awesome, he's perfect

    Have your social behaviors/skills changed noticeably? I do stay in more, I love watching CSI and Law and Order SVU, and every moment of free time I have is spent with my bf telling him how much I love him.... It makes me appreciate him and what we have alot more than before.

    How has your body changed? Not gonna lie... I'm looking pretty fine these days lol. My boobies got bigger, waist got smaller, legs are kickin ass, and my booty is pure hotness lol. I loooove my body now!

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    How has being a stripper changed you?

    Your attitude? I have less tolerance for stupidity.
    Your confidence? I have way more confidence now.
    Your strengths and weaknesses? My strengths are not putting up with BS.My weaknesses are it's an addicting job.
    What do you love the most? The flexibility.
    What do you regret or would do differently? Nothing.
    How do you feel about yourself as a women now, as opposed to before you started? I feel more in control as a woman and can harness my sensuality better.
    How has your view of men changed? Some men are perfect gentlemen,whereas some men are pond scum.
    Have your social behaviors/skills changed noticeably? Yes,I am WAY more outging.
    How has your body changed? I am in the best shape of my life at this point.
    One of woman's cardinal rule: Body parts can be fake,everything else has to be real.

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    I am a really nice person naturally and I have had to be tougher with people. I can't be myself, too nice, because then I attract the clingy customers. I am finally learning to say no and think of myself first.


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    *Your attitude? More paraniod. I think that all men only think with their dicks, and that if a man is being nice to me it is because her wants sex. (but I have yet to be wrong on this, it is always either sex or money that men want from me, I have never known a guy who just likes me for me except for my husband)

    *Your confidence? I'm not fearful of much anymore. I still dislike crowds, but I am very comfortable in my skin.

    *Your strengths and weaknesses? My strengths are that sometimes I feel unstoppable. Like the whole world can kiss my ass, because I am going to do things my way. Weaknesses?? I now smoke ciggarettes, I didn't before dancing. Also I smoke pot regualrly. Narcissism is a bit of a problem too. I think that I am too looks/body focused. Plastic surgery does not seem like a luxury, but a business nessessity.

    *What do you love the most? The ability to work when and where and as much (or as little) as I wish. The ability to be creative and to move my body. The clothes and makeup and Glamour. I feel like a living fiction character.

    *What do you regret or would do differently? Should have been more disiplined in saving more money. Should have learned how to hustle ealier on in my career. Should have become a dancer at a younger age.

    *How do you feel about yourself as a women now, as opposed to before you started? As a woman, no discernable change.

    *How has your view of men changed? Yes, I used to be a real man hater. Now I know that I had just misunderstood how the male psyche functioned. I now know that men aren't just hairy, smelly versions of women, they are different then women in every thought and action.

    *Have your social behaviors/skills changed noticeably? I tend to be more reculsive since being a dancer. I get social overload, and get tired of hanging out in bars. On my days off I will sit in my house all day with a book, or puttering around. I don't want to talk to people or see people. I just like to be alone. I have found that I am like that for a few days, and then I want to be around people again after some time off from work. My friends get frustrated with me because it is hard to get me to go do something outside of my house. Hubby gets frustrated too because he works all alone, and wants more social interaction.

    *How has your body changed? I got breast implants last year. My feet are pretty trashed from the shoes. I have a couple of scars from accidents at work. I am stronger and slimmer then when I first started dancing, but I am heavier as well. I think because I am more focused on my looks as a result of dancing that I am better about keeping my weight in check and hit the gym regularly. I also watch my diet closely because if I don't eat right, I could end up with an injury or illness that could keep me from working.


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    My attitude- I am WAY less passive...interactions with other dancers have taught me this necessity more so than my customers I think. I've learned to skip superfluous apologies, and so I don't come across as such a weakling (cuz I'm not). I have very little tolerance for bullshit, and I have a bad habit of catching people in their lies (well, if they're not going to buy a dance ANYWAY...)

    My confidence- oh yeah, way up. Five months ago I had a panic attack while wearing a bikini at a theme park. Honestly, my friend thought I was dying/crazy. Now I float around naked on stage and feel like a goddess...last week a guy waved me over and said "are you from montreal?" "no" "because you've got that air of a montreal dancer...so confident"...but perhaps it can border onto not narcissism exactly, but I become so mirror focused sometimes...that can't be healthy. It's not so great to think too long and hard about my looks.

    strengths/weaknesses- I still become passive, puny Molly sometimes. I see myself being taken advantage of, and I can't always get away as fast as I should from jerks...I should be better at taking care of myself in that way.
    what I love most- the brown, green, red, and purple papers that fall my way. (we have such pretty money...i never noticed before, hehe)- and frankly, i like to dress up. It IS nice to feel glamourous.

    regrets- that i don't save more/ work more hours...i feel like i could be making more, except for school (important, duh), but honestly, i wish i could make more, and thereby have more to save/donate to charity (although it's my school that makes me charity obsessed)

    as a woman- i thought it would make me feel more grown up, but it hasn't

    about the men- yeah, same. I've always been a precocious girl, chatting up older men (even when i was ten and it was possibly creepy). I feel like my standards are higher for dating, but i always censor myself like, with classmates "oh but how could i date him? could he really handle that i dance? would he tell everybody else?"

    socially- I've been a bit of a hermit all my life. I party occasionally, but yeah, definitely less so. I get sick of making small talk with others because I do so much at work...i guess it's an extension of the 'no bullshit' thing.

    body- well, in the last four months I've gone back to the weight I was at 16, and I'm still not happy with it. But I forgot so long ago what it was like to feel thin- but this probably has more to do with me being sick lately.

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    Your attitude? I'm still sassy old me
    Your confidence? I'm not gonna lie it feels great to know that guys think I'm hot enough that they pay to see me
    Your strengths and weaknesses? I'm really good at being personal, but not to personal and getting guys to spend and I'm a lousy stage dancer, but guys always comment on my willingness to laugh things off and smile alot
    What do you love the most? How easy it is to make money and all the pretty things I get to wear
    What do you regret or would do differently? I would have started dancing sooner!
    How do you feel about yourself as a women now, as opposed to before you started? I am the vp of my colleges feminist organization so I still feel really great about women
    How has your view of men changed? Not much, though I think some of them are really sa now
    Have your social behaviors/skills changed noticeably? Yeah I don't get to go party as much with my buddies, but other than that ni
    How has your body changed? Yeah my legs look great

    In addition: Every song that I hear I automatically think....hmmm could I dance to this?....and Im obsessed with stripper clothes and the art of the hustle now

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    This is a great thread.

    Your attitude? I have always been a positive person, but now I am more postive.

    Your confidence? My self-confidence has been boosted. If I can do this job, I can do anything.

    Your strengths and weaknesses? I feel stronger because I can now support myself and my son easily. We can afford the "extras" and I am saving up for my first home and his college. Weaknesses? Sometimes I get very tired from being a single mom and dancing, but I just take very good care of myself so I can meet my son's needs and the demands of my job.

    What do you love the most? I love being onstage and entertaining. I love the $$$ and the flexible hours. I am completely in control of my own business.

    What do you regret or would do differently? In a way I wish I started when I was younger, as I would have saved myself a lot of financial headaches, but simultaneously I am glad I started when I was 31 because I had the maturity and confidence that helped me do well in this profession and keep out of trouble, as the potential for trouble and drama is great.

    How do you feel about yourself as a women now, as opposed to before you started? I have realized that I am a lot more powerful than I thought.

    How has your view of men changed? It is easy to dismiss customers as being "perverts", and while it is true that some of them are, many are lonely or in bad marriages and they just need a beautiful sweet female to show them some sort of affection, even if it is paid for. I used to be intimidated by men, but now I see they can be just as vulnerable as anyone else. I am definitely more confident in dealing with them. They sense my confidence and they don't cross me.

    Have your social behaviors/skills changed noticeably? I have always been outgoing. I find it is much easier for me to go to industry parties (I am an actress too) and schmooze with peopole I do not know.

    How has your body changed? When I started I had about 15 lbs of baby fat to lose. I didn't look bad, but didn't look great either.
    I have definitely toned up and lost a few sizes ( I am a size S/3 now). I worked my ass off but it was here I found out about Tonalin CLA and that has helped me immensely too.
    Customers took notice and say that it looks like I lost 12-15 lbs since I started, which is a lot since I am only 5'3" (on a good day). I look WAY better now. Yay!
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    How has being a stripper changed you?

    Your attitude?- I have a cynical view of everyone outside the business and of course men in general.

    Your confidence? - My confidence comes and goes. I am 34 and feel out of place most of the time outside the club but feel good inside the club.

    Your strengths and weaknesses? - My strength is that I am the most honest person I know and I can hold my head up in public. Weakness..not trusting of anyone.

    What do you love the most? I love that I did become a stripper even though I never knew one myself. I found out peoples true colors after that..I would have never known how the real world thinks.

    What do you regret or would do differently? Start at a younger age and not be so uncomfortable with it. Started at 26.

    How do you feel about yourself as a women now, as opposed to before you started?
    I am a stronger woman than before..much more protective of myself and values.


    How has your view of men changed?-- LOL..now theres a loaded question. I do believe that men only pay attention to me..just to get in my pants. In my area..MOST women are overweight or obese even much younger ones...so I think it makes me more desirable to some. I believe men are out to get laid no matter what it takes and who they hurt in the process. Even if they are married..etc..
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    Have your social behaviors/skills changed noticeably? YES..I am much more vocal if someone does something or looks at me in a way I don't like. I don't like crowds and being stared at unless I'm getting paid. I don't have any friends and really don't think I want any outside the business..of course friends are hard to come by IN the business too..guess I'm shit outta luck..lol


    How has your body changed? My hair is longer..My boobs are bigger. I am a little heavier from 5' 5" from 98lbs to 113 now. I have had a few more children since I started so I have a few more stretch marks. My right knee is weaker. I look better now than when I started.


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    There are so many things I love about stripping!! Here are some:

    Whatever intelligence, knowledge, passions, hobbies, confidence, humor, etc you bring into this profession can only benefit you and your $$$ when harnessed. You dont have to hide any of it. No apologies. How refreshing. Women are NOT repressed in this business. We can use our entired bag of tricks (pun NOT intended).

    The potential for creativity. I learned that I love to dance--I get soooo happy when I figure out a new dance move or trick!! For someone who used to dance like a chicken... holy shit...I am so proud of myself. I love figuring out new things that draw attention and make me feel beautiful. I also LOVE to put together creative, attractive outfits.

    The flexible hours cannot be beat. i was working three jobs at once, which meant 60-65 hours a week and one day off every two weeks. I have now made in one night what i used to make in a 60 hour week!! I feel like i've bought myself freedom. I have TIME to help people. Time for myself. Time to sit and think. Time to sleep in. wow. what a concept.

    I've learned and am still learning to not compromise on things for myself. I used to be a master at compromising and bending my life around others to make relationships, projects, and finances work. For the first time in my life, I've started asking myself what I want, what I need. It's been small things like buying new clothes for myself when I hadn't in almost 2 years. I dont freak out about turning off lights in the house to save 42.8 cents on my power bill. I can buy roast beef at the deli now because I LIKE it. I turn off my phone now if I want to sleep in. People can wait for me. I cut my hair for the first time in almost 2 years too. I wear makeup when I leave the house. I actually give a damn about what I look like now because I'm entitled to. I was NEVER like this before. I feel like im slowly waking up as a female and as a person to my own will and my own needs. It's a gift I"ve given myself.

    Good friends have commented to me how much more confident I come across as. Wow. That feels so good to hear!!

    My body looks great! My legs are so toned now, and I FEEL strong. My butt looks good too.

    Madmaxine made a great comment about how she views men now. I completely resonate with her. "Obstacle. Tool. Rarely an ally." So true. Think about it.

    The only downside for me is I have a 6am bedtime and rarely see the sun. I have been dancing for two months and can NOT get used to being wide awake in the middle of the night. It gets kind of depressing.
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    Paintgoddess you can even tell by the way you write. Very well-spoken. Thank you .

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    How has being a stripper changed you?

    Your attitude?
    I am more assertive now. I used to be too nice to people and would let them walk all over me.

    Your confidence?

    I am more confident now than when I started. It's a good boost to your ego having guys tell you you're beautiful/hot/sexy every night. LOL

    Your strengths and weaknesses?

    What do you love the most?
    The flexible hours-if I don't feel like working for a week, I don't have to. If a customer is rude to me, I can tell him or her to fuck off or just walk away. In some other jobs, you still have to be nice to them and kiss their ass.

    What do you regret or would do differently?
    I wish I would've started earlier, worked more often, and saved more money. I notice the money is not as good now as it was almost 4 years ago when I first started dancing.

    How do you feel about yourself as a women now, as opposed to before you started?
    I feel more sexy and confident.

    How has your view of men changed?
    It hasn't really changed that much-sure, we see the worst in men, but it doesn't make me think all men are perverts or assholes.

    Have your social behaviors/skills changed noticeably?
    I've become kinda boring and I rarely want to go out to regular bars anymore! When I was 21-22, I wanted to go out to the regular bars and drink every weekend. Now I'll go once a month, if that. Since I work in a bar, I'd rather stay home and watch a movie or play computer games. I've become more of a homebody.

    How has your body changed? When I first started, I toned up a lot because of all the dancing on stage and lapdances, but my body is not at its best right now because of drinking too much, not exercising enough, and not watching what I eat very carefully over the past year or so. I'm currently working on getting back into tip top shape!

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