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    I am sick and tired of the damned Mexicans at the club that DO NOT speak English and think it's Tijuana and can get sex for $40.This *sshat thought he could give me $5 extra on top of the lap dance I was doing so he can do whatever he wanted.After I gave him the freaking dance,he complained and didn't want to pay me because he said I didn't dance for him.He was pulling me into his lap and I couldn't dance and had to fight him off instead.I got the floor man to get the money out of him for me.I F*CKING HATE NO ENGLISH SPEAKING,THINK THEY CAN GET DISCOUNT SEX (or any kind of sex),MEXICAN MEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I really wish that f*cking *ssh*le would drop dead.

    If I offended anyone with this post,oh well.I'm just telling the truth.
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    I've read about other dancers complaining about these dudes. I guess it's pretty normal behavior. Be thankful all your other clients are nice guys like me



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    I guess I'll have to find out for myself if you're a nice guy,Carlos.

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    yuck... i had a similar experience... why do they think they can treat us dancers like that.. this ain't mexico.... they tend to get real touchy feely and don't tip well either.... they would be better off going to a peep show so they don't molest the dancers.

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    I hate strippers who generalize an entire ethnic group of people because they can't walk away from one troublesome customer.

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    I don't think she "generalized" anything...she specifically stated which kinds of customers she hated:

    Quote Originally Posted by onlythebest
    F*CKING HATE NO ENGLISH SPEAKING,THINK THEY CAN GET DISCOUNT SEX (or any kind of sex),MEXICAN MEN
    So, it seems that she has no problem with No english speaking Mexican Men pays for a dance without trying to lick, grab, and finger every part of the dancer.

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    I hate to stereotype, but sometimes you experience something over and over again and you can't help it. I too have this problem with Mexicans. And Indians. Are all this way? No, I've had some good ones, but for every good one in the bunch, there are 15 that totally SUCK.

    And last night it the crowd was majority Mexicans, Indians, ballers, couples, bikers, college kids, and lesbians. All my faves! Thank god for the lawyer that was stuck working on Friday and all his friends and family were out of town.

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    Thankfully I have never had to deal with mexicans(from what i've heard id probably kill them) but I feel the same way about Indians. And I feel really bad sterotyping but i've danced for a lot of Indian men and I have yet to find a single one who doesnt try and rape me in the VIP. And i've had a lot of them try and not pay me after the dance because I wouldnt let them finger me, grab me whatever. Im not racist... I just decided that I am no longer going to dance for them, saves me the hassle and from being a bitch about it. And even still when im walking the floor it seems that its always the Indian men reaching out trying to pinch my ass or grab my tits... I know there are nice guys out there just sadly the majority of their population are assholes that think women are sex slaves.
    OTB I think your best bet is to just avoid them as much as possible, I know its hard when they are the majority of the club that night though

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    There's also a big difference between Mexican men and Latino men.. also there's a big difference between men that are from Cuba and Argentina.

    Right now in the coast and NO's part of the world there are a lot of immigrant Mexican men.. anyone from Texas knows the type. Fresh from across the border. They are here to work, taking up the jobs that most other folks turn their noses up at. They work for cheap and I'm sure are here without the benefit of a green card - most CAN speak English and act like they cant.

    So, these men flood our strip clubs here thinking that it's like "home" and take up space that someone who could really do some good for a dancer ( as in monetary gain ) could use.
    I've had to deal with them and I groan when I see them pile in through the door.. they usually smell bad, look worse and act like three year olds just let out of a basement.

    Personally I wont touch them with a ten foot pole. If that makes me prejudiced for not wanting the not so lovely funk of beans, rice and body sweat on me all night. So be it. I'll accept that label with a grateful sigh. This is just the way it is.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Susan Wayward
    I hate strippers who generalize an entire ethnic group of people because they can't walk away from one troublesome customer.
    It's kind of hard to walk away from someone that hasn't paid you yet and insists he pays AFTER the dance.I had to get a Spanish speaking dancer to help me out as well as the bouncer.

    I hate strippers that hate strippers that assume something other than the reality.Mexican men that are Mexican born and raised that came to the states not long ago at all are the absolute worst customers.I will heed the advice of a very good friend of mine and only stick to people that speak English.

    Crow,I CANNOT agree with you more.Thanks,babe.

    VG,that was very funny and cute.I actually laughed out loud when I read the latter part of your post.
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    I don't blame you girls for hating these guys. Ironically I often don't have to deal with them since they prefer strippers who DON'T look mestizo Mexican (blondes, redheads, Asians). They are so cheap because sex can be had in Mexico for as low as $40 USD. It's a rough life for Mexican women- the men are used to lording over them. Be glad you weren't born down there too LOL.
    Hey, cheap-ass & grabby comes in all colors (Groan) LOL.......

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    I feel for you onlythebest...I have only danced for a few mexican men in the past during harvest season..they usually arrived in a big white van..lol...I mostly deal with jackass rednecks!! Is that generalizing? lol


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    Thanks,doll.Nope,that's not generalizing,LOL.
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    We get a certain amount of these types of customers in my club all the time being in Arizona and I have learned over the years to AVOID THEM LIKE THE BLACK PLAGUE.I really do hate to sound racist but if they are Mexican and dont speak English,its always a struggle to get them to pay and I always feel yucky about my job after 3 minutes of them trying to paw me with thier unwashed hands.....ewwwwwwwwww...But I am glad it's not just me that feels that way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Crow
    I've had to deal with them and I groan when I see them pile in through the door.. they usually smell bad, look worse and act like three year olds just let out of a basement.
    I believe you have successfully described a faculty meeting at the college where I teach.
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    My boyfriend works with a bunch of Mexican guys and he said they have libidos like he's never seen before. Maybe it's not all Mexican guys but the ones he works with are horny 24/7 and I don't mean just like the regular guy. He said they all screw around on their wives. And it's not like the other guys he works with don't like sex or women but he said for some reason the Mexican guys are unbelievable.

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    since we are on the subj

    and im at home killing time ...

    i think most know english. But there are always that small group that likes to cause trouble.,see how far they can get .. etc etc.

    I dated a man years ago that was both mexican and white. Looked like Dave Navarro ..HOT!!

    at any rate he broke it down to me on why a lot of that shit happens in clubs.


    And that most know english well enough to know " no " and body language is universal.

    They simply dont give a shit . It's not a culture thing ..its a personal thing. They dont live here for an extended time ( ranch workers ) , they are getting paid very little and they do know it ( but hey its work. ) So , they have a lil' agression and a bit of a " fuck it all " attitude.

    I avoid :::

    Groups of asian men on buisness trip to the states. And why? because i've sat and watched the handsiest rudest of them all. I've never seen anything good come from those groups. Im not sure whats up with that either.

    Drunk men of any friggin race.

    And any large group that ladies seem to run not walk away from.

    Oh I avoid like hell, The rednecks. Oh yes. See here in good ole Indiana we have races and the worse to work is the brickyard. Unless you like dancing to Skynard, having beer dumped all over you ... someone smacking your ass ..trying to stick fingers in holes and offering you 20 bucks to blow em'.

    Or how about that after football crowd that wanders over to my club after the game. Yep they are almost as bad as the drunk rednecks ...

    & im just going to throw this out there for everyone...

    We can offer up excuses for men that aren't from the US stating ' it's different where they are from "

    Or other races stating its " culture..money "

    So what the hell is the white mans excuse ? Seriously because i encounter way way more freaks, cheap asses ..rude ... drunk ... grabby ..trying to buy pussy for 200 bucks a night white men then I do any and I do mean ANY other race combined.

    I would love to know why they are never pointed it out . All the fucking odd balls that try and bite me, lick me... ask me to stomp their nuts and piss on them are white..not mexican..not black ..not asian

    They have no excuse , and they are the ones I want to beat down just about every frigging night.



    I've also never had anyone other then a white man request his nipples almost get tore off. I've had this now 4 times ..4 different men.

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    Oh,I almost forgot.The same night while I was doing a dance for this other guy,he was asking about VIP and I asked him if that's what he wanted.He was like,"I think I need a kiss from you first and see how I feel about it after.Then,I'll decide".I told him that I have been in the business for over a decade and I am not about to fall for any stupid sh*t like that.The whole time he was like,"Do you have any idea who I am???"I finally told him,"Yeah,you're the guy that wants to have it all for nothing,a cheapskate".It was one of those nights where I should have stayed home.He was one of those,"I rather give you money outside the club" guys.I hate those too.I am in an extremely venting mood lately.
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    Yeah, well that guy has personality issues he doesn't want to deal with and thinks he can canalize them with smart *ss remarks like those



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