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    Having sex with a 'husky' boy: help please.

    OK, first of all, this is not a joke.

    I need some pointers (from men or women) about having sex with a 'big boned' or 'husky' boy.

    I'm about 110lbs and the guy in question is big like a foot-ball player (ok, a very chubby foot-ball player).

    I'm scared to go on the bottom when we finally do it, what if he squishes me??

    Also, he has a relatively small pener, so keep that in mind for your position suggestions.

    Again, this is serious. Ok, thanks in advance for any advice.

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    Default Re: Having sex with a 'husky' boy: help please.

    You are concerned about missionary position? He has to completely support himself, well, almost (there is that one thing you will support); don't use a soft mattress.
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    Default Re: Having sex with a 'husky' boy: help please.

    You on top,the "doggy syle" position. Im sure HE knows how to positon himself assuming hes had sex with a gill before. He might know what works for him best. Good luck!

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    Default Re: Having sex with a 'husky' boy: help please.

    I am around 97 lbs. and my man is about 250 lbs. so I know where you're coming from. We can do the missionary thing but not traditionally. He can't put his full weight on me. He holds himself up on his forearms and will also get on his knees and hold me behind one leg so we get deep penetration but not full weight.

    I'm not squished yet! And you won't be either, LOL.
    Last edited by DylanAngel; 11-30-2005 at 11:41 AM.

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    Default Re: Having sex with a 'husky' boy: help please.

    U should try it both lying on your side and he takes u from behind or good ole doggy style! My fave!!

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    Default Re: Having sex with a 'husky' boy: help please.

    Get one of those "love wedges". It helps support for all kinds of fun positions!!

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    Well, love leads us to places we ordinarily wouldn't think of going.

    Slide a couple pillows under your hips. This gives him more leverage to stay on his elbows and knees, because his hips have to be higher, and also allows for deeper penetration, because he's more perpendicular to you.

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    Ladies that really IS rude actually!

    Like Jay says sounds good! Also if he is wide too, straddling him may hurt your legs, unles you can do splits.

    I would try him from behind, spooning (side) and pillows under your hips as mentioned above, these sound the best so far!

    Have blast trying out NEW positions!!!!

    Pamela

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    Default Re: Having sex with a 'husky' boy: help please.

    You could also try you lying on your back with your legs on his shoulders. This gets your legs out of the way and gives him a little support for when he goes weak in the knees.

    I used to do a big guy, too.

    They may not have the best physique, but they sure know how to cuddle!

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    Default Re: Having sex with a 'husky' boy: help please.

    I actually married a big guy with not-so-big equipment, and he's the best.

    I fluctuate between 103-105 lbs. He is about 260. I've found that you just have to experiment and find what works best for you. I highly doubt you'll get squished. I haven't been yet.

    Doggy's good, Spoon-position works, and various other positions. The only one we can't do is me on top. My legs just won't fit around him.
    Last edited by Rhiannon; 11-30-2005 at 04:32 PM.

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    Default Re: Having sex with a 'husky' boy: help please.

    Quote Originally Posted by Jay Zeno
    Well, love leads us to places we ordinarily wouldn't think of going.
    WELL PUT.

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    Default Re: Having sex with a 'husky' boy: help please.

    I think all the advice here is great it all works, my wife and I have simular issues - well the pener is fine its the body mass thing ! I hold myself up with my arms for the most part face the facts 250lbs is heavy on anyone I dont care if your big or small . I like taking the inside part of the knees over my forearms and holding her in place so her ass lifts slightly off the bed this works great for the final countdown . Stairs are kind of challenging but oh so fun lol . Being creative is what its all about . Oh maybe you want a safe word or words just in case he does decide to drop his mass on you - like get the fuck off me you heavy fucker ! That's what my wife says to me lol .

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    Default Re: Having sex with a 'husky' boy: help please.

    i see there is still hope for me yet!
    fat men of the world unite! some women like em chunky!
    and remember it not the the size of the hook it how you use it!(or your tongue!)
    Baby's, the OTHER other white meat!

    I want my baby back, baby back, baby back.............................................r ibs.

    im damn sexy and you know you want me!

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    Default Re: Having sex with a 'husky' boy: help please.

    I had a big bf once or 2wice and I would either:
    *lie on my back with my legs almost fully bent back in V position and hed go in that way. We were on a higher bed so he could stand while giving it to me.
    *I dont rec. doggiestyle; maybe its cuz I have a big ass. His member could get lost before it makes it to your hole. Im serious here.
    *I used to lie on my side and lift my leg up and hed enter that way
    *On top doesnt really work unless hes fully erect..kinda just slips out
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    Default Re: Having sex with a 'husky' boy: help please.

    Thread cleaned because I had a few guy members approach me today that were seriously offended by comments made. Refrain from making any of those type of comments, please. It's very cruel.

    Nine times out of ten, you can't control who you fall in love with. I know I never could.

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    I'm sorry, Rhiannon. I didn't mean to be offensive.

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    My most beloved boyfriends were large well-fed Midwestern farm boys. Girl on top is the best, you can balance/direct your weight & "cup" yourself where you need to be....or him standing up if you're petite, you can angle your bottom up to meet him & while lying/ leaning on the bed.

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    Default Re: Having sex with a 'husky' boy: help please.

    I found putting a pillow under my back/ass helped, but also did spoon a lot because I too had a hard time getting positioned on top. Being bent over a counter was always the best tho!
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    Default Re: Having sex with a 'husky' boy: help please.

    Ok thanks everyone for the pointers.

    I'll be sure to report back on how it went.

    For the ugly comments that were going to uglify this thread, thanks for taking them off Rhi.

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    Default Re: Having sex with a 'husky' boy: help please.

    Quote Originally Posted by Rhiannon
    Thread cleaned because I had a few guy members approach me today that were seriously offended by comments made. Refrain from making any of those type of comments, please. It's very cruel.
    I saw the comments and I'm, for once, fine with the deletions... But, some people do need to realize that the sentiment is out there, and it's shared by a lot more women than those who were cleaned out of this thread. Demanding something be deleted won't change it.

    I agree that it's cruel, but a lot of things are cruel.

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    Default Re: Having sex with a 'husky' boy: help please.

    ^You're right, It won't change the way people feel. But I just ask that comments like that not be made, because of the people who have been hurt by them. It's the same thing as if someone disses the industry or dancers. We take care of those comments when people are offended. It won't change opinions, but we can control ourselves better than that.

    Back on topic.

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    Default Re: Having sex with a 'husky' boy: help please.

    I feel your pain. In fact, see one of my old threads. I really appreciate all you people who have advised me, but this is how it turned out: I only have time to cook a couple times a week. He's addicted to soda and doesn't have time to work out. I tried to ask him to lose weight and work out, but it never happened. I asked him again the other day, and he said that he doesn't have time because he's working, going to school, and supporting me financially while I'm completing a difficult semester. Yes, he's addicted to soda and has a crap diet and doesn't exercise, but HE DOESN'T CARE. I'll ask him again when I'm on my feet and bringing homw the bulk of the bacon.

    I'm 5'3 115 lbs, he's 6'3 260 lbs. Does your bf have a big gut? That's my problem. It's already a problem that he's so tall that he has to sit up to kiss me while we're making love. Combine that with his bad knee and shoulder which means I'm short on options. Also, weight gain = smaller penis. I've heard that for every 20 lbs that a guy loses, he gains about an inch of penis. That makes sense, as one form of penis enlargement surgery consists of liposuctioning the area around that base of the penis. I've found spooning to be ineffective, even with a body pillow under my hips, b/c he's so much broader than me. Then again, he has a really curvy penis, which makes some positions great but others ineffective.

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    Default Re: Having sex with a 'husky' boy: help please.

    I'm a big guy and I do it on top. I just don't lay on her I get on my knees and lean into it with my arms using the wall, her legs or the bed to hold me up. We do it a lot with me standing on the side of the bed. She don't go on top much it's "too much fun" for me.


    Madcap you are right there are a lot of cruel things and people in the world, but we don't always have to see it do we? I am one of the guys who asked for it to be removed. You don't understand why it hurts and I hope you never will.
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    Did anybody suggest reverse cowgirl?

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    Default Re: Having sex with a 'husky' boy: help please.

    Quote Originally Posted by Krazyjane
    weight gain = smaller penis. I've heard that for every 20 lbs that a guy loses, he gains about an inch of penis.
    This myth is busted! weight gain does not make the penis smaller it makes the body around the penis bigger making the penis "look" smaller. I have lost 105lbs before and if this was true I would be very very well hung, it's just not true.
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