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    There is a girl at my new club who knows ALL the rules, and has appointed herself the keeper of the rules at the club. She is forever pestering me about do I have 2 g-strings on, did I use lotion on my hands, and so on. I made the mistake of mentioning my phone is for "business" purposes, and she had to grill me for that, too. It is driving me crazy. She acts like she is trying to be helpful showing a new girs the ropes, etc, but I get a little nasty snitchy vibe about her. I think she is making up rules, too, but I have no way of knowing for certain. I don't know who I can trust there yet, but I am pretty sure this girl in particular is a big snitch. She has been there a year and seems pretty close to the management. She is also a hypocrite (bragging about getting a regular to blow his load in a no-contact club!) and I feel like telling her "Follow the fucking rules yourself before you come pester me!"

    Anybody else ever have to cope with this? Any ideas?
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    "Did you use lotion on your hands?"
    "Yes! I see you did too - oh no wait, that's a customer's spooge, isn't it?"

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    I've had a cust spooge just as I barely brushed over his lap, sometimes they just spooge, go figure. Don't trust the bitch, I know the type. Keep mouth shut, ass out, and stay away from her.

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    When she "grills" you,just give her a smile.Dont say a word just smile,it will drive her nuts.She wants a reaction,she wants confrontation.Just smile,dont say a word. She cant do anything to you for not talking to her. All's the managment can say (if she bitches that you just smile and dont talk) is umm..."why do you just smile?" you say "because im happy" If the manager asks you same questions then thats another thing.But he wont

    Just smile and drive her nuts.

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    Oh, hahahahaha!!! My first hater was a girl like yours, who was eyeballing me for a reason to get me fired from the club. I just acted dumb as a post and befriended the club staff.....so she never got anywhere with her scheme.
    This biz is full of backstabbing two faced witches. Just cock your eye and go, "Hmmmm? Oh, OK." Nod your head and smile. Then go take her money. LOL

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    Avoid her. If she finds you, do what you do with customers: Play dumb.

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    Just nod and smile. Then go make your money. She's probably REALLY close to the management and you don't want to get mixed up in that drama. Yes, every big club has "one of those". It's best to get all the rules in written form and follow those. If she tries to grill you for anything else...say, "I'd love to sit and chat with you, but there are men out there who want to give me their money..." and walk away.

    Don't be bitchy back, but don't let her affect you, either. You are there for one thing...to make money.

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    My experience with unsolicited advice givers is that they're usually authority freaks who have to be that bossy bitch on top who can subtly or overtly brag about how much better they are than you. People are ok if they do it once in a while when you're new, or if they only give advice when asked. Otherwise, these girls just want to feel superior to someone for a change. I agree, play dumb so she doesn't see you as a threat, but don't take it if she starts bullying you. In such situations, I'd smile sweetly and say, "If it's that important, I'm sure that the boss would tell me."

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    whats the deal with the lotion? sorry dumb aussie ere lol

    id tell her what i thought but thne again thats just me i wont take crap from anyone n i dont think that other should either

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    Quote Originally Posted by Natalia108
    whats the deal with the lotion? sorry dumb aussie ere lol
    Too much lotion on the hands or body from one dancer [or more] can leave a greasy film on the pole or stage, which creates a potentially dangerous situation for the girls that follow her. Same goes with baby oil. Save the greasing up for photo shoots and private parties.
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    Oh my goodness... we have one of those where I work!!! She is always pointing out "nasty" dancers. She has been in the club for two years, and it's the only place she's ever danced, and yet she thinks she's an expert on the club rules and on what is "nasty", which we all know is RELATIVE. It seems like she NEVER has anything nice to say about anyone. SHe makes fun of older dancers. She makesfun of fat dancers. She makes fun of new dancers. SHe even goes so far as to act out what she thinks is "dirty" in the dressing room while ridiculing said girl indirectly. It's as if she's appointed herself to management, telling others no you cant do that, or I dont do that (so neither should you) etc etc. Mind you, we work in a full nude club, and the girl wont even so much as bend over when she's slipping off her thong for fear someone might see her pussy. Um... ok... why is she working in a FULL NUDE club? GRRRR... She tries to be intimidating and condescending.

    Negative energy is dangerous to your money in this business. Girls like this are surrounded in clouds of negative energy. I hate being in the same room as this girl.

    So yeah, I feel ya girl. Krazyjane has some great advice, I think. I say avoid her. Play dumb. If you're worried you're breaking a rule, ask the management in private. I think management respects ya more for this. I've had a few questions myself for the management, and they've had a really good attitude about answering and seemed happy that I asked because of course they like and like to keep around girls that are conscientious of the rules.
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    Interupting her with "Shut up and fuck off" is about as patient as I'd be.

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    ^paintgoddess,

    Lemme guess, she's also the type who says the meanest stuff, but uses excuses like, "I'm the kind of person who speaks her mind," or says, "No offense, but..." and proceeds to cut you down. I refer to those lame excuses the Coward's Disclaimers. Why the hell do people say "No offense" and say something offensive as a get out of jail free card, when they can simply not say anything offensive at all (this does not refer to all cases, but it does apply to things like, No offense, but the reason guys grope you is b/c you give off the signals of a dirty slut and you deserve what you get. However, my shit doesn't stink."). These people might as well claim that they have Tourette's Syndrome if they're going to shoot off their mouths like that.

    We had one girl like that. She was the same bitch who had a hysterectomy at age 19 after the birth of her 3rd child from getting so many STDs, yet called me a dirty slut when she'd meet (and fuck) her customers OTC on a regular basis. She was the type who argued simply to be perverse and to come out as the one on top, even if she contradicted what she said 5 minutes ago. She'd promote herself whenever possible, like she'd talk to any other dancer who listened about things like, "All those men want me out there. I'm their favorite. Did you see those 2 guys who showered me with the stack of bills? Look at me, I'm obviously the top girl here," or, "I can't hustle, I swear to God. I'm just naturally popular here. Only dirty girls hustle, like that scrawny little Jap." (Reality: she was such a scary hustler that some guys would hang out at the bar during her sets). At the club, the barmaid would keep our money until cashout and keep track of how much we made. I saw her pages on a few occasions, and she didn't make nearly as much money as she bragged. She considered herself the leader, and hated any girl who threatened her position. Most of the other dancers hated her, but sided with her when they hated something in common, like me. She was such a goody two-shoes that it made me sick. She'd come up with the most ridiculous accusations and schmooze up to the management.

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    usually these types are the ones with extremely low self esteem who have to make themselves feel better by bossing and putting down other dancers... do your thing, and don't give her reactions when she's trying to order you around... thats all she wants, is some kind of reaction.... i danced with a girl like this.. i used to call her queen b, not to her face but with the other girls... she made herself look stupid but constantly nagging everyone.. this girl needs to worry about her own shit, and not yours.... avoid her like the plague and you'll be fine...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine
    I've had a cust spooge just as I barely brushed over his lap, sometimes they just spooge, go figure. Don't trust the bitch, I know the type. Keep mouth shut, ass out, and stay away from her.
    Best advice!!!!

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    Colleen: please give an update.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine
    I've had a cust spooge just as I barely brushed over his lap, sometimes they just spooge, go figure. Don't trust the bitch, I know the type. Keep mouth shut, ass out, and stay away from her.
    Quote Originally Posted by LOGANLAKEN
    When she "grills" you,just give her a smile.Dont say a word just smile,it will drive her nuts.She wants a reaction,she wants confrontation.Just smile,dont say a word. She cant do anything to you for not talking to her. All's the managment can say (if she bitches that you just smile and dont talk) is umm..."why do you just smile?" you say "because im happy" If the manager asks you same questions then thats another thing.But he wont

    Just smile and drive her nuts.
    ROFLMAO!!!! You guys are awesome. I totally agree with Krazyjane. If someone has to say "No offense..." before they make a statement they should probably be keeping that statement to themselves. That totally annoys me. Girls at my current club bug the shit out of me going "Why are you wearing so much clothes? You're not gonna make any money like that. You're covering too much! You need to show more skin." It's like "If I wanted an opinion I'd ask, thanks." I get so sick of free advice. I work at a club where most of the girls run around in those little ruffle skirts and bikini tops or booty shorts. There's nothing wrong with that but I'm thick and I wouldn't look good in that shit so I'm creative, I go with themes, and I make damn good money. There's nothing more annoying than unsolicited advice.
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    Like venus goddess said, smile and nod. I have known those types of people my whole life. They have psychological issues, and the only way they feel of worth is to feel superior to others. With that type of of person, you just get on their decent side, and their yours! Who knows what she has been through in her life. And it's not your problemo. But get her on your team (which isn't hard), and a little snitch like that will have your back.

    I sympathize with people like that, I have family members like this. Their heads are screwed. They have their own issues. Rise above it, and people like that will recognize it, and appreciate it. Sounds silly, I know. But there is a quick way around that shit.

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    Viva Eva, this is some of the best life advice ever given. My mother is this kind of person, and it's true, you just need to rise above it. Thanks for putting into words what I was thinking!

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    You think she's making up rules? If so then get with management for a "refresher" since you're at a new club. Most clubs I've worked at have had a handout with the rules or they were covered by management when I was hired. I've noticed that even if a club is down the block form another one things can be different. Then if she tries to tell you something that isn't correct, you can tell her that you've already covered that with management.

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