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    Default Frequency of hard-ons during lap dances.

    I have a really dumb question but this is something I really, really want to know. (I don't give lapdances) Both guys and girls are welcome to chime in. My question is:
    1. When a guy is going to the club with their buddies (not alone) what do you think is the percentage is of guys who get hard during lap dances?
    2. Also, is there a difference, percentage wise of guys who get hard during lap dances if they go alone?
    3. If there are any guys here, do you tend to whack off after going to the strib club?

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    p.s. One of the reasons I want to know is guys always tell their girlfriends "I'm just going because my buddies want to. It's just for a laugh"

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    I would be surprised and offended if I gave a guy a lapdance and he didn't get hard. That's kind of the whole point. I don't get them off, but I do expect to get them hard; if I don't turn them on, then why would they buy the dance?

    Plus, as the saying goes, G-d gave men two brains but only enough blood to run one at a time. If he's thinking with his little head, I'm more likely to sell more dances!

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    1) A good lap dance definitely results in a 'standing ovation'.

    2) I can't imagine a guy's erection (or lack thereof) depends on whether or not he came to the club with friends.

    3) As for going home and masturbating over it? Nah. For me, the fantasy's nothing more than a pleasant memory by the time I walk out the door. Of course, I go home either WITH or TO my wife. I suppose if I were single my answer might be different.

    3B) Theoretically speaking, if the purpose was purely sexual arousal to result in an orgasm... I'd hire a prostitute instead of getting a lap dance and going home for self-service. It's less expensive and sex is most often better with a partner.

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    Definitely a large number more than half get hard.
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    Quote Originally Posted by angelina
    p.s. One of the reasons I want to know is guys always tell their girlfriends "I'm just going because my buddies want to. It's just for a laugh"
    Yeah, Joe tells his gf: "I'm just going because Harry wants to"

    and Harry tells his gf: "I'm just going because Joe wants to"

    lol

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    I don't go with other guys. They always embarass me.

    I get erections with all of my favs. The only time I try a new girl is if I get an erection BEFORE she starts dancing for me.

    I don't go home and spank the monkey. For that, I need some good internet porn.
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    1. I don't go with other guys - or if I do, I don't get lap dances with them around.

    2. Since I don't get lap dances with friends around, that percentage is zero. On my own, the percentage is not 100%, because there are such things as crappy dances.

    3. I don't go home and whack off. But the sex that night can be quite good.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah
    I would be surprised and offended if I gave a guy a lapdance and he didn't get hard. That's kind of the whole point. I don't get them off, but I do expect to get them hard; if I don't turn them on, then why would they buy the dance?

    Plus, as the saying goes, G-d gave men two brains but only enough blood to run one at a time. If he's thinking with his little head, I'm more likely to sell more dances!
    Let me state that while the subject is on the table, its not wise to measure success by how much Mr. Happy has ballooned up. He can fail to balloon up for all sorts of reasons totally unrelated to how excited the man he's attached to is.

    Not to be critical of anyone's performance, but on the whole I've frankly gotten better wood upon waking up in the morning than I've gotten from lap dances. I often find myself tired at the club due my work schedule, the dark atmosphere in the club, so my sail isn't always up at full mast. (A little rest can go a long way).

    I find some gals get a little upset that they don't feel much response down there, and they start grinding/bouncing even harder.

    So if you can't feel a custy down there, don't worry about it. If he keeps buying dances, consider himself turned on, and your efforts a success.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah
    I would be surprised and offended if I gave a guy a lapdance and he didn't get hard. That's kind of the whole point. I don't get them off, but I do expect to get them hard; if I don't turn them on, then why would they buy the dance?

    I was going to say the same thing

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    Doc-Catfish, I know you're right. I just meant as a general rule.

    I have noticed a big difference in the number of guys who bulge a bit more and those who pitch a huge tent. I'd rather have the former but I don't mind the latter since it usually comes in more money - and the money is how I measure my success.

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    Quote Originally Posted by angelina
    I have a really dumb question but this is something I really, really want to know. (I don't give lapdances) Both guys and girls are welcome to chime in. My question is:
    1. When a guy is going to the club with their buddies (not alone) what do you think is the percentage is of guys who get hard during lap dances?
    2. Also, is there a difference, percentage wise of guys who get hard during lap dances if they go alone?
    3. If there are any guys here, do you tend to whack off after going to the strib club?

    I'm no more inclined to beat the meat after a visit to a strip club than I am after going to any other bar or club.

    I usually get a woody in the VIP, because the girl dancing for me interested me to begin with. So, I think she's hot, then she's grinding on me.......naturally I get a boner.

    Who I'm at the club with makes no difference.

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    We have a lot of men come into our club that are 50 yrs. old and above. I would say half of them get an erection. Most of the younger guys always do.

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    I find it happens alot more often if the custy is visiting the club alone.

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    Quote Originally Posted by greenidlady1
    We have a lot of men come into our club that are 50 yrs. old and above. I would say half of them get an erection. Most of the younger guys always do.
    Im several years past 50 and get frequent erections both inside and outside the club. Im happy to be on the positive side of your informal census. Being on the negative side would compell me to take those damn ED drugs which could interact in a negative way with all the other drugs I have to take to keep me alive.

    As far as the younger guys go...I would hope so. Whats the point of being young if you cant pop a boner upon command?

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    Lol, FBR, the sad thing is that a lot of these "younger guys" want to take Viagra to see how it will affect them. I keep telling them, you might actually need it one day and you will want it to work then, stop playing around. My husband said he was going to try it, lol and he definately does not need it. I said I would buy a chastity belt also.

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    1) I fly solo 95%, but it doesn't matter.
    2) I get hard for just about everyone, however I wear boxer briefs and don't always adjust, so am low and away. For the dancer to feel it i need to be at least high and inside (baseball reference you pervs).
    3) when the wife is out for a while, before and after, or I soil my pants, and wakeup in the middle of my sleep with a deep pain in the balls. If I go from work, I'll rub one out right when I get home so I can handle a round of sex if it comes up later.

    I rub one out at least daily anyways, I get backed up if I don't and shoot chunks. I usually use internet porn for thatl, after all, I'm a retired op of #xxxpasswords on Undernet.

    I don't tell my wife shit, she'd just want to go with, and that would be to awkward for me.

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    My bf and I have really only gone to sc's together and he's gotten a hard on everytime. It doesn't really bother me, b/c I would imagine he gets a random hard on when he sees a fully clothed good-looking chick walking down the street. That's just how guys are. It doesn't have to be at an sc for him to have a hard on for someone aside from me.






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    Quote Originally Posted by greenidlady1
    Lol, FBR, the sad thing is that a lot of these "younger guys" want to take Viagra to see how it will affect them. I keep telling them, you might actually need it one day and you will want it to work then, stop playing around. My husband said he was going to try it, lol and he definately does not need it. I said I would buy a chastity belt also.

    haha when you get to be my age, any medicinal drug you DON'T have to take is greeted with a sigh of relief

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah
    I would be surprised and offended if I gave a guy a lapdance and he didn't get hard. That's kind of the whole point. I don't get them off, but I do expect to get them hard; if I don't turn them on, then why would they buy the dance?
    well then you might be offended if you gave me a lap dance. I have never ever gotten aroused by lapdance in a strip club. don't know why not. the girls are always like don't you like it or whatever. I do. whenever I got one from one of my g/f no problems. A girl giving a "lap dance at a regular club no problem. I must be tenser when at a SC or something.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fearless
    well then you might be offended if you gave me a lap dance. I have never ever gotten aroused by lapdance in a strip club. don't know why not. the girls are always like don't you like it or whatever. I do. whenever I got one from one of my g/f no problems. A girl giving a "lap dance at a regular club no problem. I must be tenser when at a SC or something.
    Based on not getting wood from a dancer, Id probably stay away. Alchohol, food etc is much cheaper at a regular bar.

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    Well I must admit that the wood has not happend in a strip club for me - I dont know why as I am very aroused maybe its just the fact people are around I dont know . The other night during a ld I was very close but who knows why it didnt happen. Now I dont have a problem with getting it up ( and keeping it up ) during sex . I just dont have a good reason during a ld ??

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    Fearless, you're right. Now that I stop to think, I suppose there have been customers I've danced for who have had a wonderful time but no visible wood. As long as you are apparently enjoying yourself and being respectful, I'm sure it's all good!

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    Quote Originally Posted by CuriousJ
    Well I must admit that the wood has not happend in a strip club for me - I dont know why as I am very aroused maybe its just the fact people are around I dont know . The other night during a ld I was very close but who knows why it didnt happen. Now I dont have a problem with getting it up ( and keeping it up ) during sex . I just dont have a good reason during a ld ??
    CJ I hear what you are saying...often times LD/VIP areas are way too crowded I suppose Ive gotten to the point where I can ignore the activities going on around me. I figure if Im unable to have a normal male physical reaction to a hot stripper because of distractions around me, I might as well just check out porn on the internet. Its free.

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    The reasons for not having having increased blood flow to the corpa cavernosa are many and varied:

    Alcohol.
    Dehydration.
    Nervousness/anxiety.
    Guilt.
    Lack of interest.

    And so on. The range will go from "always aroused" to "never aroused" with most guys falling somewhere between those two extremes. But even if one is not aroused, it still feels pretty nice to have a naked, pretty girl giving you attention.

    Age is definitely a factor. I'm about 94 years old - lost count a couple decades ago - and still don't take a single medication. But there's less body activity going on, definitely, than when I was 20. Or 30. Or 40. Had to happen, I guess. Still not to the ED drugs yet, thank goodness.

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