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    Angry Frusturated horrible night

    Im thinking why the hell havent i made more than 150. One of my friends made $500 by 11 pm. This makes me pissy and want to leave early. HOw can i get myself to keep up and keep up the hustle. This other girl left with $1020. Not too sure if that was extras or not. Uhhh... also i actually started asking if they wanted company and i get more "no's" now than ever. SO what should i say as i walk up?? I definitely need to attend dancer wealth.

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    I hardly use "would you like some company" anymore. Why? It doesnt work for me. Most of the time now Ill say something funny or sexy to them. Or ..I come out with a "are you guys having fun tonight?" and theyll ask my name and Ill bend over and say my knees are hurting and they have me sit. Or "mind if I relax next to you my feet are killing me"...whos gonna say no to a pretty girl with hurting feet?
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    It depends on the overall mood in the club. If it's quiet, I'll either walk up and say, "May I join you?" or just start saying hi and talking like we're already friends. If the club is crowded and "party like", I'll walk up and start dancing a little and lay on the super heavy flirting.

    Don't worry about the slow nights, even if others are doing well. I just try to remind myself that we all have our nights. There have been nights that I've made bank and the other girls haven't done so well. It happens.

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    If your getting that many no's it probably because your bad mood is obvious to the customer. For an instant good mood I do the thymus thump (take a deep breath, think of someone you love, and exhale while thumping your thymus gland, right between/a little above your breasts... if your doing it right you'll make a little huh huh huh sound). It makes happy chemicals in your body. Smile and flirt with your eyes before you get to them, then sit down and ask, "you don't mind if I sit down, do you?" or bend over to introduce yourself and then after a second say that your feet hurt.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Lena
    If your getting that many no's it probably because your bad mood is obvious to the customer. For an instant good mood I do the thymus thump (take a deep breath, think of someone you love, and exhale while thumping your thymus gland, right between/a little above your breasts... if your doing it right you'll make a little huh huh huh sound). It makes happy chemicals in your body. Smile and flirt with your eyes before you get to them, then sit down and ask, "you don't mind if I sit down, do you?" or bend over to introduce yourself and then after a second say that your feet hurt.
    What excellent advice! Here's my variation on that...

    Go somewhere where you can be by yourself. The bathroom stall is usually a good bet, since dancers go in & out of the dressing room. (If you can, sit down) Close your eyes, focus on your breathing, and *envision* yourself going out there, having a good time, smiling, giggling, and looking great. Think about the things that you need to do to have those moments -- think about good lines in advance, cute comebacks, etc. After a few minutes of sitting and letting both your mind and body relax, come out refreshed and ready to hit the flloor again.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Xmacknmadix
    Uhhh... also i actually started asking if they wanted company and i get more "no's" now than ever. SO what should i say as i walk up?? I definitely need to attend dancer wealth.
    I'm curious....who are you approaching? I do much better approaching older gentlemen like, "hi My name is Noelle" shakes hand "and what is your name" Whereas with young boys I'll say, "what's up" with a smile.

    Also, I'm like known to be the ONLY dancer at my club who actually smiles. As in showing teeth Majority of the girls walk around with this mean mug on all night. Oh, and make sure you aren't standing around sulking and having your arms crossed. Smile, Smile, Smile..that always works for me. It shows your sincerity.







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    I think that sometimes custy's interpret "Would you like some company?" as "Do you want a dance?" I've found that "Hi, I'm ____ can I join you?" and motion to the seat next to them works better than "Would you like some company?"
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    I spent a year working in Houston. Besides the extras guys seek, money there is made in lump sums. Most girls who work 8 hours make all of their money off of several customers, many times off of just one. Some days one girl will land a guy or two who spend a couple hundred dollars, and other days they will go home with $50. That is the way it is there.

    Don't worry so much about how much other girls make. Just because 2 girls made $500 plus doesn't mean everyone but you did, right? Be thankful you made $150 (is that after tip outs?). You'll have your days/nights where you will hit $500.

    Yes you should take the Dancer Wealth class. But you have to keep in mind that Houston clubs are set up for big spenders, and not table to table dance selling. Some days/nights you will get them and others you won't. Plus the amount of girls working sometimes hurts the money.

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